oMarcos
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Politics is based on lunacy, it coundln't exist otherwise.
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oMarcos replied to Kalki Avatar's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
There are other half who claim it isn't a permanent state. But that's not even the point, looking towards a "permanent state" is going against the current of the river. I would say is a gradual thing, you become more, and more, and more, and you never reach a "final", it doesn't exist such thing. -
oMarcos replied to Kalki Avatar's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Enlightenment is not a permanent state. If you think it is you are knocking your head on the wall. -
Did someone already mentioned some sort of obvious "I get attracted to men who can understand me and can provide me reliable safety" ? Safety includes: emotional safety (she is confident that the guy is emotional mature to endure even bad times; to maker her feel good about herself and provide feelings of healthy self-esteem); money safety (the women expects the guy to be financial independent and self-sufficient, that makes her feel confident about the future, and a potential mate to have children with). Now, the big deal comes about how does the man show this traits to the women he is interested in? Let's say, how can I show I am that Man on dating apps? Does my fancy pictures will make it seem obvious that I can provide safety? Probably not. For that matter, you probably need to have a job, let's say, like a Lawyer, and then you make it tseem like you are someone who loves his job. Some women will like it, some don't, and that's ok. The last thing I wanna say. Both women and men want to be with someone who they feel they are lucky to be with, and not by merely 2nd option or because they can't do better. Are you expressing yourself in a way that makes you look like you are always shooting for the one who will fall into your lazy trick, or are you full of choice, and she knows that you choosed her. Now, that hits different. Forget about rating, "I am a 6, I am 10" What a joke. For some women, you are a 10, for others, you are a mediocre 2. tl;dr Find your niche girl/ boy, and aim for it, not everyone will like you even if you are a consensual 10.
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@How to be wise Dude I was a teenager... and All of this matter is not always black and white, people are different, but you know that.
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oMarcos replied to Adamq8's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Is nothing, probably -
I disagree. The girl might have seen you already a couple times, but she is just on "her world", sometimes she will not see you as a potential in just 3 seconds, that's too pretentious and real life is not like dating apps. Sometimes all you really need is just a good circumstance. The challenge is to create a circumstance where you can move freely without feeling weird.
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One day I wrote my phone number on a paper to a girl seated on a bus, while I was leaving for my stop. She contacted me afterwards actually, it was one of the most awkward things I've done in my life. And actually more people inside the bus saw it. The thing is, is it more painful to do something awkward, or to leave with the feeling of regreat. "No" is always granted.
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Does wearing a protection mask creates any obstacles in your approaches??
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oMarcos replied to QandC's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Subconscious creativity, that's all -
Merry xmas to all members
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Tonight is Halloween, and I am at home studying Pharmacy, my mind is telling me: "Look at you, everyone at partys, and you are so boring here doing nothing." But then I think, tomorrow morning I will wake up fresh, and those people who are at partys will wake up late and feeling dizzy, and they probably failed all the flirting approaches. My mind likes to imagine that everyone fails, so I can feel good about myself. But don't get me wrong, I really like to go out, but in my current life circumstance and the place I live, does not allow me to be that social animal. So I try to evolve my spiritual life and finishing my course, so in the future all of this "loliness" was actually a very important part of my life where I was growing and being in peace.
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oMarcos replied to Flowerfaeiry's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
government will never tell you how to take care for yourself. thankfully -
I need clubs
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What you need is a strong self-esteem, not a strong ego, that's completely different.
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Among US
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Some things are obvious real limitations, like we just know for sure that no one can survive a fall from the top of a skyscraper @trenton. To be considered a real limitation we need a bias, but some bias are not very tangible and obvious, those bias can look messy, they can look different for everyone, so I would say that it's a matter of trying them with our Direct experience. For instance, if I eat a banana ice cream and feel my stomach sick, you cannot assume that the same thing will happen to you, but you will create a belief out of your fear that will happen the same thing with you, so you create a limitation on yourself based on direct experience of others. Limitation Belief and Fact are not always holding hands together and they are mostly created based on fear.
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oMarcos replied to SamueLSD's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
You are imagining your entire conceptual "reality", you just have trouble to realize this because it is Absolute and very persistent. What so called "Outside reality" doesn't exist in the sense that you are imagining it. Be very practical about this, It's more obvious and easy than you think, no science needed, no hocus pocus. Other things still exist, but also they "don't exist" in the sense that they are just your "imagination". A practical thought exercise: Try to imagine a random person you never met and seen in your life anywhere... It is possible indeed to imagine that hipotetical person with your mind's eye, but that won't make it real, just like anything else outside direct experience, but yet, there are plenty of people that you can still meet and they even might look just like the one you imagined before. So obvious, right? -
because that's the only thing you can love, no escape
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Everyone needs the sense of belonging, a community, someone to talk, to share things, there's no real need of math behind this human need
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Girlfriend vs. Single Lonely Life
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I'm not sure if we live on the same planet. Or either you are an extremely good looking guy with a very high self steem and massive talking skills, or you're just telling a story of a fantasy book. But just go ahead and tell us how do YOU do it, tell us a single story of yours that actually ended up with a sucess date or at least a phone number. @Space Inspire us with Practical real personal storys, not just sweet far-fetched talking.
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oMarcos replied to Someone here's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
After your sweet talking seems like you are still missing the most crucial point: reality IS a dream -
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