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IYeah I think it does come down to control. There has to be the one who is dominant. If that isn't established and agreed apon, there will be issues. And I never like to give up my dominancee in a relationship. Which is weird because i usually do it any other time.

yeah...like they want you to work on the yard at 5 but you want to do it at 2. They become really fucking controlling. The longer it goes. And I fucking hate that. So with her - the last one - she was a cleaner. And that's great. Clean the place. But don't fucking tell me when to do the yard. I had my own schedule I think thats the problem.

I told you just not doing their agenda. That's what it comes down to. Now your new thing - if it works, would be great.

Hey he is claiming her...I kinda wanted dibbs but he beat me to it. Not cringe. She's quality. Not sure where we are gonna find her elsewhere.

This is what you guys are gonna end up as if you keep going like me. Fucked 500 girls but nothing to show for it. Alone. So think about that.

i don't know, I'm just rambling. Maybe @LordFall has some tips.

Precisely, which makes it all the more difficult. As guys we just wanna go straight for the prize, and the fucked up thing is a lot of times this works. So we keep doing it. We keep going directly for the prize. But that ends up usually in a mess because your focus was on pussy not on substance. So ...i would say you have to look for substance but just let her be somewhat cute to you. It's very difficult to have both.

Of course I am. It's the trick to the whole thing. Unfortunately we think with the wrong body part. So, yeah I'll sacrifice everything. Even my values. That's a shit guy. But that's what I am. Thats why I've had a million failed relationships. So yeah, I know how to get laid. But it aint gonna get you that far in life.

Totally. When it comes to sex this is actually especially true, I've found. When you aren't looking that's when you stumble onto the finest pastures. That's why i hesitate to play the lottery.

When you get to be my age you just appreciate any BJ you can get. However, i had one girl who literally said if i took her she would suck my dick every night when i came home from work. I guess it was some kind of plea. Cougar of course, been run through a bit too much. But, i thought about it.

Everyone needs some. You will find that you will do what you need to do to acquire it.

Girls are too picky, period. So, that's why I said fuck them good.

I think what happened is we all just need to go back to stage blue like grandma and grandpa. They made it work. Though it wasn't pretty. Incorporating the earlier stages of SD becomes quite apparent here.

That's the miracle. Like I was saying in the other thread with @Carl-Richard about his dreams. The whole thing is a script. It's a play. That you can go see in the theater. The whole magic of it though is that we are tricked. We're tricked into thinking its real.

It becomes more timeless as time goes on. I see how precious it really is. Wow. Yeah, we've been hearing it our whole life. Morpheus.

They look so young. I can't believe how old this movie is now.

why do you need the "being part"...that's something we are currently attaching. Intelligence shall be there, but it needs not ownership. So when you remove the ownership what you are left with is just pure Awareness. The reason why solipsism doesn't collide with this is because it says there are no other minds. That would not be incorrect here.

She makes me wanna have a cigarrette!

Correct. The assumption is no other minds. But I am talking to "another mind" now...is that an illusion or is this there someone out there. Well, first you would have to move beyond Materialism. Then a conversation can be had. Because materialism really changes everything I would deem.

It hasn't solved me getting my rocks off, but it did clear up everything else.

Boom. Nailed as usual.

SHe gets shy when I call her out Maybe she likes me.

I think we need clarrity. Bringing in Solipsist #1. Mellow take it away

Well, there is something that transcends that. Just pure magic. A level of consicousness where you fully understand not only yourself, but all of reality. Which of course, ultimately, is one. But there is a state where you can grasp it all, including yourself. The problem i have with neo-advaita is it seems to restrain reality in some sort of way.

That's a really, really good question. No, you just know this inneffably. Because of your intelligence. A dog cannot understand enlighenment, sadly, nor can a rabbit. But you can.