the-philogynist

It's only like that because the people didn't have sexual confidence and lacked creativity.

Ok, he only wants to masturbate and be promiscuous because he chooses to. I was talking about the people that chooses porn over having actual sex with their girlfriends or wives. That's what doesn't make sense.

Well I wouldn't call it a 'skill'. I'll call it being 'creative'.

No it doesn't make sense. Those people want to be defeated and they lack confidence, so they would rather bow down and praise the porn stars that they see on camera. I know what's going on here and it's a shame.

See, now I see what the problem truly is. You and society is giving porn way to much credit. It's a myth that female porn stars look like super models. A lot of them look like your average women and a good number of them in my opinion is actually ugly in the face. It's some actual women that are out here that's more hot and sexy than any porn star you can find. It boggles my mind how much it doesn't make sense that men would choose porn over there already girlfriend or wife. If it's like that, why not just get women that does the same thing the porn stars do? Another problem with this issue I've noticed is that people don't have sexual confidence and they have a defeating attitude. We need to be more confident about our sexuality. Once we have confidence we will be more creative in sex and we can stop looking at other people having sex on camera because we're doing it better than what they are.

Of course I haven't 'felt' the sex yet but I 'know' what sex is. I'm going to say this again, try to understand what I am saying: we all know what sex is by default, sex is not really what we do, sex is already what we actually are. Try to understand.

No it's not the same thing why can't you all realize that. I do know what sex is, we all know what sex is, we're sexual creatures by default. Sex is what we are.

No this is not a troll thread.

Believe me, I'm far from a troll. It just wrong how you all think that sex have to have skills. Just think about that for a moment, natural copulating sex has to have skills. Talk about holding someone back. To me that's the greatest holdback That's the reason why the world is so screwed up with this porn issue.

Just how many times is there going to be bad analogies?

Let me ask you something: whatever we want to do, do it not start in the mind? Any think that person does they were thinking about it first and planning it. So with that, I'm sure she'll say that I'm an excellent sex partner.

And that's the important thing to know it intellectually. When you do that the experientially will fall right into place. The moon analogy is not good.

But I already know what sex is.

Like I've said, that kind of statement certainly is an insult to my intelligence. How much do you ever want to bet that what you said was not true, and when I get married and have sex I would confirm that was not true. You people make sex so complicated. Out of all of the animal kingdom, human sexuality is the most unique. But the big mistake that you all are making is that you're making it much more complicated than it need to be.

Porn is never better than actual sex. One is that you're watching others have sex but you yourself is actually not. While the other is you actually having sex yourself.

What's really bizarre to me is that some people would think that natural copulation involves some type of skill that you have you have to learn. I think that's that's the problem of this whole issue of porn. You think what the people in the film does is so amazing when people at home can do the same thing especially if they have confidence. Just why are you all saying having natural copulating sex takes having skills that you have to learn?

How is it saddening? I'm thinking outside of the box. How about you?

How is it bizarre? Maybe you're the one not thinking outside the box.

Don't recommend anything. I already know what sex is and I plan on actually having sex when I am married. Human sexuality is a unique thing but you're making it more complicated than it need to be.

Was it that you were 'unskilled'? Or was it just that you didn't have 'sexual confidence'?

What story? And what's off the mark?

I agree great sex is about the psychological part and that's kind of the point I was trying to get at. We don't need to be worrying about so called skills. When a person has sexual confidence they're going be creative.

You know what, that's probably why problem people think that porn is so different than off camera sex. We make this stuff so complicated when it doesn't have to be. We can have sex just like what they're doing on camera. What we need to have is sexual confidence instead of trying to have so call 'skills'. P.s. the format on this site is confusing. How do you get rid of other users quotes in the reply?

I can imagine having sex with a woman that's easy. I don't need no 'experience' to know what sex is. blockquote widget

If it wasn't the penis inserting into the vagina it wouldn't be called having sex, now would it?