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@BjarkeT I am not saying not take any action or responsibilities but what I am expressing here that whatever happens to our life such as anyone come to our life or leave from our life is, it’s meant to be and no reason to worry that it should have been any different.

@Thanatos13 all information we are learning today inspire new thoughts, new thoughts lead to new choices, new choices leave to new behaviour and new behaviour lead to new experience and then experience creat new emotion and new emotion inspires new thoughts which calls evolution, so means: the way how we think it can come to action so in that sense we create our own reality/destiny based on our thoughts and thefore we have to be careful how think!

Sometimes it gets really hard to deal with every situation in life, despite I started to believe more that this is how spossed to be and nothing can be done about it as everything happens for a reason and there are no accident in life and whatever shows in our life teache us a lesson. So if it’s really the case? then we shouldn’t be worry about anything at all since we have no choice. However, on the other hand our minds and thoughts create our reality which we call it also destiny!

@philosogi you already experienced nothingness because you were nothing before you were born.

@abgespaced no I feel that whatever I do is for myself and everyone else do for themselves too

@philosogi but will you be remembering then fun we go to nothingness?

Not really

There is always this question comes to my mind that if our life end up as nothingness as Leo says so why do we have to care much to do everything perfectly and to achieve most of our goal! So my point is in here that if we go towards nothingness then there would be no point to remember anything no matter what we do in this life, no matter if we have long or short life, happy or unhappy as it will all go to nothingness. However its different for religious people since they believe for another life afterwards.

There is always this question comes to my mind that if our life end up as nothingness as Leo says so why do we have to care much to do everything perfectly and to achieve most of our goal! So my point is in here that if we go towards nothingness then there would be no point to remember anything no matter what we do in this life, no matter if we have long or short life, happy or unhappy as it will all go to nothingness. However its different for religious people since they believe for another life afterwards.

Trying hard to stop watching porn but still struggling. Trying to watch less tv which is working and instead reading self help books that I found it very helpful. Although from childhood until now haven't had the habit of reading but now I have the feeling of becoming a good reader since I really need it, not only for my knowledge, mind and brain but for my improving English too! I go to the gym at least 4 times a week with minimum of 1 hour workout. became aware of healthy food and trying to cut eating too much red meat and of course sugar. trying not care about others people opianian on me, at the same time making myself consicus of judging other people. As I mentioned above my big fight is porn which gives me so much pleasure and so hard to quit but will do my best to stop it

@Darius is Changing yeah since I live in London would love to meet up. On 9th March I'm going for a 10 days Holiday in Marrakech so anything afterwords.

@Sarah_Flagg Sarah I agree for most of your points and I say this because of my personal experience. Watching porn has given me so much knowledge about sex and to know women better when it comes to their sexuality and more importantly as you mentioned to know my self better. However, it's so hard not to become addicted. I'm not sure maybe there are men who can control it and watch it in the modern way but for me as a single man it's so hard to miss even one night and to go to bed without watching it, that why I find this a big issue.

That's sometime can happen to many guys, although 3 months is a long time but from my own experience it's to do more with insecurity. I have been to such kind of situation myself but only when I just met with my then girlfriends in the early days because I was keep thinking about having sex with them before hand by thinking how can impress them and to last long but instead I was ending up with poor sex. However, having said that it wasn't that bad to not perform. Watching too much porn also can effect people's sexuality. For the time being vigra can work only as temporary solution.

@Eelco1981 Eelco, exactly the same thing happened to me and that about 8 years ago, where I was living as a tenant I had to pay one month adavbanced and a month deposit to live there, Which I agreed but after a few months the house was sold to the new landlord and I was informed that all my deposit and advanced transferred to this new landlord. Since the new landlord increased the rent i decided to leave the place and for new one but the landlord didn't pay my deposit and one month advanced payment for no valid reasons so at that point I felt so vulnerable and decided to take action. To make it short I went to court as I was advised that there was no need for a lawyer since it was a small case and the Judge finished the case in my favour and asked the landlord to pay my one deposit and a month advanced payment as well all other expenses that I had to pay during this challenge. So if you really think that you have been deceived by your landlord, do your best to fight for your rights and don't let anyone to use you.

@Brandie I can't find walnut in ur list of nuts!