LoveandPurpose

I heard @Leo Gura talk about the personality and the ego being two different things. He said if the ego subsides the personality shines brighter. What then is the personality exactly?

I'm a 20 year old male. I've been dating a girl for about a month. We are very close to entering a relationship. It would be my first one. I like her very very very much, yet I still have a thought in the back of my mind that there could be a better girl. I'm a perfectionist in general so I don't know if it's a legit concern or just a manifestation of that problem of mine. How do you know that you have found the right partner?

@bejapuskas Can you transform attachment into love?

@Michael569 Alright, thank you!

Does the different location result in my account being blocked? @Leo Gura

@bejapuskas What's the difference between the two?

I'm currently trying to find my Life Purpose. I think I like Psychology very much, but recently I can't bother studying it. Is that a hint that I don't really like it that much or is it natural that sometimes you stop craving the things you like doing?

Leo said that in his full circle video. How can I verify for myself where my emotions are located?

@Aakash How do you mean that?

@JustThinkingAloud @see_on_see Thanks for your answers!

I think I have depression, what's a book you can recommend so I can deal with it?

Should you deal with it on a psychological level, e.g. change thought patterns, or is consciousness work the better way to do it?

Sometimes fear overwhelms me from a past trauma. I want to understand it. What is it?

Very interesting! Thank you for sharing!

@Leo Gura That really calms me down, thank you so much Leo!

@Leo Gura Yes but how is it from the relative standpoint? I'm just curious. (aND SCARED PLEASE)

@Leo Gura I think the difference would be that if someone, some entities, send you there, it is outside of your control and therefore I would feel more helpless right now in knowing that if thats the case. The other option has hope and responsibility.

@Leo Gura The realms feel real to the person but through becoming more conscious they dissapear? Does it work like that? And one question: Does someone get sent to those realms or is it just that they are in a very bad state of mind and therefore imagine them?

@Leo Gura SHIT

@Leo Gura Illusions in the grander scale that everything is God or in the sense that it's only a projection of the mind and isn't really real?

Since having had a bad experience with weed I have a big fear of losing my mind/going insane. During that trip I kind of lost touch with reality, everything seemed unreal to me. I felt that I lost control. That was also in a point at my life where I was really deep into thinking about existential questions and spirituality so I connected that bad experience to both of those (bad feelings from the trip + existential q. and spirituality -> spirituality and existential q. = bad). Spirituality also seems to evoke those feelings from the trip like feeling that you're losing your mind, losing your grip on reality. So spirituality feels like something scary to me when it goes too deep. On top of that, when I read things like the following from @Leo Gura, I get really scared of reality and I fear that something bad can happen to me. Reality just seems sometimes so full of uncertainty, mystery, crazy stuff, danger that I don't really want to know what's really going on. Well, on the one hand I want to know it but on the other hand I don't know if I can handle anything if it is too bad. So what should I do? Is spirituality too much to handle for some people? Or should I just face all of those fears and make them fully conscious, go through it because on the other side is the land of bliss?

So basic self-help will make me capable of pursuing spirituality again? I feel like spirituality will be the only thing really fulfilling me, so I don't want to abandon it. Yet I don't want to make a mistake. After self-help, how do I know that I am (more) ready for the Truth so I can focus again on spirituality?

@Preetom what do you meaaan

@Natasha Yeah I haven't smoked it since. I do that and will continue doing it. This calmed me down, thank you!

@Anton_Pierre Oh man I really hope everything will be better for you soon! I don't know if it helps but David Hawkins said in a video about hell that you create what you focus on and if you want to change your reality you should envision the one you want to create. If you need support, try talk to people who care about you or talk to us on the forum!