Emotionalmosquito

Absolutely right. But I don’t say it like that. I just talk about it normally, some are ok with it but most aren’t. It’s about 80-20 roughly and I don’t bring it up every single time. I only used that one fascination of mine as an example of why the PUAs are wrong when they say it’s a good practice to be totally filterless. I enjoy all manor of taboo subject matter. I think of it more like this: grl 1: Hey my period is killing me but I can’t tell any men because they’re all squeamish about it grl 2: awww sweetie I’m sorry, I have an extra pad, im here for you. Sometimes it’s only us girls who can support each other. Ughhh, men are just so inconsiderate! (This or some variation x1000) guy: Hey ladies, I’m a male and I’m not bothered by it one bit, I’m down to talk about it in depth from a completely nonjudgmental standpoint. I hate that y’all are shamed and made to feel like you have to hide your natural monthly cycle. I actually know a lot about it as well! girl 1 and girl 2: EWWWW!!!!🤮🤮🤯😫 Get the hell away from us you disgusting freak! Crawl back into your hole and die you weirdo! Of course usually they aren’t that mean about it but they probably wanna be

Yes I am. Most people are. Most people don’t deserve that kind of sickening, degrading bullshit, they only do it because they think the money is worth the sacrifice. It’s not a matter of self pity, it’s a matter of self respect. You mentioned something about lacking self respect as being why people aren’t willing to spend money on programs to self improve; the way I see it, wage slaving is a massive form of self betrayal. Nobody who highly values themself would put up with such torment unless they absolutely have to. You either have self love or you surrender your balls to the devil and take it up the corn hole while onlookers sarcastically yell boo hoo at you. Wagecuckery is absolutely poisonous to the soul and in turn the body, I can’t stress that enough! It turns normal, healthy individuals into sick, sorry, depressed shadows of their former selves. Do I really need to be pushed even further into that state than I already am? Imagine what that does to someone’s “vibe” and how it affects their pickup practice. It took a ten day vipassana retreat to reverse the damage of two months at my first and hopefully only wagie job. I can roam the city doing pickup until the cops eventually put an end to it because they start getting calls about a creepy guy ““HARaSsInG”” the women. I hope with all my heart that doesn’t happen but I know how “people” are. Might get into shock value stand up comedy. I can find free stuff to do. “Feeling too good” to me is no different than having self respect. Idk where ur drawing the distinction. And yes, rotten humanity it is indeed. We’re talking about creatures who blame you for shit that’s not at all your fault and that you have no control over, expect you to do multiple tasks simultaneously and quickly then get pissed off when you fail or goof up, holler at you for doing something a different superior tasked you with instead of what they tasked you with, then later the first superior comes back and gets even angrier because you switched tasks even though the other one told you to (hopefully i said that clearly enough) Then they won’t even listen and blame you even more when you tell them to stop splitting you in different half. They’ll bully you and each other and pass it off as friendly banter then when you come back at them with the same energy, suddenly you’re the bad guy. Also you’re the bad guy if you defend against it. That only scratches the surface. If I’m a self loathing pussy for not eagerly participating in that social hell, then i guess I’m a pussy. You don’t seem to understand that all I know is butt kick receiving. I already get it from everyone and everything except friends and family. So that’s obviously not it or I’d be better by now. What I need more than anything else is a few different semi hot gfs out of which to extract as much love and affection as possible each for a few months to revitalize my systems like nothing else can. Maybe Santa will bring me one or two for Christmas next month.

