JustThinkingAloud

Today I’m having a day off to clear up my head. It hasn’t been working very well last couple of days so let’s give it a break and hopefully tomorrow it will start clicking again.

Ok, I want this app to be really good so that’s it, I'll only do it the way that feels right. So back to analyzing, questioning, deciding to make sure that the right things are in. A big NO to confusion and conflicting information!

All this questioning myself can get a bit tiring. Why can’t I just sit down and have it done as I’ve done so many times before. It just needs to feel right, I really want to do a good job. I want to have it well analyzed and make sure that it’s correct or at least close to it.

I feel little bit lost in all the information. I know there’s a way to organize it well and end up with a simple result even though the process of getting there is complicated. So I decided that instead of trying to keep reading and grouping and classifying the details, I’ll start from the other end. I’ll start from the final result that I want and add the details to it. So I sat down and fully decided on the outcome and now can match the details to it. I feel really good about it. Let see how long that will last

I can’t wait to start coding, I so got a clear image of the UI in my head. Only if I could be confident on the structure of the data so I can create the database and use it in the app. I’ve done that before so it shouldn’t be a problem. All the information is ready, I just need get that feeling that it’s right or at least that it’s the best I can do. Still not fully there, let’s keep rereading, reanalyzing, adjusting and maybe it will start feeling right tomorrow. It can help to sleep on things

Thank you! It’ll be designed so you can keep updating, changing and reviewing your analysis as much as you want. We are constantly changing and developing so the app is meant to help with any changes and it’ll give tools how to deal with the current situation and can store it so next time it’ll happen you can see how you went about it last time and improve on it. It’ll be up to the person whether they want to use the old analysis or start completely afresh and do a brand new analysis without any reference to the past.

That depends how easily you judge someone as a devil. If you’re compassionate and have understanding there’s not much evil in your life. Also people that know that they are devils excuse that fact that they are one because they think that everyone is devil and that it’s completely fine to be one. They keep reinforcing that belief by calling everyone a devil. These people are dangerous and need to be avoided.

Should I take it personally? haha I'd keep going but I'm not sure whether it'd be listened to.

Haha! Yep, it’s not easy to say whether someone’s trying to be funny or not. It’s much easier when you really know the person. And I’m sorry, I didn’t make it easy for you. I’m on the other side of the spectrum, I tend to see things funny when the person doesn’t actually want to be funny. That can be quite embarrassing but nothing that a genuine apology wouldn’t fix. Hopefully And keep going with this thread, I think it's great!

So does it mean that anything goes? If there's not one truth then everything is truth?

Wow, thank you. That's a really comprehensive information. Sometimes, I wonder whether it would be easier just to define "truth" so we can all agree on the definition and automatically remove all biases.

Exactly! I was wondering how many people will laugh at it! Sometimes, we can take ourselves too seriously, I think that not all faults have to be a serious problem. Some of our quirks are just purely cute Was that funny? I can try harder for it to be funny but I'm just too quirky! ?

Is funny really funny? Let’s meditate on that, aaah, I think funny is funny but then it’s an emotion and that’s not funny but what funny really means? Isn’t it funny that funny is not funny and can be really just an imagination? Maybe it’s funny but no, that’s ego talking, funny is not really funny. I got to get this really right, it’s all about the Truth! Is funny really funny?

Wow, that’s great. It’s good to see that other people here are creating apps too. I’m making one at this moment as well. Anyways, good luck with yours!

There's a lot of variations of emotions, most of the differences are just intensity. At the end, all that matters is whether you feel good or bad. So to answer your question, they're both good/happy emotions.

Try to find what exactly is the problem, what thoughts, memories, images create your anxiety. It’s much easier to fix it when you know exactly what is happening. We’re all different, it’s really hard to give a general advice.

I do believe that there’s a greater power but I don’t follow any religion, I follow morality as much as I can (not the easiest thing to do haha). I don’t know what is after death, nobody really knows for sure. There might be afterlife, reincarnation or nothing or some combination of things. One thing I want to believe that if there is God, this Good is great, fair, kind, loving etc and this God wouldn’t care about little things like whether we’re buried in a certain way or not. I gave my loved ones full permission to do whatever they need to do once I die, it doesn’t matter to me, it should be their choice as they are the ones that have to deal with it.

Our parents have a strong influence on us when we’re kids so yes, it can be hard to get them out of our heads and change who we are. Don’t give yourself too much hard time that you’re not who you want to be yet, it’s a part of life to be constantly improving and adapting to new information. Our mind needs to get persuaded that you really believe the new information (or "rewired") so it will take some time. Just keep putting in new better beliefs, keep proving old beliefs wrong and it will eventually sink in.

Notice how you chose to be happy just because, you made that choice because you wanted to make that choice, nobody else made you to make that choice. And yes, we can be happy with very little, it depends how much we choose to want and how difficult it is to get it. It certainly all does start with us

I let myself be happy most of the time. But I like to keep it real and allocate some time to being negative and see whether I can prove it wrong. It happened to me number of times that I just let myself be happy and ignored warning signs that something is going wrong. I don’t do standard practices, I'm kind of doing and playing with my own thing.

@Angelite I respect your beliefs and understanding, just be careful not to push it on others and call them names, it doesn’t do you or Islam any good, it makes you look bad. Most of the people are aware that Islam exists and it’s up to them whether they want to pursue it or not. Be a good role model if you want to attract people into your beliefs and religion.

Try to focus on solution. Don’t judge the situation, don’t set any goals or expectations. Purely focus on analyzing the situation and what could solve the problem. That means collecting all the facts, finding all the causes and effects, understanding what is going on, experimenting if you can.

We start we hedonism as babies and then develop it into eudaimonism. Either way it’s all about hunting what we want/need and getting satisfaction when we get it, it’s our driving force.

We feel happy when we get what we want and we all want different things that’s why it can be confusing.

Interesting, why do you do that? Nothing's unnatural about my eating habits. You can’t constantly control your thinking, you’re thinking when you’re doing other things whether you like it or not. The whole point is to make the thinking worth it and productive.