Eric Tarpall

No matter how much anti truth propaganda there is, you will recognize truth when you see it. You just have to trust your eyes.

I don't know what cette means. I found it on google images. I'd say it's a sensory phenomenon. I hope you're wrong. That sounds like a lot of work. I'm a hard worker but of course I rather take the easy path.

You might feel resistance to having a schedule. Because schedules were imposed on you when you were a kid. Following someone elses schedule is is not fun. But making your own is. If you plan every second of the day you will feel suffocated because there's no free time. You do need some free time. The best system that works for me is to do an activity for 1 hour. And then give myself 15 minutes of free time.

I agree with mister peterson. Yeah that's pretty much what I'm doing right now.

You don't have to suffer. Embrace slow progress and move slowly towards your goals. Always be relaxed and slow no matter what you're doing. You can take short sprints sometimes. But if you're always racing you will get attention deficit, anxiety & low energy.

Owning each other is seen as a negative thing. Especially when it's a man owning a woman. But maybe it's not so bad after all. If you don't own something you usually don't care about what happens to it. For example if you see that someone's car has scratches on it you don't care. Because you don't own that car. See what I mean? I think in order to love something you have to own it. I think Teal Swan made a video about this topic a while ago.

With sisters I mean the females of the human race. I do have love for them but my love gets clouded by my sexual frustration. It's hard not to blame girls for my virginity because I know I'm attractive. But I'm not a celebrity. And that's a deal breaker for most girls. It's difficult to forgive that when I feel horny & lonely. Can I get over this somehow?

When a girl has a boyfriend it feels like she's cheating on me. And if she's had a boyfriend in the past it makes me really uncomfortable. I want to be the only male in her life. Does anyone know the psychology behind this? For example if I have a crush on a girl and she has an ex boyfriend I can't stop picturing her in my mind being together with that dude. I'm disgusted by that and it makes me sad.

That sounds poetic but it's not the same thing. Owning a girl doesn't kill her. I only want to own a girl who wants to be owned by me. And she owns me too.

You mean like writing down all the facts that I know about the situation? That's not a bad idea. Because I think pursuing that thing will make me happy.

Lets say that I desperately want a coconut but I have no idea how to climb the tree. And I also don't know where to learn how to climb the tree. This is a very annoying situation to be in. What's the best attitude or mindset to have in this situation? Edit: And I also don't know where the tree is. Better analogy.

Currently my belief is that you can only get knowledge by exploring the world. And by trying new things. And you can't pull knowledge out of your ass by contemplating or thinking. If you close your eyes you only have access to the knowledge that you already have. That's my assumption. Let me know if I'm wrong.

Oh yeah that's true. I forgot about that. I was in a very narrow mind space when I wrote this topic.

They would have bumper stickers on their tanks that say #systemsthinking

Something illegal. So there are no teachers or books about it. At least not that I'm aware of. It's nothing evil though haha

I should have given a better analogy. Lets say that you desperately want a coconut. But you don't even know where the tree is.

I think it's usually stage green people who want to give their love to more than one person.

Yeah but it's kinda demoralizing if I don't even know where to look for it. It makes me want to give up. Do you mean relaxing & unfocusing the mind? Or do you mean deep contemplation?

Having high standards as a male is a rare thing. I used to have very low standards but that made me feel pathetic. A girl has to be pure, feminine, innocent and she has to chase me a little bit before I want her. If she doesn't have those qualities I still love her but I'm not gonna do business with her. Hmm I guess increasing my self worth can't hurt. I'll try that. I feel like it's already pretty high but I might be deluding myself. Even if she's had only one relationship that lasted many years she will be more likely to break up with you because of that. And she's not able to give her full self to you because her heart is broken & fragmented. Each ex has a piece of her heart. So the more exes she has the smaller her heart is.

I would say that order is better than chaos in most cases. But I do enjoy chaos sometimes. It makes life more interesting.

I enjoy doing one activity for a long period of time but there's always fear and boredom barriers that I have to break through. For some reason multi tasking makes me feel safe. My theory is that single tasking is scary because by focusing on one thing you become blind to other opportunities. And it makes you feel like you're missing out on those opportunities.

Limiting belief. I care about what girls want but of course I care more about my own wants. Is a girl going to step into my shoes and care about my needs? Probably not. She's gonna put her own needs first and she should.

That's pomodoro technique right? I think I prefer working for one hour and then have a 15 minute break.

If you're physically weak and not skilled at fighting your brain knows that. And it wants to keep you safe. So it creates the anxiety. When people for example laugh at you that's a threat because that means they don't respect / fear you. And that makes it more likely that they will attack & murder you. So learning self defense should solve the social anxiety problem. This also includes fleeing & evasion skills. Like running and hiding.

I've never been with a girl. That's kinda weird to me. Doesn't it gross you out that she has given her love & sex to some other dude in the past?