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Believe in your ability to figure it out Have a vision and don't compromise on it Stop believing in the concept of failure. It's only failure if you quit. Otherwise it's learning. So don't quit and you can't fail.

Also, if you notice that you chicken out less when you do semen retention, then obviously do that! It makes a world of difference for me. I just automatically talk to strangers now, even when I don't plan to. Also it gives me very little anxiety anymore. This started after 3 weeks of not ejaculating. It's crazy. Worthwhile to look into.

Like how? Did you take initiative to invite her out to do something? What did you say?

Read Dr. Robert Glover's book - it's a good fit for that type of situation

What you resist, persists. Go back to the root. Who put this idea that you have to have a relationship and family in your mind?

I'm no stranger to this. I deal with it by appreciating that while it looks like I'm back where I was, it's very different actually, because now, it takes only a couple days, whereas then, it was my reality for years. Also, it feels artificial and I can see through it as it happens. That awareness wasn't there before. I vote for AND instead of or. What nonsense is churning through your brain? If you follow it down to the root, what is your inner child saying or wanting?

I like it! Although I don't personally know any man who worries about when to cry or not to. Perhaps it's more of an unconscious insecurity then.

Example of how someone would use it?

Insight of the day: it's not just about the money Sometimes I worry that I'm so focused on financial freedom that I might be forcing myself down the wrong path because of it. But as I read about how others are building their website and funnel, I realise that I actually CRAVE to build something. A resource that helps people. Something I created. A "thing" that I built and is now out there. That will be so exciting.

This is over. Never gonna happen. And you are exhibiting a poor level of personal boundaries by allowing someone who can't give you what you want, to take up the time and energy that you have for a partner. Dump this person and break all contact. She needs therapy, you need to meet a nice girl.

Your belief that you can't stop touching your dick.

It's also bullshit.

I think you just answered your own question. I'm on a 65 day streak now and I'm fine. Take your goals seriously and do what is required.

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Are you looking for real life wingmen? Then I suggest going to an RSD seminar. I got many invites to go daygaming from that, plus good whatsapp groups

Benefits of shaving your ass: feels nice. Drawbacks of shaving your ass: farts are LOUOUDD

@BlackMaze They were under 30 bucks, why wait

Is This What Taking Care Of Myself Feels Like..? I noticed yesterday when I went to bed, how it is actually a joy to go to bed now. And how I'm actually looking forward to the next day! And how unfamiliar and new that is to me. My bed is freshly made. I have food prepared for days. My floor is clean. My desk is clean. I have a good plan for the next day and the next week, that is not impossibly stressful. Everything is taken care of. And I love it... It's like someone else did it. Not too long ago, it would be months sometimes until I remembered to refresh my bed again (Ew, I know). I would get up and it was just an immediate "ugh" with the dishes stacked up in the kitchen, the couch covered in random objects, messy desk, no clear plan, dust and hair on the floor everywhere, and an impending sense of doom stemming from the abstract notion that I had "many things to do"...

I live in the Netherlands. There's art colleges here that you can do while on student financing, like for example HKU in Utrecht and Popacademie in Leeuwarden. I know a friend who went there, learned a ton and started a business after that producing music for games, and is successful with it. Have you considered something like that? It can give you time to learn the skills that you want in game development and music, while it also counts as credit.

If you're thinking about what to say during sex, you ain't doing it right. Don't be so in your head, let go. Sex will be so much better. So any answer to this question will not help you but hurt you, cause now you're going to try to remember to say the right thing, putting you even more in your head, so the connection gets interrupted and you stop feeling into your partner.

I actually feel like I've had coffee, except my body is way less stressed. It's a familiar level of energy and motivation, without the negatives. So I am a maniac... it's not just the caffeine... How long did I have to be clean for? Let's see... 30 days. It took 30 days to function at a good level again after cutting out caffeine. Well last time I did it, it was 50 days, so I suppose I'm getting more adaptable

New Morning Routine Old morning routine: 7:45 Make bed and do Wim Hof Breath 8:00 Brush teeth, shave, shower 8:45 Hopefully be dressed in time to start morning meeting at my dayjob The problem with it is, that I (and people in general) tend to be slow and sluggish in the morning. So before I know it I have meandered around for twenty minutes before doing the breathwork, leaving me no time to shower. Also, the breathwork doesn't sufficiently wake me up and get me going. I thought it would, but it doesn't. So instead, I have come up with a solution I really like: COFFEE! Just one cup will immediately get my adrenaline pumping and get me in a state to finish my routine quickly and start my work excitedly. It's actually great! I can't believe I demonised it for so long! Hah, jk. I'm so happy to be off that delicious dirt water. Perhaps I'll drink it on special occasions, but it's just so spectacularly bad for brain chemistry balance (and also hormonal balance). No, instead I just do a quick workout. That gets my blood pumping, gets the dopamine production started (it feels like) and I actually feel awake in no time. I let go of the morning workout in the past, to save time, but it turns out that I really need it, or I lose hours of effective time in the morning. New morning routine: 7:30 Make bed and do workout (Freeletics or running or yoga) 8:00 Brush teeth, shave, shower 8:30 Empty my email Turns out that if I work out, I also do my shaving and showering faster. Very happy with this improvement.

NO. Rollo Tomassi's stuff is highly toxic and will send you down a dark and sad path. DON'T buy into that shit. Instead, here's some good sources for pickup and masculine-feminine relating: David Deida - The Way of The Superior Man Mark Manson - Models RSD is pretty good, especially Owen All you need I've read "The Game". It's more of a memoir of somebody who got involved in the cringy pickup scene when it was just starting out, and all about tricks and gambits. Entertaining read, but not the way to go to learn to authentically attract women.

@Nahm Nahm, awakened being slash business mogul.. Seeing a whole new side of you

Naps I am slowly and stubbornly learning that I have to take powernaps as soon as possible, when my sleep was not sufficient for any reason, if I want to be any measure of productive. Yes, I wish that I could just power through it on 6-7 hours, but no, it totally doesn't work. I will learn this lesson over and over until I remember it. Today I actually did that well, and I do indeed now feel like I can sit still at a desk and focus on a screen.