What a tragic predicament we find ourselves in. With both sexes not trusting each other it’s no surprise why birthrates are below replacement level in many countries now

@The0Self great thanks 👍 I’ll get on that. I’ll let you know when I find any if the universe hasn’t reverted back to stardust by then X D

@The0Self True. I just need to get better at knowing what different peoples triggers are @Princess Arabia I don’t really understand it but some girls think they’re connected somehow Exactly what I’ve been saying. That’s why it’s so tricky, because they often times won’t even reveal the truth about what they really think/feel about what you’re saying. So you gotta develop a sixth sense to detect it

That can’t possibly be true. I get in arguments with women all the time and all it does is make them hate me. That’s exactly right. Which is why marriage is a huge huge no no for boys. It automatically transfers 90% of the power in the relationship into her hands. A brutal divorce can absolutely destroy a man beyond repair. @kray Completely agree. Nothing hotter than having a fuming pissed off chick on your hands, especially if it’s sexual frustration. Bonus points if you say something like “must be that time of month” when she’s already on edge. You will be in heaven! 🥰 Maybe literally! Also find crying to be quite sexy

Not even the first date, the very first approach. Which mind you some of them are ok with, or at least they pretend to be. I’ve discovered it’s impossible to tell cool people from squares just by looking, even after small talking for a bit you still can’t quite tell what’ll scare/piss them off. That must be why you’re better off just being boring until you know for sure what their limits are. Lord knows you can’t just ask because that in itself would be considered weird. Of course it can’t be that easy. Depressing it is but that’s life. Btw what about the video I posted? With as squeamish as they are about the subject their brains will probably explode once they find out it can potentially save millions of lives and cure all types of serious ailments. Too much cognitive dissonance for them. Come to think of it I haven’t yet tried presenting the subject in that frame! 💡

I don’t have any evidence to believe there’s more than zero 😔 💀

@Thought Art can’t blame u. Clearly made for crazy chicks

Also that guy “1st person approacher” wasn’t the least bit threatening. All he did was approach like anyone else, only difference was he was on a bike. He was also very polite, respectful of boundaries and left as soon as they rejected him.

How do you find escorts? I want one but I’m worried about it being a sting op. And I just don’t know how to find one at all

What? It blows my mind that people have to be so stuck up and bitchy about such basic life functions, it gives me the ick. It would be different if I was saying stuff like “Heyy girl lemme guzzle down that red goo through a beer bong”, but I’m not. I don’t see how simply talking about periods normally or about how science has now discovered menstrual fluid to be the next leap forward in modern medicine is on the same level of repulsive as saying how much you like to finger your asshole. Well shit dude, if it was that easy pua wouldn’t even be a thing. Kids are the easiest in the world to vibe with, you barely even have to think and they actually laugh at your humor. Girls on the other hand, they might as well be an extraterrestrial life form. Yes they absolutely do. And NEVER ask if she’s on hers when she’s clearly frustrated about something unless you’re prepared for a fight. LOL It matters because they spread around their negative perception of you like a plague which then hurts your chances with other girls How is whispering in someone’s ear or making a dirty uncalibrated joke on the same level as something someone planning to do something seriously harmful would do? It’s not that at all. My problems are so serious and painful I’m on the verge of signing out for good. It’s not about an unwillingness to spend money. It’s an inability to get money at all or fast enough. I have no skills, live with parents who’re running out of energy, I’m 27, have tons of addictions each one far too strong to break, so full of bitterness and resentment it oozes out everywhere I go. Literally how the hell do i even begin to make any progress from here? Forget about making enough money to travel and do programs/workshops and such. Should I get a minimum wage cuck job with a dick head boss and rotten pieces of human fucking garbage coworkers that shit on me for not knowing how to do the job perfectly and making lots of mistakes because I’m a slow learner? And do this on top of my mountain of addictions and already zero patience for human bullshit? Can’t we just admit that the astronomical demands of life are simply far too challenging for some people to ever hope to conquer? Some people just aren’t cut out to handle this much strain. Its also not a self respect problem, I have plenty of it. In fact that might just be exactly the problem. Only a self hating masochist could put themselves through the hell of grinding their way out of a position like mine. Doing self actualizing work is the emotional equivalent of stabbing a long serrated knife up my cock and twisting it while everyone watches and tells me to just lighten up and be myself.

