Ayla

@charlie cho , There's something/someone there who sees all that you describe, isn't it? Who/what is THAT ONE?

@amulya YOU are PERFECT ! Let us start from here. What about that? Also HE is PERFECT ! What you are talking about, are life choices meant to put each one of us on your true path. Nobody is "at fault". Not you and not him. I do not know Indian culture enough to give you advice from that perspective, but in my own culture, our main prayer starts with: "OUR Father..( who art in Heaven)". It is OUR Father, yes? It is not only YOURS. So it is NOT for you to help anyone else to do or understand anything at all. Your Father is also your ex's Father and He will help him, as well as you. Your only task here is to help yourself understand better what is the net step you can take! If you want to treat this in a logical way, let's go: you are a spec of God you perceive that you did something wrong the natural conclusion is that God is Wrong, yes? - how can that be? if you don't agree with above conclusion, please inquire what is it that separates you from God? What can it be? Please sit down and see for yourself. So in two days, when you will meet this man, think of him as God. Anything that he might tell you, will be his opinion about God (and not about you). Treat it at such. You have done nothing wrong. You made the best decision from where you stood right then, with what you had right then. Look into your heart and see where you stepped away from your own truth, and move forward with that lesson in your pocket.

Some people resonate better with Sedona Method than Byron Katie's "The Work"

Sedona method

Her videos have helped me a lot at one point.

Yes, but we are allowed to have some fun too, no ?

What is your feeling about it? If you were to answer this question for somebody else.. ?

yes, to the only conclusion that you have to find for yourself, as it cannot be communicated.

Begin (and end) by asking: "WHO AM I ?"

What about the journal section of this forum ?

Aries Sun Aquarius Ascendant Sagittarius Moon + I am a trained astrologer

It's not just your story ... it is ANY story... everyone's.. Have you seen Sedona's practice to relieve old patterns? It's free on youtube. Juuuust let it go! Do you WANT TO let it go? CAN YOU let it go? WHEN?

It's not your English that is sloppy, but your stories Stop telling them to yourself and to others. Just go on one step at a time

I thank you!

The eyes cannot see themselves, but God is SO LOVING, that it puts the right mirrors in front of them

Just keep asking @charlie cho. Keep asking that question over and over until..it'll be over

Almost end of day 2 just drinking water + peppermint tea as a little treat at night. There have been quite a lot of emotional posts here today. People suffering a lot. Young people lost, disoriented.. There's a mix of deep gratitude and profound love that comes to the surface in the form of light salty tears. I am not hungry but my head hurts and spins a bit, and I don't have enough energy left to wave away the pain and discomfort.. oh, well... There's some message wanting to come through about cats lately. I'll try to relax enough before bed so that I can listen to I. I have gone to the beach today and although it was cold, I could meditate for 40 minutes, and found some "eyes of the sea" .. What a beautiful day God! Thank you! I love you! Thank you!

@charlie cho Pursue this question... Where do they come from, and where do they go... those thoughts?

With this judgement, inquire where do you see YOURSELF as you see them (as lazy, having a life like... doing all kinds of limiting things, etc.). Might be in a totally different area, but the energy behind it, is the exact same one. You might wanna look at Byron Katie's process on youtube

Yes. The moment you realize that what you are saying in your head, peaks about YOURSELF, not about them You need not only understand this mentally, but organically, spiritually, experientially

And so are you

guidelines please

the best way you can help both of you is to look into these similarities and come to terms with them. That will totally heal your relationship

Only the fact that you are asking this here tells me that you yourself have doubts that this is good. Arrogance is just one of the manifestations of Consciousness. Not good, not bad. I felt a lot better once I've transcended that...