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I had a 19+ years streak of nofap. Makes no difference for me really. I also don't care about having sex or getting women so I'm an outlier in this regard though

I was worried before clicking this thread may this be helpful for you: é

If you have insomnia quitting caffeine is a no-brainer. I'm surprised no one mentioned this. Like cut caffeine to 0 for months and see if it improves. It won't cost you anything to try this. I would refrain from diagnosing yourself with super rare specific diseases till you do that. Check out reddit r/decaf

So I've been struggling with this for a long time already It's hard to eat anything. It's hard to eat junk food and healthy food. I go on days without getting enough calories. I probably get under 1500. This is an estimative though. I don't have any self-image problems like anorexia. I just want to be able to eat. It's like I think of food and it's not appealing. This causes problems for me like low energy and it's hard to exercise because it seems like my fuel reserves are low I don't take any stimulants or even caffeine. Any help? Second question: if to go to a doctor, should I talk to a gp or dietitian?

It varies. On the weekdays I eat mostly clean. On the weekends I eat pretty shitty tbh. But I feel bad almost every day. No. What do you suggest? It's not allowed in my country atm but when I can I certainly make some heavy effort. So I've done some research and I'm thinking that maybe I am Lactose Intolerant. Going to test this on Wednesday.

@Michael569 thanks for your detailed response.

Don't take psychedelics on ssris Just don't Thanks.

@Globalcollective Seems exactly right haha. I expected something more elaborate but this is nice already. What can I do to help my heterosexual male friends? They seem to come to me with these problems with approach anxiety and relationships and I just can't relate to it. Sometimes I'm out with them and they lack courage to approach and I would like to do something about it because they seem to suffer. ¯\_(ツ) _/¯ You'd be amazed by knowing how much people think I'm DEFINITELY gay or DEFINITELY hetero macho and say it outright to my face. Sometimes the same day. I can't rely on others opinions so sometimes I have to ask this basic shit. The problems with having uncommon traits.

Have you tried L-Theanine and Caffeine together?

How can I talk to girls without they thinking I want something more? This may not be exactly what you're trying to teach but I'm curious on what you have to say. I'm asexual and I always have this doubt. Sometimes I go out just fishing for friends and I want to make that clear.

This 100x

I have this and it comes and goes throughout the day. Sometimes strong, sometimes I can't even hear it. This is not supposed to be scientific. Just my experience. Take it with a grain of salt. Stimulants seem to have the greatest effect. When under effect of ritalin, it seems to go down. On the comedown, it goes up. Caffeine is the same. Modafinil is the worst offender of all. If your tinnitus is bothering you never try this drug. This is the lowest hanging fruit: quitting all stimulants. Don't do anything else before trying this. Vinpocetine seems to reduce tinnitus for me. The drug is made for that so that's expected I think. It has the most noticeable effect of all. If it gets unbearable in your later life this is an option. Other than that I can't contribute much. Good luck! Extra anecdotes: Supplements: L-Theanine increases it. Creatine makes it unbearable. Nice energy boost but horrible for tinnitus. Sleep: doesn't seem to influence that much. Exercise: lowers it

I drink sometimes like 0-2x a month or so. It's not always worth it. I prefer to drink only with people I am already familiar with so I don't make friends with people I don't care when sober If I had friends that I hang out with only to use drugs I'd cut them off. It doesn't matter how harmful the drug of choice is For the health part, less is more. I don't drink caffeine so I can't just get drunk and get myself up the next day with a stimulant like people do so I need to moderate.

I cannot think of someone more SD orange than him lol

I'm sorry for your loss. Here are some things that work for me: Cut stimulants to the minimum needed (even better if zero) - caffeine is a sneaky devil Blue light filters on all eletronic devices Get a boring book and read it around the time you want to sleep Maybe you have some type of sleep disorder but that's a stretch of my knowledge. Definitely check up with a doctor about that. Good luck!

The trick is in thinking that there's a "self" that imposes it's "will"

Pick a topic that interests you Choose an imagined audience What impact do you want to have with your speech? Write about that. Read it silently Then read it aloud till it drills into your mind Then train in front of a mirror or record yourself Watch yourself and see what could be improved Repeat till perfection I've done this just one time but man that was the best presentation ever hahaha The funny thing is on those basic school presentations I could never replicate what I did that time and I became sad

Not 100% but i don't feel as clueless as I did before begining the work

Be And I think us people are just trying to be the elite at beingness

It's so freeing to get off caffeine I'm happy for you. I'm on day 35 now I've seen some compulsive habits of mine are becoming increasingly boring like mindless browsing and watching TV or even porn. I think it's being caused by quitting caffeine. Good luck!

It has an strong psychoactive effect on me and I treat it like a drug. 1-2 h of euphoria, Superman feeling Paranoia, anxiety Decreased sleep quality ADHD feelings With consistent consumption some of the side effects go away but I don't want to be dependent on any psychoactive substance on principle If it has a net benefit for you then take it.

Lol this is hilarious

Touché hahahaha

Have you done any bloodwork?