Always gotta be the men’s fault, right?You can do all the “stepping up” in the world but if the women are neglectful, the women are neglectful. Men are the ones being subjected to brutal rejections and countless humiliations from hundreds and hundreds of approaches before they finally start getting better results with women. That’s stepping up if you ask me. You can’t blame them for getting bitter and resentful and checking out of the game because of all the bs. Would women be willing to endure that much hell if the roles were reversed? They get emotionally wrecked when they get turned down by the guy they liked, not realizing that rejection is ninety nine percent of the game for us unless we have exceptional LMS or charm. Can we at least compromise by saying the problem is some combination of both genders being at fault?

Exactly, it shouldn’t matter if I talk about that if I’m socially calibrated but that’s just it. I need to learn how to calibrate but it’s hard. There lies the problem. I do need massive experience and over a thousand approaches to learn how to get girls but there literally isn’t enough people to practice on. It would help tremendously if I could just do reruns on the same girls but they will not take kindly to that, neither will their boyfriends, dads, brothers, other women, the cops and so forth. Once rejected you must look elsewhere, which sucks because I’m so bad at this I WILL run out of targets long before ever improving sufficiently, then what? This is a serious problem that I still have no solution to. I’m sure it all balances out ultimately but the gender dynamics of modern times would suggest women have lots of unfair societal advantages against men, but that’s its own thread. This is very hard to accept. All I see is evidence of the contrary. If that’s true, why would they shit talk you with their friends behind your back AFTER you’ve left and the interaction is over? Why point you out to the bouncer to get you kicked out for making harmless little mistakes if they aren’t worried about your goof ups? Something else made a thread about this happening to him. Heck, sometimes they’ll even film you so they can have creep shaming circle jerks and laugh maliciously with thousands of other women and simps on social media. Does any of that sound like they aren’t concerned about your cringy episodes? It’s like they deliberately go out of their way to ruin you and rip your spirit to pieces on as many levels as possible for the crime of not having flawless social skills. These are exactly the women who would have had you beheaded or tortured in a dungeon if they were queens in the medieval era. I know they aren’t all that evil, but like they say, one bad apple spoils the bunch. They tend to be easily influenced by bad opinions of you. Sometimes yes, it’s only my mind making a chicken out of a feather, but often it’s the opposite. My mind trying to cope by reducing the chicken down to a feather. Like “surely people can’t be THIS profoundly shitty! Surely I’m just imagining things” Next thing you know, authority figure taps on your shoulder and says “we’re gonna have to ask you to leave.” They’re literally more turned on by getting abused than being with a guy who’s willing to take abuse. They literally embody the very trait they’re repulsed by. You can’t make this up. I’ll put it like this: To be yourself, you at least need to feel free to talk about your passions, right? If your passions happen to be things that others are appalled by, that makes being yourself counterproductive in this regard. I don’t want to sound stubborn or like every time you guys give me some suggestions or food for thought that I’m just trying to rebuke it to stay stuck in my hole. Truth is y’all are giving me massively helpful info, I just need to somehow find the energy to apply it. My replies might sound nit picky or argumentative but that’s only because those are the things I have issue with the most. Everything else I’m hearing is brilliant.

@Twentyfirst according to this https://www.insider.com/japanese-men-20s-never-gone-on-date-4-in-10-2022-6 Japan is almost the same as the US

I thought we weren’t supposed to post the content of our trip in this thread, we have to post a link to a different thread? I don’t know how this works

