Emotionalmosquito

Is that because of the reduced energy that comes with age or because it’s seen as socially weird to run game on younger girls? That’s why getting laid for those of us with the more autistic brain type is harder than sniping a chia seed with a BB gun from across a football field while blind folded. Is it not just comically absurd how the gender dynamics are set up in such a way than the guys have to flawlessly jump through miles upon miles of obstacles with the end goal of getting laid when all the girls in question have to do is make the decision once she’s deemed him worthy? That’s why it seems spontaneous and unplanned to them, because they aren’t the ones who have to put in 95 percent of the work to make it happen

@Princess Arabia @PurpleTree You people are taking that too literally. The panties thing was just a fun way to say sex Aka SIMPS. Simps are the exact opposite of high value

So basically you treat them like sex objects and that’s what they act like back towards you? Teach me. But you also have to admit women are the ones with most of the power when it comes to the night life scene and dating in general, and they can be pretty nasty themselves to guys with suboptimal social skills or just guys that don’t look so good. That might be one reason why the skilled dudes like to be mean, to help even the odds so to speak. @StarStruck True. And I can definitely see how karma would come into play

@something_else actually I’m stationed in Midwestern US. Expenses could be much worse if I was in a huge city or along a coastline, or god forbid married with kids ?? But even though things could be much worse that doesn’t mean it’s not already completely undoable as is. I can’t remember the exact stat but I think it’s something like a whopping one third of millennials are financially unable to move out of their parents house even with jobs

All the self love in the universe won’t be enough to get girls to throw their panties at you. You need serious skills and high value to achieve that.

@something_else you literally cannot save any money at all if you’re like most people. Between gas, food and rent alone you’re left with absolutely zero money to spare so how is saving possible? I would have it made if I was living in my own place AND able to save 20 percent of my income

I don’t need any more self love, I already have plenty of it and it’s not getting me anywhere. What I need is results.

When they don’t pretend to have a boyfriend during your conversation

Actualized . org also says to talk to more people to get better at talking to people so it’s not really opposite, it’s the same

So in other words pretend like you’re not attracted to her at first? What about the fact that they already know exactly why you’re there the moment you start talking? Seems like being vague about it would just make you come off as dishonest.

Two words: retroactive consent. Unfortunately it does not even matter if if she’s sober or not or how much evidence you have of her consent. At any point in the future she can withdraw her consent and boom, you’re paying thousands of dollars on a lawyer just to increase your chances of not getting locked up for 5-10 years. Not only that but even just physical escalation on the initial approach can get you a sexual harassment charge if you don’t know exactly what you’re doing. And how could you if you’re a noob at pickup? Trying to get a girlfriend in the current era is like playing with fire.

We literally built everything from the ground up and all the modern luxuries of today for them, and now they’re trying to say they don’t need men. Watch the Barbie movie.

You’ve got it sooo backwards, my friend. Women only love us based on what we can provide and our performance as a man. They care about our status, our intelligence, (intelligent, high status men meant better survival in the past) they care about how many other women want us. To back this up, try wearing a wedding ring a few nights out and compare how into you the ladies are vs when you aren’t wearing one. You’ll be shocked. Good luck finding a girl that doesn’t think you’re a total freak for not having much or any social media presence. Now does that sound like a deep, soulful form of love or does it sound shallow and materialistic as hell? If women are by and large these wonderful creatures, why is it so many of them divorce rape us and demand tons and tons of alimony/child support and deprive us of spending time with our kids then not give a single fuck about our suffering when we end up in absolute financial ruin and suicidal depression or in jail for failing to make the ridiculous payments? https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/dating/marriage-rates-decline-reason-economically-attractive-men-jobs-income-a9098956.html Heres an article to show you what really matters to most women. Imagine a financially stable business woman gets approached by a Starbucks barista guy. Then imagine a wealthy businessman meets a Starbucks barista girl. Which scenario do you think is more likely to lead to a relationship? Men are the true love junkies. We love our women so fiercely we would do anything to protect them. We love and honor their minds, spirits and every last molecule of their bodies from scalp to sole. The intoxicating effect of their affection would be a schedule 1 controlled substance if it were to be put in pill form. From personal experience, I can honestly say the very few instances where women have given me positive attention and affection were so mind numbingly blissful the only thing that exceeds it is a powerful psychedelic experience of universal oneness. Women simply do not love us back with that level of intensity. They aren’t built that way. The first half of my post proves it.

@Leo Gura College campuses?? Aren’t the campus cops gonna inevitably show up to ban me when they notice a guy that doesn’t even attend the college going around talking to all the girls? Keep in mind staff members of bars have barked up my ass and even banned me for joking around about stuff that literally isn’t even half as bad as some of what you’ve gotten away with. If one single person complains about me for whatever reason I’m toast.

This describes me perfectly. Except I don’t need the girls to be exceptionally hot (although that would be great) At least equal to me in attractiveness is good enough. It’s literally the only thing I want anymore, family, friends, career, money, adventure, self care, spirituality, freedom, love, connection, none of it means shit to me. I am beyond obsessed with the female body and all of its functions. The desire to bang tons of chicks and try out various kinks has become so strong it’s basically all I can think about anymore. And if I can’t have it? Well let’s just say I have absolutely zero interest in living another 60+ years in this rotten piece of shit world that treats me like garbage just for trying to bury my face in some prime healthy ? Number 1 problem for me right now is I don’t live in a big enough city where I have a sufficient amount of women to practice pickup on. Don’t have the money energy or recourses to move out.

