Alissa

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  1. @CreamCat good job??BTW this video isn't only motivational but also very realistic and true. I like this idea of thinking of your life as sections of a garden. Thx for sharing it ?
  2. @GGG I think making habits last is very critical to the motivation behind practicing them in the first place. But especially for tidying and cleaning the house, don't make your motivation be "maintaining the cleanliness of the house" cause this is very counterintuitive, and you'll end up cleaning all day long and not fulfilling your desire. Instead practice this habit once or twice a day for at most 30 minutes (either before going to sleep or after waking up) and what's important is mainting doing the habit. Batching similar tasks together instead of taking 5 min here and there is very helpful too.
  3. @SaaraSabina I think it depends on the consciousness of the person and the concepts he/she has on close relationships. Close relationships can be used as an escape from deepening one's loneliness and from actualizing, however at some point one gets a feeling of the need to share their life with someone which is the nature of life. So I think the timing of being in a close relationship is what makes it a need or a wish.
  4. @barcos I think taking time to think about what to say and choosing the proper words to avoid hurting others is not something to be ashamed of. May be you need to consider learning about communication skills and about the body language to interact with people better. Beside that try to be in your nature and don't fake anything about yourself to please others ;the right people will be attracted to you. Good luck ?
  5. @Alex bliss True love doesn't always require being enlightened. You can love truly,honestly and deeply at any time you decide without even enlightenment because love is always present right here and right now. You may even get enlightened after starting to love deeply. Simply get connected to your emotions and open your heart to give more love and you'll for sure receive it in some other unknown way.You got to trust the power of the universe.Good luck ?
  6. @28 cm unbuffed alright I sort of got you. As long as you found your twin flame, you got to take the guide from your higher self to understand how to truly help her heal. No one here can really help you ;we're just giving you opinions that bounce in the sphere of reality but don't actually give the truest solution or guide. Also watch out your criticizing words that you use for judging your twin flame to understand yourself in a better way, and work on yourself. I think my comment didn't add much to you, but really sometimes I feel that that's what I need to hear (to go inwards in a deeper way). Wish you all the best ?
  7. @28 cm unbuffed First importantly what's good is that you're aware of your ego projection. You got to ask yourself whether this issue belongs to your past or not, cause probably your case can be a reactive feeling to an old situation (i.e: your previous x cheated on you, your mom cheated on your dad, etc). Secondly take into consideration the source of your issue ; is it just a pattern of thoughts and feelings or a real belief you're holding in your subconscious mind that includes "showing your partner that you're capable of doing anything and she shouldn't mess out with you"? Thirdly get to know about your thoughts and opinions of how relationships work and how to sustain them; is it by applying love and respect to the relationship or by controlling the partner and being dominant in the relationship? Forthly get a clear understanding of your thoughts about cheating and its reasons. And think about what love means to you, how you love and how you show your partner compassion and true love. As long as you're going through the dark night of the soul, try your best to be aware of your feelings, thoughts and tendencies during this period. Don't be too harsh on yourself and try to get the clearest image of who you think you are in the most difficult times. Remember that you are your best friend so be kind to yourself. Good luck ❤️
  8. @Lento May be you got to pay more attention to your inner voices at the present moment ;cause sometimes they're the only guide you can trust. Your welcome ?
  9. @Fede83 your welcome?.. I'm glad that you moved over it. Good luck?
  10. His biography is interesting. He was a poet, writer, visual artist and philosopher. What made him value nature and beauty was his awareness of the society's low conscious surfaces and other experiences he passed through.
  11. @Charlotte it's my pleasure. Much love and respect ?
  12. @Lento Most of the emotionally difficult things that most people aren't willing to do belong to the higher-self's desires. In every situation there are two voices inside of you ;one is intuitive (or authentic) and the other is egotistical (that services you as an identity and as a self image). In some states it's difficult to determine in the present moment the source of the voices, but later on it would be clear through the consequences of your actions. By being more aware of those voices, you'll be better at determining the source as your consciousness raises.
  13. @Fede83 Hello! First of all being friendly with everyone around you isn't a way of having more friends. Secondly determine what kind of people you want to be friending (if this doesn't matter then it becomes easier for you to make more friends of different backgrounds and ages) Thridly you got to talk to people in unusual, informal manner. Either ask them about how their day was, or what is their favorite movie. Or you can talk about yourself as an opening to a conversation. Forthly you got to push yourself to talk first and ask questions first. This's not easy for introverted or shy people, but try your best. Fifthly be more humorous with people. People are attracted to funny people and like to spend more time with them. I hope that helped you. Good luck ❣️
  14. @Focus Shift it's motivating in some sort of way that the ego doesn't want to hear that, but the higher-self feels present. I like it???
  15. @Charlotte hey?? Well time management is something I've struggled with for a long time.I was lacking results and being unproductive for about 1 year. After doing a lot of research and practicing a lot of techniques, I can share with you some insights I've learned : Whatever you got to do, ask yourself why are you really willing to do (know your motivation ;and for the long run try to make it intrensic) Prioritize your tasks every morning,using a journal or an app, and if you find it difficult to be persistent then simply make a list or map in your head of how your day is going to go. Always keep monitoring your improvement. You can use a weekly journal (I found it very useful) and a monthly journal to see if the techniques you are using are really working. Try to have blocked times in your day for example 2-hour blocked time for studying continously, 30-minute blocked time for meditating, 1-hour blocked time for meeting friends, etc. It helps you being more productive as you focus on only one task at a time. Do the right thing at the right time. Have a morning routine that can inspire you and keep you on track. Be patient and don't expect incredible results at the beginning. Have realistic expectations. Best of luck ❤️
  16. I love the following quote by Tanya Markul : "I used to try to be good. I thought no one wanted me as I was, so 'good' was my go-to. But 'good' got me nowhere not like truth. Truth, she tore me to shreds, devoured me whole and spit me out shaking and new. Truth keeps a box of matches in my pocket, while 'good' made me afraid of transformative fire. Truth keeps me real, even if it makes everyone in the room uncomfortable, and truth unlike 'good' doesn't let me bow down to bullshit or undeserving soapboxes. Truth doesn't let me give in to bullies, misguided and fear-based criticism or cowards. Truth is a queen and a humanitarian while 'good', she's a silent scared little sheep. Truth knows that 'good' dulls my already radiant, fierce and loving soul. 'Good' showed me how to hide my wings, my words and angel vision. Truth taught me to be brave. Truth taught me how to respect myself. Truth allows me to hold impenetrable space for any story, but first and foremost, for my own. And truth, well, she changes everything, and friend she's coming for you, too. "
  17. Have you heard of the novelist Gibran Khalil Gibran? He describes the beauty of nature to some point that makes you feel like you need to spend your lifetime alone in nature. I recommend reading his book called "A tear and a smile".
  18. According to what you described your state of producing and DJing I think it’s not really the passion of yours that’s being generated from your core . Probably it was the first attempt to then deepen your realization of your inside and of what gift the universe has given you to become extraordinary . Try to do something else ; sometimes you got to try many things to reach that state of waking up and feeling so excited for what you’re doing and being really fulfilled and proud of where you’ve reached . Of course that’s not easy , but it’s going to pay off one day . Best of luck