Ayla

http://www.actualized.org/forum/topic/1652-knowledge-and-responsibility/?do=findComment&comment=15232

Person you is

But the realization hasn't been achieved yet (no realization is needed, you already ARE it) and PERSON still persists even though its an illusion (it is in fact a sort of buildup that hypnotizes I) And therefore its just the expression of how bad I+PERSON want the realization, how can PERSON stop wanting it before having a realization (by not believing any of the wanting)? PERSON will only in a sense stop wanting it after having a realization. Solution is not to believe in the person any longer. Treat it all like Santa

It is not on LOVE that we put rules, but on a relationship - a contract, a set of conditions agreed upon more or less consciously. As I said in the final comment, love can happen outside of the relationship, unconditionally.

@Anna Konstantaki , This comes up a lot for people. The way I like to answer to this dilema is through the first two words of a Christian famous prayer. They go like this: "OUR Father...." It does not say it is YOUR Father and so you have a responsibility to fix/guide/show other people the (your) way... as he is as much their father as he is yours. He will take care of them as he does of you. Hope this helps

For a relationship to exist between two people, (any type of relationship), they must both agree on some rules. As long as they are both comfortable with those rules, everything is smooth. If one or both ceases to agree with said rules, what should happen is that these rules get renegotiated into a new set. If there is accord, fine. If there is not, relationship breaks. So no, if you agreed on a classic type of relationship that is exclusive, being cheated on or cheating is NOT OK (not within rules). From there, relationship might evolve into the new riles of non-exclusivity, or break down. However, with true love there is no need whatsoever that the person being loved conforms in some way to your personal set of values. In other words, nothing keeps you from loving someone who does not love you (anymore)

To me, at this point in my evolution, a love relationship means truly the acceptance that each of partners are specs of consciousness - personal taste is of course what attracts me to a certain person, but there's also a deep knowing and understanding of whom that being really is, despite the outer circumstances that might occur. So attraction and acceptance within knowing truth would be my definition of love at this point...

WOW Profound that one

Consciousness sure has funny ways to express itself

This is still being felt by something. Yes. As long as you believe those insecurities, it will go to vast resources to do so.

Your life IS the truth - better said, you ARE life (not someone living life)

It sounds a bit silly when you put it like that. There is a happening there taking place, yes. Only because it is taking place, it is a valid form of consciousness that is not to be dismissed.

@asgard94 , Your case is hilarious, but let's go with it as an exercise. First thing: to have any type of a psychological damage, you would still have to be a "person" - which an enlightened being is not any longer. Dropping the "person-hood" is one of the few conditions required to become enlightened. Second: just because it is happening, it means that consciousness has space for a "spitting" manifestation to take place. An enlightened being has enough space in him as to also allow for that one. Third: Just because there is allowing, it does not mean that such occurrences need to be happening. For example, even if you understand and accept the fire, doesn't mean you're going to get into it. This is a decision of the "current" mind - the practical mind, that needs to be addressed logically in any way that seems fit to put your physical body out of the "spitting".

@Isle of View , I'll try to find it, but there are many where He talks about that... I'll get back to this laters... I tend to get so blissful listening to Him... I forget

@Pinocchio

I have met Mooji's soul "there"

Yes

@Study Wrong You should not believe any of your thoughts as saying something about you. Enlightenment is not a happening. It is who you already are. The one looking at those thoughts. The "I" dropping all the thinking is still a thought YOU see passing

This is a thought This is a thought This is a thought This is a (funny but more true than others) thought

@theinevitableandi Your mind tricks you into believing that there is a "you" that is thinking something. In reality, thinking just happens. Have you noticed that thoughts come and go from/to nowhere? So the YOU that is perceived as a person (body/mind), cannot grasp (for long) that it does not exist. Because within the not existing, thinking cannot exist either. Those are only thoughts coming and going. Mind is dancing with those thoughts. Mind IS those thoughts. So remove the "I" from the "I think". Something is "being thought", but that is not you. Think about that process of thinking as a burning coal. As soon as there is thinking happening, drop it. Discard it as being all that you are not. No need to give it any attention. NONE! Another analogy that comes to mind: You can smell everything with your nose, but your nose cannot smell itself. Isn't that so? So every thing you can think of, perceive, imagine, dream, wish for, struggle with, hate, etc...is not you. Discard those. There's something that is witnessing all that. In the beginning of true finding, it can have a little bit of a "back" feel to it in the body/mind. That's another illusion but it is like seeing the gate already

Every single moment of my life is meditation. I have never used crystals either, but if they seem to bring you something you can use, so be it. They are yet another manifestation of consciousness

Yes

An NDE puts you immediately in contact with Source energy that is not bound by time. Your body/mind has returned to your current timeline, but one other aspect of you might have access to the one step further. Just a hypothesis Meditate on all this - you are only experiencing this thing. It is not who you are. Discard it or use it to "your advantage". There is a website on NDE that seems quite dynamic - maybe ask them too?

This sounds a bit like the "fighting for peace"