LoveandPurpose

@Average Investor So taking the free test a few times you mean?

@28 cm unbuffed Love your answer, feeling the freedom part, but the point of your career is passion, right? I mean yes, the floor is indeed made out of floor

The value passion: Isn‘t the whole point of the LPC to discover your passion? It seems self-evident to put that in, but I don‘t want one slot to be wasted.

Will the (spiritual) evolution of our species happen at its own pace or do we have a signficant control over the pace of it? A lot of theory on how to create less suffering on this planet is available, yet it doesn‘t change most people. How can we implement (a few of) actualized.org‘s concepts on a broad scale? Do they have to be taught in school? But that won‘t be allowed because the people controlling it don‘t value the teachings, creating vicious circle. Does change happen one individual at a time, at a slow pace in its own speed or can we speed up that process? Are personalties like Gandhi or MLK needed? But have those really changed the people opposite of their views?

@Leo Gura Will that change happen inevitably or will we have to fight(/move) towards that? Can we know how that future will look like?

Yes I like my therapist! And thanks for the advice. How do you cultivate patience though?

@kag101 Unbelievably great post man! I feel the exact same way and started therapy recently. I hope to get the results you did

@Shakazulu Not my type of music genre but I like the diversity and the instrumentals (skipped through so didn‘t have attention on lyrics) Nice to see you created something from the course!

@Leo Gura YES!

In the third movie Indiana is in the search for the holy grail which promises eternal life. There are three traps, three thresholds he has to surpass. He has hints how to achieve that: First, he was told to 'show humility before God', so he kneels on the ground, dodging blades cutting off his head in the last moment. Secondly, he was told 'to walk in the name of God', so he walks on letters on the ground, spelling God and dodging falling through some fake steps which he would have fallen through. And lastly, which really struck me as a very good metaphor for the spiritual path: The final threshold: “Nature loves courage. You make the commitment and nature will respond to that commitment by removing impossible obstacles. Dream the impossible dream and the world will not grind you under, it will lift you up. This is the trick. This is what all these teachers and philosophers who really counted, who really touched the alchemical gold, this is what they understood. This is the shamanic dance in the waterfall. This is how magic is done. By hurling yourself into the abyss and discovering it's a feather bed.” ― Terence McKenna

I want to learn to think independently. I want to learn about the structures in my mind that keep me from doing that and how to efficiently think for myself.

@bejapuskas @Leo Gura Yes, I realize the absurdity I think I'm a bit confused, because I subconsciously held the assumption that thinking for yourself means developing original ideas. And because I look at the world through different lenses that don't really stem from myself but from other authorities, I thought that I failed at thinking for myself. Is it normal to not really have (a lot) ,original' ideas?

I want to know more about this subject, but from resources beside Leo's videos. Thank you! (I have the book list, but there aren't any on it if I'm correct, right?)

How do you differenciate between what's really authentic and what's not?

Of course it's different for everyone, but I want to know some experiences of others, so I can maybe change my expectations and strengthen my patience.

@PukkaDanks Great idea, I really like that! Now, I think your only obstacle is marketing it. Wishing you the best!

I'm in my first relationship since about 2 months, being 20 years old. Since the beginning something is nagging me: I don't find her extremly beautiful and I find other girls prettier. Yet, I absolutely love her personality. She's perfect in that way. But since I feel like I'm a perfectionist I also want my girlfriend to be very pretty. @Leo Gura said in his video "Why men cheat" that looks are the most important thing for men and the personality is just the cherry on top. That made me feel very depressed because I felt like I would lose her because of some lack of attraction (only her face, I love her body), something outside of my control. Is what Leo said true? Can I save my realtionship? I really want to because i feel like it's just my ego wanting perfectionism and deep down I genuinely love her.

@Keyhole While there can be difficulties with relationships, I found it to be one of the most rewarding times in my life so far. It is very beautiful, but nothing can be perfect. I don't know why do decided that, but maybe second guess yourself there. Also look out for confirmation bias.

@Dane Thank you, I appreciate your effort. If you have a girl who you find stunningly beautiful, does that feeling ever wear off a bit, do you get used to her looks?

Hey @Emerald! And there is usually an uncanny level of mirroring happening, in way of both positives and negatives. Is mirroring just having the same characteristics, personality traits and bevaviors or is there more to it? Are people attract to similarties, complemenatry opposites or a mix of both?

Thank you very much @mandyjw! If you integrate that which your partner has, hence what makes you attracted to them, does the attraction go away? (context: A woman who wants a knight in shining armor to whisk her away wants that because she doesn't want to have to do the work herself or accept that she has the power to do it.)

Thank you very much @Emerald! I have a question about this part: "And it's important to get it out of your system, as you will likely have a harder time giving up what you've never had when it's time to settle down with someone." I only had one sexual partner before that relationship, a friend with benefits. How real and important is this issue of having sexual experiences with different people and is it possible to let that go?

I already saw @Leo Gura write about it, but it's not clear to me yet. Could someone please explain the difference to me?

I bought the course and want to watch the videos while on vacation, without internet. Is there a way I can watch the videos, without my account getting banned? Am I allowed to screenrecord the videos? @Leo Gura

@PenguinPablo brooo