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@Valach lets be honest here. You are critiquing her down to the core but in truth shes telling you everything here. It isn't rocket science. It never was. She is going to go on her intuition and vibes on the first date. But more importantly we are all missing the physical vibes. That is going to be the biggest component on a first date. That and how well you can communicate will radiate the vibes she needs. Its when you muddy this all up that it gets difficult. Feel the vibes she's putting out and match them.

😀 yes very very much. I have learned the hard way. Always jumping in so fast. Moving in together. It's a recipe for disaster. But..the experiences have made me. So I can't say it was all for ill. Yet now if I can pick the perfect girl. I think it would just be you. Kidding...but hopefully that landed.

That's pretty neat. Intuition is really good but I wouldnt rely on it as much as you do. You still aren't going to know a guy's true character until you live with them. We are sneaky devils. We can easily put on a front that will fool even the most intuitive and supernatural ladies. We can fool you. I don't think you know a person until you have lived with them.

That's all well and good but I think it can go over the top sometimes. Like if you don't even earn a certain salary..you aren't six foot..or maybe your religion doesnt line up. Its very hard these days with the types of standards in place. But then again..if these weren't in place problems would be had later. I just think it's too staged at this point. If you don't answer it all perfectly you're done. It makes it very difficult for the average guy these days. But like I said..I get your point of view and if I were you I would probably be the same way. Why waste your time with a guy who is not going to meet your criteria.

I like you man. You remain true despite the resistance. It is commendable. I don't think you can live with yourself otherwise. You mentioned trauma in past talks. Well. I think falsehood is the real killer.

Ok good so when I come to Cali you're paying big boy 😀

I was kidding around. In all seriouesness...yeah I think its kind of muffled up and corrupt. What happened to good ole fashioned conversation. Liking someone for who they are and not how many boxes they check. But if that held true.. we would have a different world.

I'm not even sure if it matters. Within a decade we will have robots for girlfriends.

I was actually thinking something similar when @Emeraldmentioned her concerns about a guy were. That just goes to show how much of a tightrope we are walking. Women have the clipboard out. Trust me. They may not show it. But they might as well be checking check boxes with every word out of your mouth. And if you don't check the boxes you're getting ghosted. Most of the time with me I was able to get then a bit buzzed and my charisma would carry me. This might work for the night cap but it doesn't hold long term. As far as it heing transactional. Well..that's what it has come to unfortunately. That's what it is now. You would be a fool to think otherwise. You're going to be screened as if for a job interview.

In a way though it is kind of sexist of us. Why could the woman not pay? Well. If we trace it back..men were the providers and women were often housewives and stay at home moms. That's where that whole thing came from. Now you have stay at home dad's. Lol. So. Realistically it shouldn't matter who pays. But this is a culture thing.

Yes. And i agree 100 percent the man should pay. Frappachino or no, I'm old fashioned 😀

Yeah. Made that mistake. Took a girl to Morton's steakhouse on the first date. I must have had fool written all over me.

I would even hesitate on this. It's too soon. I've wasted a lot of money like that. On fancy dinners.

See. We didn't even need Hitler.

It's always the Jews fault. 😀

Keep in mind that sometimes they may have to be. I agree dating gets expensive. The payoff isn't guaranteed without the confidence. So this is key. If we throw him out there with no confidence he will be both broke and wacking off. Let's do this thing right. And then it's a worthy investment.

100 percent agree. It is a double edged sword though. Think lf it like an investment.

Good. Excellent.

Whose right?

What about the Jews. Are they just left to dust.

Because they believe Christ is God. Try telling them otherwise. Or you. Not sure if you are a Christian. I don't talk religion or politics at the dinner table 😀 As for your astral plane absolutely it's real. But that's not something objectively true. Just like anything else. You make it true.

Have you guys seen the new show Carrie? Highly recommend- there is an astral projector in the show too! @Majed did you forget Judaism in your bible reference? Much of the Bible is as christians call it - the Old Testament. I don't know what to make of this so called astral plane. I guess if you want to imagine it's validity you will. And it will exist. But angels and devils. Well...I know I don't have to take Communion in order to go to heaven.

You mean more tears and bliss? Well heck. I'm game.

To Infinity and beyond.

I mean at the end of the day it's really all about communication. So it's not so much about the talking fast. It's getting through to her. Directly to her. So then when you lay the pipe it is sealed.