A) Some girls have low sex drive. Period.
B) In general, girls have much lower sex drive then men.
C) You gotta get good at turning girls on so they are dripping wet for you. This is a developed skillset that most guys suck at.
D) You gotta learn how to keep sex fresh, creating exciting new experiences.
E) If she's on medication like anti-depressants, that can lower her sex drive a lot.

Good. Now make it happen.

@Mezanti What do you want in this life? 

Im just coming off of a mushroom trip...
I've realised the following....
I'm always giving away authority, never thinking on my own. Im always trying to meet someone else's standards.... this someone else being a person foolish enough to convince themselves that they are an authority. it startles me, how people can do that and yet i'm always giving them power and authority over me.
Is it those primitive apish ways that i'm ruled by, that cause me to keep on playing into peoples authority games?? who knows. 
For as long as I can remember I've been looking for some video on the internet, or some persona to tell me how to deal with my problem, and the problem is "loneliness".
I haven't found the solution to my problems, and I don't think I ever will.
I've never been authentic, always pretending to be something more valuable. all this so I could get approval. The truth is i'm lonely. I've never had real friends. I always lie about having friends, and sometimes make up people, yeah, imagine having friends, to try to convince others that I have other people that care about me.
Im living a life of suffering and If this is what my life is going to look like, then I don't want to live it.
you know I've been thinking about this idea and its this:
what happens to people like me? evolutionarily speaking... people who are shunned out of friend groups, people who are not cared about. people whom other people don't want to be friends with.
what happens to us?
we die. our genes don't get passed on.
I'm 17. I have 5 times the amount I've lived to live on. I don't want to go about life this way. 
I naturally want to ask for suggestions on what to do, but I've already done that so many times and here I am still. 
what is the meaning behind this post? nothing. like my entire fucking existence. 
 
 
 

Form and formlessness are one.
God and Maya are one.

I know a sexual hypnosis technique where a girl can visualize and experience the orgasm of a man.
You can orgasm without even physical stimulation.
Sex is all about how you use your mind.
 

That is amazing. Thanks!

Look at your assumption. You are assuming consciousness has an anthropomorphic desire for twisted, tortuous, horrific events. That is a misunderstanding of consciousness. If you transcend the personal/human level, this construct you have created will collapse.