Ayla

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  1. What you perceive as hate towards you, is actually just a PROJECTION ! Those people do not hate you. They only have in them some aspect of you that you once denied yourself for different reasons - so now they appear to you so that you can heal them. To get a feel of what I am saying, please take a look at Leo's video about how to use people

  2. Does True Love Exist?

    Ayla replied to JevinR's topic in Video Requests For Leo

    Please refer to our Video Requests Guidelines !!
  3. I think you're trying to explain "restless feet" syndrome? Magnesium and Vit D helps
  4. @bernieboy20 I'm hoping this might help you, so I'll let it flow how it comes. Enlightenment is just a word. A concept. Books are yet, another concoction of words - concepts. Forget about all that. Forget about the dream. It means nothing at all. (your mind is just trying to make sense of something it cannot understand). Behind all this, there's an urge, isn't it? Something is calling you somewhere. Forget about the somewhere and inquire into that something calling. Who is that one? There's already a lot of talk on this forum abut the inquiry (do a search). I personally resonate a lot with Mooji's pointings that you can lookup on youtube.
  5. @Avi another hint: when contemplating, do the opposite from what you've always done: don't dive into the thing with force and striving and determination....but relax into it. let it come to you instead of you going into it.. hope this makes some sense lol
  6. @Avi Hint: How can something that is all encompassing be on auto-pilot? where would the car be?
  7. @SenshiAna Good strategy
  8. @SenshiAna , it is not that hidden, since you've obviously made a good job in discovering the ways you are taking yourself and others for granted. Now the trick is for you to catch yourself doing it. In the beginning, you might catch yourself just after doing it, then in the middle of it, than just before it... and in the end, it will just drop..
  9. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwbUZ6a26NzzxkKkiinvyCw
  10. @SenshiAna The best strategy I have found is to first deal with all the forms of "taken for granted" that you've discovered within yourself first. You have believed all those patterns into reality and now they are manifesting for you. Once you've dealt with it inside and after a bit of a momentum, they'll "magically" disappear !
  11. @Avi You need to search for that. No outer insight is going to be valid.

  12. All Personal Questions For Leo

    Ayla replied to A way to Actualize's topic in Personal Development -- [Main]

    @Simon Zackrisson What an ugly hat!! I think Leo would have less trouble living alone in a cabin than wearing THAT!!

  13. Grace's Whisper

    Ayla replied to Ayla's topic in Self-Actualization Journals

    "You say you want to be free now. Then either swallow up everything including me or vomit out everything including you. Thereafter, remain as what remains." ~ Mooji 2016
  14. @TruthSeeker my non free will did it for me. it was the time, place, circumstances and self mastery that brought it about.
  15. Water fasting means nothing BUT water (no food)
  16. @TruthSeeker , I've just finished a 7 days water fasting.... In fact, body very soon forgets about eating... Nothing prompts body to eat except emotional stuff coming up. There's a journal called water fasting in the forum if you wanna read about it. Once you're sitting with it and ask what is it that is being asked, body relaxes into the security of just being. I am not saying it was easy. I am saying that body knows absolutely nothing lol. It just receives demands from mind. Now if you have to link that to free will, you can, but you will not convince me of that one
  17. I hear you. Only, you cannot accept something while trying to change it. When you accept something fully, you don't want to change it.
  18. There's no dimmer whatsoever LOL ! There's only FULL LIGHT! The only thing that's keeping it from shining, is the amount of S**t we scooped over it
  19. @jonny OK. What about accepting that you simply are like that and start from there? Fully embrace the fact that Self acceptance is the key here. Start by accepting who you (think you) are. Fully. No residue of self-loathing or trying to fix things must be left. As ahint, this is what you are looking for in another. To give you all of this.
  20. I'd be VERY curios to see a @Pyrrhocorax graculus lol(ing)
  21. @Pierre I'm beginning to get dizzy seeing this word so many times ... used, abused, trashed, mystified, devalued, poked, pierced.. all that! Upfff
  22. @Soniablade47 You need to be whole in order to be free Right now, you are giving away parts of yourself in the hope that you'll receive something you think you lack. Teal Swan and Noah Elkrief on youtube might help you tackle all these issues.
  23. @Eelco1981 , What if I told you that VERY few human beings at this point are capable of letting go of all the rage and the anger and the judgement and be happy ? Would you still feel like a push-over? I see you as the exact opposite for doing that. I guess it depends on the perspective, isn't it? Every teacher you mentioned, our advice included, has to be felt in your heart, not your head. To me, your biggest problem is your lack of complete self love. Look into that one first
  24. @Mkayl - If self-actualization is your main focus, indeed any intimate relationship that's standing in your way will be "peeled off" by some force we don't really wanna acknowledge. Stay focused on your goal. If there's something for you to learn ( and any human does) within an intimate relationship, it will come to you in due time
  25. Co-dependency has of course its roots in childhood and it has deep roots you need to look into> Here's some of them: worthlessness invisibility veil abandonment passive-aggressiveness Look into all these concepts and educate yourself about them. YouTube is free and full of info. Just drawing the light of your consciousness upon them will help loosening them up