Everyone keeps saying that. For the last time, it doesn’t work that way! I wish it was that easy but unfortunately it’s far from it. It doesn’t matter how much fun you’re having, if the other person isn’t enjoying themselves as well, the interaction dies. For this reason, you have to sacrifice what you find fun and humorous for what they’re comfortable with. You gotta remember 95% of the planet is nowhere near as open minded and chill as we are so you can’t just be yourself like it’s no big deal. It freaks people out.

That’s a good idea. Learning = observation

Most hilarious thing I’ve read all week! The NPC turbo normies of bars and clubs (both staff and patrons) are no exaggeration the absolute worst fucking people I’ve ever had the misfortune of having to deal with. There is no not being judged or having any fun when you’re constantly having to walk on eggshells to avoid being kicked out, the only reason it’s necessary to go to those places is for the chicks. Problem is you have to matrix your way through a storm of bullets to make any progress with them. What about when three girls in a row recoil in disgust from you trying to dance with them so not only are you insecure about that, but now you’ve got dickhead bouncers coming up to you like “Hey buddy, we can’t have you scaring the ladies! You gotta leave!” ?

Julien Blank says it’s ok to be adhd about it and jump around from topic to topic erratically.

Not that simple because it doesn’t always cause problems that’s thing. But it usually does. If I slip up and say a wrong thing it’s not like I can apologize or redo it, I’m permanently on the ick list. You can be well behaved while also having your own kind of fun and humor, two things the normies think are mutually exclusive. So you can only feel free to talk about whatever if you’re already one of the cool kids? That’s messed up

Not true at all. If you’re saying anything dirty or joking about anything even a little bit weird or inappropriate at all it doesn’t matter how much fun you’re having girls will still be turned off by it for the most part. Guys tend to be a lot more open minded and cool about being wild and free and expressively yourself. Bars and clubs are filled with the worst people ever. You basically have to be a fucking robot to be accepted in those places. Raves on the other hand, those are what bars and clubs wish they could be.

I’ve had this idea for some time now where I’ll make my cold approach consist of showing the girl or girls some tiktoks about a topic in which I’m very interested in order to facilitate a conversation of something I thoroughly enjoy hearing women talk about and to possibly (but not necessarily) steer the interaction towards an invitation for her to do something to me. (I don’t want to say exactly what it is as not to overshare) I know that me saying I don’t want to share it makes it seem like that’s obviously the reason I shouldn’t be doing it but trust me when I say it really isn’t that bad at all, especially considering girls are making viral videos about it. I’ve only field tested this once and it went ok, not great but not at all bad either. Here’s the kicker: As per the title, she literally told me this idea might get me arrested for sexual harassment! Wow. As if I needed any more reasons to be paranoid and terrified around women than I already have. I’m not mad at her. In fact I appreciate her being honest enough to tell me what she really thinks, but goddamn. Is nothing at all acceptable anymore besides just talking about the most boring, vanilla stuff there is? Just let that sink in. Basically what my therapist told me was that a girl can actually get me put in fucking jail for no more than making her feel a little uncomfortable. If that isn’t oppression then what is? Are women at risk of being arrested for talking to men about stuff they’re uncomfortable talking about? It’s not like I’m planning on relentlessly pestering girls about it. If they don’t want to discuss it with me that’s fine. Do I deserve to be incarcerated for showing a girl a tiktok video I like? Keep in mind the content in question isn’t even close to being inappropriate enough to think that would be necessary. If I could tell you what it is you’d see how utterly ridiculous of a thought that is. If anyone can help me out here I’d be grateful because the idea that i absolutely cannot be myself or talk about the stuff I’m passionate about with girls especially but also just people in general does not sit well with me at all.

Sure hope not. Big part of why I made this thread is because I can easily see this coming to pass in some places. Society as I’ve experienced it seems to be very fertile soil for such policies to be rolled out. The level of consciousness that proposes these kinds of ideas is all over the place and it’s really bad in the west. A lot of why modern dating sucks so much can be attributed to this way of thinking.

Anybody want to explain this massive load of BS? Obviously legit sexual harassment and being genuinely threatening should be punishable, but this? In what sane society would even the idea of such a thing not be immediately dismissed as utter hogwash? Apparently they’re actually trying to get this kind of shit passed into law. Imagine facing a seven year sentence because some woman overheard you telling your mates about the fun night you had with that girl from the club last weekend, or facing five years because you said something rude to your girlfriend or wife. This is the textbook definition of oppression and all it’s going to accomplish is pitting the genders against each other even more than they already are and lower the birth rate even further. We are well on our way to a full blown female dominated dystopian nightmare.

As long as you would also say the same goes for girls, fair enough. Personally I don’t think we should be restricting anyone like that. Here in the states, such laws would be a direct violation of our first amendment (freedom of speech) But if other countries have to pass some bs laws, at least make them not biased by gender, race etc.