Peo

So move then. There are 194 other countries in this world.

Let me guess those with low post number or not on this forum at all is doing the work.

What if it just takes some time before seeing results. You might fail more if you try to change something. Like meditation might take some time before seeing results. How about never giving up doing the same thing over and over again untill death. This is my way of life.

First time i got drunk became my last time i got drunk, have not been drinking since.

Do such thing exist? How would a sober nightclub look like?

Did you go far into the woods deep inside the amazon jungle?

I honestly consider doing this, but also i see a lot of police outside at night time. Best to let them handle it, then seeing me fighting some drunk dude and risk getting arrested. When the police is close by i approach girls regardless of a guy walking by her. Who would be stupid to fight me infront of the police right?

@Kid A Wish i could trade place with you.

Now i am confused, so i leave, but i don't turn my back? Are you not supposed to turn your back when you leave? @Buck Edwards Yeah the guy was obvious really jealous even getting mad at his girlfriend. Then again i can't avoid those situations, i just have to do like Leo says just apologize and back away. I would not talk to her if i knew she had a boyfirend, thats why i usually ask in the beginning of the conversation if she has a boyfriend. I just thought i would be able to have resonable conversation with the guy, but he was like talking to a wall.

When i go start approaching girls during the night some girls or guys get really pissed off for just being friendly. Although i am not afraid of girls, its the guys that scare me the most. They are either drunk, annoying af or looking to fight me. I am just here to socialize and trying to have fun time, but these overly aggressive/drunk guys/girls is making me not wanting me to go out on clubs or bars anymore. The other day i was going over talking to this girl i only said she was attractive. Then this random guy approached me and got really pissed at me for talking to his girlfriend. (I had no idea it was her boyfirend) I tried to apologize to him, but he was just screaming stfu to me. I tried to tell him to chill, but he just keep telling me to stfu and calling me names. He was also pissed at his girlfriend too. He was accusing her of being into other guys. I really tried to deescalate the situation, but he was just so pissed it was no way to reason with him. I just walked away, i had no intention to get into a fight. I did not even lay a hand on his girlfriend. I thought he would take it as a compliment that his girlfriend was attractive, but i guess i was wrong. Why so much fighting happening during the night? I guess it is the alcohol right? I have only been in one fight with my brother when we were younger, i lost big. Not worth getting into a fight you will lose. I learned this the hard way. I can't relax anymore because of bad experience, i am always keeping my guard up. I seem to always get myself into trouble. Guys just get so pissed of when i talk to their girlfriend. I also face a lot of competition during the night for the girl with another dude talking to the girl i was talking to. I have tried to win the competion with not much success. I have only won her attention 1 time. Any advices how to deal with aggressive/drunk guys? How to deal with competition for a girl? Honestly i think Leo is right with needing a wingman for night-game. Going out solo is emotionally challenging and scary.

yes I can relate to this. Although as i got older i found out that trying to find highly consoious people that are perfect is a pipe dream. I have come to accept that some people suck. Not everyone is going to be perfect angles.

It worked for me. People these days tell me how confident and good social skills i have, when in reality i despise being social and perfer being alone. It just took a lot of suffering and putting myself out there to seem like a confident guy with good social skills. It can be brutal sometimes, but thats where i have got my biggest growth in life.

I am working on it with diet and gym. Then again how do you define a good phyique? Are you talking about pro bodybuilder physique with six pact and large arms or normal people?

Thats bullshit, if someone liked me for my physical appearence i would not want to be friends with them. I dont care about my friends looks, i like them for their personality.

Has happened to me a lot, but i just keep trying. I made a lot of friends by trial and error. Dont waste your time on people that dislike you and focus on finding someone that will like you. They exist just keep socializing and don't give up because of someone that dislike you. Making friends is also just a numbers game. No matter how good social skills you have someone will just not like you and thats life.