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Not if they have cars 😀 if they all come over at the same time you have real trouble on your hands.

@Leo Gura hit @LordFall up for a mod spot. He's awesome.

These weren't polyamory chicks. Just regular old chicks. Like you said. Winged it. Didn't do it right. So here I am juggling four girls. Did I lie to them? I don't think they asked. But I surely didn't offer it up. Yeah. I am the one who told you guys not to lie to women. They are like the lie police. They can sniff that shit out a mile away.

So the secret to maintaining 4 girlfriends in America is ensure at least 3 of them don't own a car. That way you're safe from them coming over while you're fucking a different one. I couldn't control the fourth. That was Stacy. Quite wealthy. I had to board up the windows to keep her out while I was getting busy

You're the best. Man. Wanna be a mod? Hit Leo up. There's some slots open now.

She's a brit doubt she is going to go for that. And she has class. And she's cute. So yeah don't see her doing that.

The day I have to buy viagra..is the day..I continue on!!!

I winged it as usual. Lordfall pegged me.

I've already juggled four girlfriends just not labeled as such. You just have to make sure the schedules don't overlap. And I don't have 4 houses so they can't be coming by unannounced.

You're still my princess. But I gotta use the tool if you know what I mean. So..if you are on board with polyamory we can pick up where we left off 😀 my wonderful Melanie.

Awesome. Yeah I think everyone is starting to expand and go in other directions as I hear it's becoming harder and harder on YouTube to make a living. Leo basically stopped. I'm good thanks man. Good to see you again.

@BlessedLionbtw. Super cool that you worked one on one with Ralston. He's a legend. Was he a nice guy? Seems like kind of a dick. But did you feel like it was worth it? I've seen some of your videos on your channel are you still active?

Is it so much about the man or women trying to spread genes or is it just about getting off. Because she obviously couldn't get off with her husband. So I filled that role. For the kings..yeah I'm sure their secondary goal was to spread their seed. But their primary goal was to get off and enjoy it.

You're literally describing Stacy. She and I had a 2 year relationship from 2021 to 2023 and she was married. She did not sleep with her husband but kept the marriage for the financial stability. The health insurance, etc. While she fucked me. I was her boy toy. There was a time finally where she was going to actually leave and did for a bit..he had moved out. But by then it was too late I got tired of being her boy toy.

I think if you're looking for a long term partner then intelligence should be at the top of the list. If she isn't at your level there will be issues. Or I should say if you're both not at equal levels intelligence wise and development wise.

Well..its illegal here anyway but multiple partners I think is definitely the way i am wired. So Mia and I reconnected and she is in an open marriage. I'm going to see her hopefully next week. And then maybe she will have some new friends! The whole one woman thing just never worked for me. Perhaps because of selfishness but also as Leo pointed out woman can be very difficult to get along with and if they feel you aren't doing your duties you will get nagged to hell and back. If you do your duties in bed you can minimize this at least 😀

And when you're with them you want to kill yourself too 😀 I think we're damned if we do and dammed if we don't!

What do you mean by high quality? Money and status? Agreed. Kings had multiple women all the time even if they had one wife they had a mistress or two on the side. It was pretty standard.

Well then you live happily ever after. I really feel that any couple that does is very blessed. It is hard to find.

See..but you almost ruin it by putting labels on it. They should want to move towards it without the labels. When you do that you could scare us off. We don't like to necessarily put everything in clear boxes. I think we like the chaos. But we do come around to it. So let us.

Yeah. What's your vision? I think maybe you should lower the bar a little. Not every guy is gonna share your vision but he still might be a good fit.

Well that's what I'm saying. Women need these things. The simple things that we idiots take for granted. You understand them and you understand how to value and cherish them. While we just piss our lives away waiting for the next lay. You have your hands full. That is all i can say.

Now it becomes clear. Yes. Absolutely. That's something I am trying to learn. Certain things need to glow by their own right. Like the relationship. It needs to glow, Separate from everything else. It needs to be it's own entity. To identify it as such should not be necessary if he is doing it right.

Was it the lack of him using labels or the lack of him being able to distinguish distinctions. Because that's all you really need. You don't need to put labels on things if you already have them separated in your mind.

Well, labels don't make much sense to me either. Why would you try to label anything. That doesn't sound like a relationship breaker. There is something you're not telling me. But it's OK. It sounds like like you needed to move on from him and did. It sounds like you were more developed than he was and he couldn't adapt or rise to your level. That's not about being better or smarter, its about being connected. And you're right, I have actually had failed relationships due to both scenarios you mentioned. I tend to be more of the homebody.