Inliytened1

How would you approach one woman? Treat it the same way. Every woman is the only one that matters in the universe

Honestly. Someone who just calls you to say hi. How many friends do you have that do that, and how many do you have that call you when they need something.

He's probably busy living.

We thought the roosters got you.

Not only isn't the dog park bad, it's one if the best spots there are, great call!. This would have been useful in my other thread. And I was also getting to LA Fitness parking lots after that Chruch parking lot post. But serious this one is the best! I had two huskies and believe you me the women flowed. Now I have a beast of a German shepherd and I can't even take him to the park without a muzzle. It scares women off. But the best was when my husky got In a scuffle with a girl's husky and I grabbed her number after. And no, it wasn't for the hospital bill. 😀

@Joshe the point i think is that as you grow older this means less and less. It's really whether or not you develop into a Randy. The Randy guy had it right but he also had the looks and talk to go with it. We all don't have these attributes so as we age it is not going to matter about social circles. You are just going to need to be yourself. And if that isn't good enough. Well. Then a woman needs to take another look. They will lower their standards when it comes to looks eventually but it takes women mostly until they reach 45 or so to lower all the physical standards .

Well apparently everyone "liked" the bad cool guy because they slept with him. He just slept with multiple women.

In a social circle like she is depicting, you are dammed if you do and dammed if you don't. If you're the cool guy, you're an asshole. If you're the dork, you're getting nothing. No attention. Notice because she said Randy had the same looks as this other guy. But if you're Randy. It's stars. How is that fun. Does only Randy get to live happily ever after. Now. That's why social perception is a bunch of bullshit. I bet there were plenty of guys like Randy who never got the attention because they didn't have the looks or the talk.

All of this is nice. But you really hint at social acceptance here. And literally none of that matters. The guy getting a million girls where everyone was skeezed out by may be just as happy now as your Randy. It doesn't matter what those people thought. I'm not justifying either way- I'm just trying to tell you the social circles aren't what makes you happy. Or what justifies anything. Maybe he came around to be a great guy to someone.

All the women? How many do you see here anyway? They all went with the roosters. All kidding aside I don't wanna run the few here off. So..yeah pipe it down Peter 😀

We got the legendary @Emerald to chime in now we need the Aussie. Maybe she found her rooster.

I updated my post..I caught on.

Yes you do. Oh. You mean it's not tiny? Then you have nothing to worry about. Heck you don't even have to listen.

Hogwash. It's never tiny. Besides- you gotta get there before you even worry about that. And if you get there in the first place..you probably have nothing to worry about. Ask @Emerald

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Where's the Aussie lately?

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Yeah but I'm gonna toss you a secret even Adyashanti can't give you. If you listen one out of the five, when you actually do listen and seriously engage, they cream over it because you really leaned in.

When listening to women all you need is the last few words of the sentence. From there you can construct what they were trying to say ..IF they ask. And they will ask. "Are you even listening to me?" "What did i say" 😀 You better be able to come up with something in the arena

You laughed though 🤣😂

That's what they desire. The man's job is to provide that safety. Safety and security.

Just talk and smile. That's all you need to do with women. You can just pretend to listen. (Kidding folks..everyone relax)

It's a security blanket. If you meet some Joe off the street from Nantucket you don't know of he's an axe murderer or not. But nowadays you can find a lot out about a person by looking them up online. Criminal history, etc. By the way, it's not foolproof. You might find the biggest nut right inside your social circle/community

It's the enlightened one 😝

Typically that's a woman who just wants to take it slow. Patience wins the prize. But it doesn't mean you're just friends if there is an attraction their. I think the communication is key here. I Typically prefer a women who wants to move at a moderate pace and isn't afraid to get a little wild and spontaneous.