Eric Tarpall

Love without reproduction is short lasting. What's deeper than two beings coming together and creating a new being? And nurturing that being together. That's the pinnacle of love. A gay couple can raise a child but will they love the child as much as biological parents would? I don't know. I hope they do.

I would be on board with doing that if I knew how it benefits me. I don't see any benefits. I know but I wouldn't consider that healthy because there's no love involved. It's a cold clinical way of producing a child. That's how it seems to me at least. And you could argue that it's heterosexual because the semen and the egg still come together. Male and female.

People can be gay and have open relationships if they want. Or have non sexual relationships. That's fine. But I wouldn't consider that healthy. If everyone did that humans would go extinct. Yeah that's where my problem lies. My ego can't handle rejection so I never try to escalate things.

I should because I'm a male. They are supposed to be interested in me. But maybe I should work harder to provide value to them. I don't know. I see them as people. People are animals including myself. I think you are seeing them as more than people. You're elevating them to goddesses.

I expect girls to show interest in me but it never happens. Sometimes they blush or smile at me but they never flirt. That makes me feel worthless. And whenever a girl is semi flirting with me I think she's faking it. I just have negative psychology I guess. I like this definition of mature. But I don't see how being sensitive benefits me. Maybe you want guys to be sensitive because it benefits you but what's in it for them? I know if I pet my snake it's my own fault. But some people seem to want me to do it. For unknown reasons. I'm just guessing their motives. I don't know. I think the purpose of relationships is to reproduce and raise strong cubs together. In the perfect world I would want to impregnate a woman of each race. White, black, asian etc. To create different versions of myself. But these days kids are forced to be vaccinated. And CPS steals people's kids for the dumbest reasons. I don't want to put my cubs through that. The bloodline ends with me.

What would you consider a healthy sex life then? I've given this plenty of thought.

I mean teaching them socializing, flirting, confidence, body language, grooming, fashion, assertiveness, motherly and fatherly skills in case they get knocked up etc.

It's better to teach them how to get along with the opposite sex. How to attract them and how to please them sexually. Parents are failing to do this. No one would masturbate if they had a healthy sex life.

Haha now you're just mocking me. If every body is different then it would not make sense to teach that masturbation is good.

Reproducing. Or dethrone them. Who knows.

Because they want me to be weak, submissive and low energy. That makes it easier to govern me and less likely for me to reproduce.

People want what's good for themselves. And sometimes that involves hurting others. I've observed this within myself too. Human nature is not as good and pure as you would like to believe.

Earth is moving upward that's what gravity is.

Maybe shaming is not the right word. But you do get lectured about masturbating being good for you when you say that you don't do it. My psychologist tried to do that to me when I was fourteen. It's suspicious to me that people want me to masturbate. Probably because it's bad for me. That's because girls are discouraged from being loving and feminine. This causes males to be deprived of love and it causes them to become cold and distant. I used to want love but girls never gave it to me so I slowly lose interest in love. Define mature. I think what most people mean by mature is ''behave how I want you to behave'' Feeling positive emotions is good but you don't want to open yourself up to negative ones. You and I can't know how it affects testosterone unless you're blindly trusting studies. So I admit that I made a foolish claim. But I have noticed that I'm less dominant after I masturbate. I trust my body more than studies. Only one way to find out. I'm going to stop doing it and see what happens.

I discovered it on my own too. I'm not worried about kids discovering it. I'm worried about them being encouraged to do it. Why would someone feel the need to encourage kids to touch themselves? They can make that decision for themselves. And I notice that pop culture shames those who don't masturbate. That's a red flag. When you get shamed to do something that thing is usually bad for you. That's true I guess but if you've never tasted those emotions you won't be motivated to go after them. I blame masturbation for good reasons. It lowers testosterone which increases fear. And when you masturbate you're lying to yourself. You're fantasizing about a person. Convincing yourself that you're having sex with that person while you're not. This creates a subconscious belief that you can't have that person. Because if you can have her/him then you would go after it instead of fantasizing about it.

You do actually. Without horniness you will lay in bed all day. The only reason you go to your job, socialize, shower etc is because you want to reproduce. The more you want to reproduce the more you will do those things. I've read that orgasm is more addicting than cocaine but I don't know if that's true. Not yet but they are planning to do that. They say it's good for them because it helps them with boundaries. But that's dumb logic. Masturbation is not sex. Masturbation represses sexuality more than anything. Because of the reasons I mentioned. And when a society changes over time that doesn't mean that those changes are good. And I said that they should be encouraged to explore the bodies of the opposite sex. Instead of their own bodies. That's not repression.

They can but it's less likely. They are more likely to do it when school encourages it. Nah ah. If you have a never ending honey jar in your pocket you're not going to climb a tree and put your hand in a bee hive. No even a little bit of masturbation is bad for you. Would you give a tiny amount of cocaine to a child and trust him to not use more?

When you masturbate your horniness doesn't build up like it should. And because you're not mega horny you won't have motivation to talk to girls. That's what happened to me. Way less people would masturbate (and suffer the consequences) if it wasn't taught in schools. Masturbation seems innocent but it makes boys and girls feel like they don't need each other. This prevents healthy relationships and families from forming.

I told the truth. It's fine if you don't believe me.

No it also happens when you're unattractive. Being unattractive is like being in an invisible prison.

I think homosexuality is a coping mechanism that people use when they don't have access to bodies of the opposite sex. That's why prisoners turn to each other. I had sex with a male when I was sixteen and I didn't enjoy it. I just closed my eyes and pretended he was a girl. It's sad when you have to resort to that but some people have no choice.

The video is there but you can only see it if you have the ox's tail in your mouth.

You can be while you do. And that's a good thing because if you focus on what you're doing you're more effective at what you're doing. And you enjoy it more. I think the happiest human being is always busy and productive but it doesn't feel like work to him. Or to her.

I don't know. I enjoy movement more than stillness usually. If I can choose to stare at a picture of a waterfall for 1 hour or look at a 1 hour video of a moving waterfall, I would choose the video. Or actually go to a real waterfall for 1 hour that would be even better. You mean like baking eggs while jerking off?