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So move then. There are 194 other countries in this world.

Let me guess those with low post number or not on this forum at all is doing the work.

What if it just takes some time before seeing results. You might fail more if you try to change something. Like meditation might take some time before seeing results. How about never giving up doing the same thing over and over again untill death. This is my way of life.

So I have some trouble figuring out what life-purpose to pick. I have a lot of passions for many areas of life. I want to master all of it, but Leo says I can only pick ONE thing to master. I took the LP course, but I found out that I have 2 LPs. First one consists of visual art. I like 3d digital art, painting and street art. The 2nd is in the field of biology. I also like chemistry and to some degree math. Biology is fun and interesting to learn. I have always been fascinated by living organisms and viruses. I am not really that good at math and chemistry, but I have been getting better as I have been studying them both on my own after I failed math and chemistry in high school. I found out that I study better on my own without any bs school grade pressure. I feel like i have 2 options: 1. I pick art or biology now and then create a career in either one of them for some few decades. Then after some few decades I can start over again with a new LP. Should I go first with biology or art? 2. The next option would be to pick a career that combines art and biology or combine art and math. Then what would that be? Do any of you guys have any suggestions? In Leo life purpose course he talks about contributing to humanity as for satisfaction in life-purpose. I don't feel like visual art can have any contribution to humanity. With biology I would like to help with inventing a treatment or a vaccine for various dangerous diseases, viruses and medical conditions. If I specialized in medicine I could save lives and have a much larger impact than visual art. So you see I have so many paths I want to go down, but I don't know what path I should go down. So any advice would be appreciated.

When i go start approaching girls during the night some girls or guys get really pissed off for just being friendly. Although i am not afraid of girls, its the guys that scare me the most. They are either drunk, annoying af or looking to fight me. I am just here to socialize and trying to have fun time, but these overly aggressive/drunk guys/girls is making me not wanting me to go out on clubs or bars anymore. The other day i was going over talking to this girl i only said she was attractive. Then this random guy approached me and got really pissed at me for talking to his girlfriend. (I had no idea it was her boyfirend) I tried to apologize to him, but he was just screaming stfu to me. I tried to tell him to chill, but he just keep telling me to stfu and calling me names. He was also pissed at his girlfriend too. He was accusing her of being into other guys. I really tried to deescalate the situation, but he was just so pissed it was no way to reason with him. I just walked away, i had no intention to get into a fight. I did not even lay a hand on his girlfriend. I thought he would take it as a compliment that his girlfriend was attractive, but i guess i was wrong. Why so much fighting happening during the night? I guess it is the alcohol right? I have only been in one fight with my brother when we were younger, i lost big. Not worth getting into a fight you will lose. I learned this the hard way. I can't relax anymore because of bad experience, i am always keeping my guard up. I seem to always get myself into trouble. Guys just get so pissed of when i talk to their girlfriend. I also face a lot of competition during the night for the girl with another dude talking to the girl i was talking to. I have tried to win the competion with not much success. I have only won her attention 1 time. Any advices how to deal with aggressive/drunk guys? How to deal with competition for a girl? Honestly i think Leo is right with needing a wingman for night-game. Going out solo is emotionally challenging and scary.

First time i got drunk became my last time i got drunk, have not been drinking since.

Do such thing exist? How would a sober nightclub look like?

Did you go far into the woods deep inside the amazon jungle?

I honestly consider doing this, but also i see a lot of police outside at night time. Best to let them handle it, then seeing me fighting some drunk dude and risk getting arrested. When the police is close by i approach girls regardless of a guy walking by her. Who would be stupid to fight me infront of the police right?

@Kid A Wish i could trade place with you.

Now i am confused, so i leave, but i don't turn my back? Are you not supposed to turn your back when you leave? @Buck Edwards Yeah the guy was obvious really jealous even getting mad at his girlfriend. Then again i can't avoid those situations, i just have to do like Leo says just apologize and back away. I would not talk to her if i knew she had a boyfirend, thats why i usually ask in the beginning of the conversation if she has a boyfriend. I just thought i would be able to have resonable conversation with the guy, but he was like talking to a wall.

yes I can relate to this. Although as i got older i found out that trying to find highly consoious people that are perfect is a pipe dream. I have come to accept that some people suck. Not everyone is going to be perfect angles.

It worked for me. People these days tell me how confident and good social skills i have, when in reality i despise being social and perfer being alone. It just took a lot of suffering and putting myself out there to seem like a confident guy with good social skills. It can be brutal sometimes, but thats where i have got my biggest growth in life.

I am working on it with diet and gym. Then again how do you define a good phyique? Are you talking about pro bodybuilder physique with six pact and large arms or normal people?

Thats bullshit, if someone liked me for my physical appearence i would not want to be friends with them. I dont care about my friends looks, i like them for their personality.

Has happened to me a lot, but i just keep trying. I made a lot of friends by trial and error. Dont waste your time on people that dislike you and focus on finding someone that will like you. They exist just keep socializing and don't give up because of someone that dislike you. Making friends is also just a numbers game. No matter how good social skills you have someone will just not like you and thats life.

@lostingenosmaze Here it is

How do you tell if they are good with women, did you just ask?. I thought you said you only find them on online forums and the telegram group you posted a while ago. I have asked people that are good with girls to teach me, but they just tell me to drink alcohol and give bad advices. They dont even know how to teach it. It is all unconscious for these guys that are good with girls.

So i have finally been able to delete all social media at age 22. These include: Tik tok, snapchat, X/Twitter, instagram, reddit and facebook. I feel so free, no more bullishit cringe on my phone anymore. Social media is not good for your brain and just a distraction. I do use youtube, but i use it to watch educational channel like Leo, RealLifeLore and The Organic Chemistry Tutor. Also youtube has better music then Spotify. Youtube is the only good social media in this world if you use premium youtube. No social meida = freedom. What do you think of social media? Is it bad or good? Persoanlly i see no benefits with social media unless you going to use it to earn money.

What does that mean?

@Keryo Koffa I have not attacked anyone, this just my prespective. Why do you say i am trouble?? Have i done something to offend you? If i did i am sorry.

Why is everyone obsessed with climbing the spiral dynamics ladder? Why not take your sweet time at each stage and master each stage to perfection. I feel like there is a lot we can still learn and intergrate from lower stages like red, blue and orange. Personally i dont want to rush it. I will take my time with each stage.

@Princess Arabia I do agree to some degree what you said about how you use social media, but in my experience its it very easy to get into endless scrolling. Also i have tendency to start comparing myself to others, so the only soloution i found out was to delete it all and work on myself.

yes, why?

Does not count. it is at least better quality then reddit. I have deleted all low quality social media. This forum and youtube i consider high quality social media.