Inliytened1

I never realized disgust sensitivity was a thing. But since it is I'm glad mine is low. I recently lived with a woman who suffered from germ OCD. Imagine her disgust sensitivity to "toxins". Eventually I became one of those toxins. That didnt end well.

Shit. Run the earth. They're too busy not trying to be extinct.

I thought you were materialist city bro haha.

It's interesting. I've seen families where the dynamic is completely flipped around. The woman is bringing home the bacon and the man is taking care of the house and the kids. But now..does that man still hold his weight as a man? I don't know. Probably not. She is now dominant. I do agree that men have an easier time shutting it off. That's our testosterone at work. We have to be the masculine. If we felt everything we wouldn't be able to be your protectors in the way you need us to be. Yet the irony is that you beg us to feel. If we can't feel and connect with you then we have nothing.

@Valach yeah I feel like all of this is taking stabs in the dark. How can anyone say anything about anyone when everyone is their own individual with their own experiences. Their own trauma. Their own everything. Man. Woman. We are all humans. And we are all scarred. Emerald is one lady. But when I walk up on another one she has her own mind. And now..if I am playing by her rules I may get it all wrong.

@Joseph Maynor is pretty good with this stuff. This gets into the male getting in touch with his feminine side. The feminine. @Emerald is too i believe. I became more in touch with the feminine post Awakening. I have a ways to go but I tapped into the feminine.

I think we have to be their rock too. So if we burst into tears on the daily it is probably going to be a turn off. A woman wants us to be their rock.

How so. Just because we bury it doesn't make a man less sensitive. A man has to ultimately come to terms with his emotions and his feelings. Our culture gave us this identity that we can't feel. But we actually feel as much as a woman does. Perhaps more. It is a matter of being ok with feeling it. I really admire gay guys as they seem to lack this weakness.

I wouldn't be so sure about women being more sensitive. Men are actually more sensitive. We just pile it behind walls. It took me decades to learn to let myself cry. While woman can do this freely. Awakening liberated me from that.

A good player will fool you every day of the week. That's a woman's chink in her armor. She can fall for the wrong guy. Signals crossed or straight. It doesn't matter. Your vibes will only take you so far. I'm not saying this because all guys are dicks I'm saying that as soon as you start to fall - your defenses will go to shit. So hopefully its the right guy.

Can he astral project?

@Valach lets be honest here. You are critiquing her down to the core but in truth shes telling you everything here. It isn't rocket science. It never was. She is going to go on her intuition and vibes on the first date. But more importantly we are all missing the physical vibes. That is going to be the biggest component on a first date. That and how well you can communicate will radiate the vibes she needs. Its when you muddy this all up that it gets difficult. Feel the vibes she's putting out and match them.

😀 yes very very much. I have learned the hard way. Always jumping in so fast. Moving in together. It's a recipe for disaster. But..the experiences have made me. So I can't say it was all for ill. Yet now if I can pick the perfect girl. I think it would just be you. Kidding...but hopefully that landed.

That's pretty neat. Intuition is really good but I wouldnt rely on it as much as you do. You still aren't going to know a guy's true character until you live with them. We are sneaky devils. We can easily put on a front that will fool even the most intuitive and supernatural ladies. We can fool you. I don't think you know a person until you have lived with them.

That's all well and good but I think it can go over the top sometimes. Like if you don't even earn a certain salary..you aren't six foot..or maybe your religion doesnt line up. Its very hard these days with the types of standards in place. But then again..if these weren't in place problems would be had later. I just think it's too staged at this point. If you don't answer it all perfectly you're done. It makes it very difficult for the average guy these days. But like I said..I get your point of view and if I were you I would probably be the same way. Why waste your time with a guy who is not going to meet your criteria.