I’m new to actualized and I’m glad I have soooo much in common with the first post I found in the forums. I have the same exact problem, have a good circle of friends, but I never have anything to say, I try so hard but it always feels like I’m either forcing them to listen to something irrelevant or it just goes unnoticed. Guess it’s the “you have to be interested to be interesting” thing, I’m usually not interested in what girls my age talk about. Or maybe it’s because I come from an abusive and very suppresive background and that holds me back from getting anything out.
