Inliytened1

I guess I've just been hanging with the small timers. The little fish 😀

I'm wild but you take it to a whole other level 🤪

Watch out for them too i hear they can get pretty kinky and make you do things you wouldn't ordinarily do. And then send you out on "love" missions for them until you get yourself jailed. Don't rob banks for them it's not worth it.

Self confidence is something women can intuitively sniff out almost immediately. They don't want a guy lacking self esteem. If they sense that they will be taken aback. They want a man that is secure in his own skin otherwise how could they make them feel secure? It's a crucial component in being able to pick up a women. Keeping her requires it as well but they want to see you have your shit together . So keeping them transforms more from confidence to stability and that you got things and can handle things ongoing.

You are the ego, so surrendering is to forfeit yourself. No one wants to do that. I've always said that enlightenment via meditation has to have the element of surprise. It has to happen quickly - within weeks- if it is too happen that way. Otherwise a powerful psychedelic would be needed i would think.

Yes. Life is constantly throwing you curve balls. It becomes a game of cat and mouse. And sometimes you just want to bury your head in the sand because life has beaten you down to a pulp. But it is the lust for life itself that should make you pick your head up and keep going. Until you reach the light at the end of the tunnel.

To piggy back off this - it's important to that you take little steps each day to accomplish long term goals. Rome wasn't built in a day. And its a marathon not a sprint. Small gains each day will start to add up. So it is babysteps. You need endurance but you also need consistency. I used to start things and quit. When you work towards a goal...you want to start and go all the way to the finish but note that it will take little steps each day maybe for 5 years, or whatever it takes. But follow through. And often times you will want to give up. Those are the times to keep pushing.

It doesn't make a guy weak to ask a girl what it takes. Actually it takes guts. Because maybe they will tell you something you needed to know. So guys don't give @Olaf a hard time. I commend him. Why not pick a chick's brain? If they think you weak for it then move on. They all say they want a sensitive guy anyway. There's nothing wrong with it.

But it is the best feeling. When it all dissolves.

😀 Yes. I was a jerk. It's as Shinzen Young says. It was my evil twin.

😀 I save that as a last resort. Final surrender. I'm not ready to wave the white flag just yet.

This is gonna take a lotta ass kissing. But I'm.ready. No rooster on the roof is taking my girl.

This is the best drunk song at the bar haha

I ain't in the dog park anymore. I'm in the dog house.

@Natasha Tori Maru r u gonna stay mad at me. I'm just a dude with a dick.

How would you approach one woman? Treat it the same way. Every woman is the only one that matters in the universe

Honestly. Someone who just calls you to say hi. How many friends do you have that do that, and how many do you have that call you when they need something.

He's probably busy living.

We thought the roosters got you.

Not only isn't the dog park bad, it's one if the best spots there are, great call!. This would have been useful in my other thread. And I was also getting to LA Fitness parking lots after that Chruch parking lot post. But serious this one is the best! I had two huskies and believe you me the women flowed. Now I have a beast of a German shepherd and I can't even take him to the park without a muzzle. It scares women off. But the best was when my husky got In a scuffle with a girl's husky and I grabbed her number after. And no, it wasn't for the hospital bill. 😀

@Joshe the point i think is that as you grow older this means less and less. It's really whether or not you develop into a Randy. The Randy guy had it right but he also had the looks and talk to go with it. We all don't have these attributes so as we age it is not going to matter about social circles. You are just going to need to be yourself. And if that isn't good enough. Well. Then a woman needs to take another look. They will lower their standards when it comes to looks eventually but it takes women mostly until they reach 45 or so to lower all the physical standards .

Well apparently everyone "liked" the bad cool guy because they slept with him. He just slept with multiple women.

In a social circle like she is depicting, you are dammed if you do and dammed if you don't. If you're the cool guy, you're an asshole. If you're the dork, you're getting nothing. No attention. Notice because she said Randy had the same looks as this other guy. But if you're Randy. It's stars. How is that fun. Does only Randy get to live happily ever after. Now. That's why social perception is a bunch of bullshit. I bet there were plenty of guys like Randy who never got the attention because they didn't have the looks or the talk.

All of this is nice. But you really hint at social acceptance here. And literally none of that matters. The guy getting a million girls where everyone was skeezed out by may be just as happy now as your Randy. It doesn't matter what those people thought. I'm not justifying either way- I'm just trying to tell you the social circles aren't what makes you happy. Or what justifies anything. Maybe he came around to be a great guy to someone.

All the women? How many do you see here anyway? They all went with the roosters. All kidding aside I don't wanna run the few here off. So..yeah pipe it down Peter 😀