I feel strongly that it will indeed help at least somewhat. I’ll just have to be super careful about not accidentally saying wrong things or behaving in wrong ways because that will greatly increase the likelihood of getting kicked out of places which will be a devastating blow to my hope of improving. You can’t really get any better if you aren’t allowed in many places and the people don’t like you because you’re a bit different. The threat of this also makes it incredibly nerve racking to approach because you have very little room for error, and it gets even worse the more places you get banned from because the more bridges you burn, the more lightly you have to tread in the places you have left. Which then makes it even harder because nobody likes interacting with someone who’s on edge. It’s a vicious cycle with seemingly no guaranteed solution. It’s so aggravating that women have absolutely no understanding of this struggle men face nor do they give a single fuck. They’re too obsessed with themselves and whether or not they’re getting “the ick” to consider the suffering of the less fortunate gender. Nevertheless I shall get back on the horse and ride into battle against all odds. This brutality of this war has almost completely destroyed me despite not even completing 5% of it. It will take nothing short of a mega miracle to succeed. I will rewatch the how to get laid series, I’ve seen it in the past but I’m overdue for a revisit. I’m not even looking for a relationship. I just wanna be that guy who has to keep all his girls from finding out about each other like on the movie John Tucker Must Die or The Other Girls. That would be so exciting! Understatement of the century LOL! It’s funny how girls will be like “Why are guys so scared, just come up and talk to us. We won’t bite, tehehe” Having no idea what we’re actually going through. This meme says it perfectly

@Schizophonia because that’s when I’m doing all the proven methods to increase testosterone lvls

It wouldn’t be right to not include this groundbreaking scientific period related discovery again. I’ve posted it before but it’s even more relevant now. They can shame me for it, rejected it, get the ick from it and ignore it when it’s just me talking about my fascination, but good luck with that when it turns out to be the future of modern medicine and possibly the most important discovery of our time! That beet red vajayjay juice happens to contain the highest quality, most adaptable and fastest replicating stem cells ever discovered.

Good luck not being thirsty when you’re a high libido man and totally deprived of female physical contact for years upon years upon years, really destroys a guy inside. There’s no hiding the thirst because the moment you open a qt she already knows what you want. Needy and desperate on the other hand, those are concealable. I sure haven’t. I’ve found that girls will usually be as unhelpful as humanly possible in pickup If anything I’ve made more progress with the polite robot than anything else. In no way do I relate to your typical stacies and beckies; they are alien to me, and malevolent ones at that. What do I have to relate to them about? Nobody cares if you both like kombucha or you’re both wearing jeans. We are as different as night and day on everything from music to philosophy to what makes us angry to social media usage to sexual experience and most of all humor, effectively everything that matters. I know there are different types of girls out there but I mean it when I say there isn’t enough. Not enough to find one that isn’t already taken or claims to be taken anyway. So there goes the hope of being relatable unless I either become a chameleon or fundamentally change who I am. Or am I missing something? But wouldn’t that also run the risk of tempting you to emulate their behavior, there goes your authenticity if that happens? Here’s the problem with that, and this is a very important thing I’m about to say: I can watch the interaction like an NSA agent. But it won’t help one bit if the feedback I get doesn’t accurately reflect what they’re really feeling. I’m not going to learn jack shit if all they do is give me that blank faced fluoride stare the whole time and give me one worded responses. Girls also for some reason like to deliberately disguise their true feelings as something else. They’ll pretend to be interested in the conversation only to later complain to their friends/bfs/authority figures about that super weird dude (me) that thought he was good enough to talk to them for some reason and how deeply uncomfortable they were the whole time. I wish I was making this up. It’s virtually impossible to calibrate if I’m going to be misled and back stabbed like that.

I’ve got some

For me it’s different. When my t spikes I get so horny I have to do a handstand just to take a piss in the morning and balls feel like watermelons. But my mood/motivation/energy/confidence remains unaffected Not really true if you have a very strong fetish. In this case just the fantasy alone gives massive amounts of pleasure that if performed would be light years better than basic intercourse. The beauty of my thing is it doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with sex, yet if a baddie were to do me the honors just once I’d be stuck in a bliss coma for months. Others who have my thing say they’ve had girlfriends that were great partners in other areas but since they weren’t willing to indulge the kink they had to look for someone else. That should tell you something.

My cousin spends over a year at a time in SEA (Southeast Asia) Vietnam particularly. He comes home for about half a year, saves up, rinse and repeat. He says the girls are incredibly easy and a lot more tolerable there. I’d’ve joined him a long time ago if I wasn’t such an incurable hermit. Things are also more affordable there and lots of fun to be had

Wow, fantastic replies so far guys. Huge thanks! The dots are connecting, slowly but surely