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Lol, that's funny! Is yours extroverted? One good thing about an older outgoing and extroverted sister is you inevitably wind up in her robust social circle. Without her, I would be a totally different person. Maybe even holding ideas about gender superiority. We endured a rough childhood together, which created an unbreakable bond.

Yes, I found that by knowing myself, I can largely know others, because I know all the little games I've played and gotten to the bottom of them and mapped out their structures, and so they spring into mind as potential hypotheses via subconscious pattern recognition. And once they're there as hypothesis, via analysis and deduction, I can usually discern quickly what is going on with someone. But analysis and deduction are more often than not not even needed. I can read most people like a book, but only because I've read myself like a book, and over time, confirmed we're all very much alike in structure. Even if I don't know the "content", the "structure" seems to often be accurately intuited, or at least not far off. This is my main tool in social calibration. I suppose this skill naturally develops with self-reflection, and if one has spent many hours contemplating human behavior in general, it develops even more.

This seems legit.

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All good. Funny af actually. Lol. You made me laugh with the caveman language.

Yeah, I’m sure I haven’t resolved all the “real stuff”. Again, thanks for the resource, will definitely check it out. That’s a nice insight. I really like that. And it would definitely take some time to integrate and to understand the implications of it.

Lol. Can’t get anything by you. In hindsight, I suspect such posts are not very helpful, and to be honest, I wonder how much of my ego is talking with some of my posts. But I’ve kinda adopted “strength” into my identity, and of course I think my way is best. Stop being fucking weak bro! Lol. Not you, you seem to not be weak where women are involved.

I’ve considered it but never invested the time to truly investigate. I’ve been pushing myself too hard for the past decade, accumulating stress and tension, and largely ignoring self care and ignoring getting in touch with my body and being. I feel like a need a long break to explore all that, but that’s nowhere in sight. When I try to do such things alongside working toward financial freedom, I get all fucked up and can’t operate well in any domain. I think I might need a practice that allows me to get in touch with my being, but without mind being involved. So I need some sort of peaceful movements, fast and engaging enough to keep my mind out of it. I was looking into that a few weeks back. Primal fear seems apt. I suppose it could be in the body. I notice my abdomen is often tense. If it’s in the body, maybe it’s there. Thanks for sharing. I’ll ponder.

Thinkers get joy from it, but for many, thinking is actually a block to happiness. It’s definitely not a prerequisite. Those who place a high value on thinking are more likely to find pleasure in deriving insight.

Big one is “you think you have time, but you don’t”.

I’ve developed my own set of ethics and morality. I answer only to myself what is right and what feels good. When a great, persistent evil gets extinguished, that’s a good day. I will rejoice and be glad in it.

@Natasha Tori Maru haha, nice! Yeah, sounds about right. Sounds like my approach. Not much theorizing required. Just not being needy, not caring if they walk, and just being light-hearted and fun. Of course we pickup sly techniques along the way that increase chance of success. You sound like quite the entertainment on the job site. Lol. I bet you often hear them talking about you after you turn the corner.

I’ve let go of wanting it to happen. If it does, I will get a great surprise. If it doesn’t, nothing about reality changes. The biggest con of our time has been succeeding for a very long time now. I’m used to it. He could prosper till his dying day, and I wouldn’t care, because nothing could really cancel out what has already happened. What’s done is done. His death or fall is eminent, and will likely come within the next decade. On that day, I will smile. Until that day, I don’t expect reality to provide any good news regarding Trump.

No one is trying anything. We aren’t out here prosecuting or trying to take him down. We’re just not denying the facts and the picture they paint. You thinking the discussion is an attempt to “take down Trump” is weird. You always like this uptight or do you need a massage? Massage sounds nice.

I just got used to being the one who listens and if there’s an opening for me, I take it, but try not to impose too much of my thinking onto them, but it inevitably happens. And when it does, I notice immediately and gauge receptivity, and just switch back to listener mode if it was too much. I kinda got good at switching back in a way that makes them feel more comfortable with my strangeness. Like, I’ll go into something deep and then put them back on their train of thought as to not totally discombobulate them. “Anyway, you were saying…” 😂

Lol. Yeah, it makes sense guys who acclimate to the female presence early on would be better adjusted. How did you feel about seeing your little brother raking them in? Some part of you was proud, right? Lol. He probably never would have had such luck if it weren’t for you.

Sounds like a good strategy. Thanks for the resource. I’ll check it out. My intuition is that you must come face to face with fear until it becomes so familiar and ordinary that it’s not a big deal anymore. Conjure up all the things that arouse fear and focus on them until they lose their power. I feel that I could obliterate all fear with such a practice. I have a deeply ingrained fear response regarding being social that I picked up in childhood. Shit is buried deep and for some reason, seemingly with no rhyme or reason, pops up on me out of nowhere. I can go many months without it showing itself, but it always seems to show back up and I can’t really trace why. I noticed it seems more likely to show up when I’m not engaging my will. Sometimes, it feels like destiny, like a teacher.

Very nice articulation. Thanks for sharing. It’s a breath of fresh air to see someone admit it.

Could be something to that. I grew up close to my sister, who was 2 years older. Grew up with her and mom, so spent most of my adolescence around females.

Laugh a little bro, that was meant to be funny. And it was.

It's more probable than not that Trump is implicated in the Epstein files. The evidence is actually overwhelming. When you add it all up, you'd be a fool to bet against it. I could put together a collage of recordings that would paint the picture very well, and most of that collage would be comprised of recordings straight from the horse's mouth. Once, Trump spotted a 10 year old girl on an escalator and asked her how old she was. Then he blurted out "I'm going to be dating her in X years". Much can be gleaned from a single incident like this and you can think in terms of probabilities as to what's likely going on. When you do this exercise with all the other pieces of evidence (and there are many), it's impossible to not lean towards Trump being a pedo. By pedo, I mean 16 years or younger. I'm not sure if he's a full-blown pedo who likes preteens and younger, but it wouldn't surprise me if he fucked them. I'm pretty confident that he'd fuck 13+.

Comfort with ambiguity (prerequisite) What can and can't be known and what information is useful (scope) Hypothesize with probabilities (methods) Metacognition and cognitive functions (operational mechanisms) Biases (threats) Those just came off the top. Not that they are the top 5. I think you'd need to define a framework.

Have you ever zoomed out to try to get a sense of the scale of the demographic you seem to put a large portion of your life energy into opposing? IMO, it doesn't make sense to be so invested in such a position. Even if they made up 20%, it still wouldn't warrant it. 30%, I could see it, but even then, your response to it is not healthy. Even if the world was what you think it is, it would not be healthy to hate it with such passion. We find what we seek. You have bottled up hate and are using woke to justify its expression.

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Yes! People are who they are, and who are we to tell them to be like us or that they should be interested in things we are? Trying to force our way onto them when our way is foreign to them. Wanting them to be like us stems from us not wanting to be alone in the world and wanting to share our inner world with them, but the fact is, we're a rare breed. But it's like you said, this can be accepted and even be seen as beautiful. I like that you said it's a feature, not a bug, because I realized that as well and wrapped it in the phrase "everything is for everything else". Not sure if that makes sense. Everyone can learn from everyone else. All personalities could be seen as necessary for the whole. We need people who are not deeply spiritual. We need deep and shallow thinkers. And yes, if you seek a best friend or girlfriend, you have to find someone who you don't have to tone it down with. I mean, you'll still likely have to tone it down a little, but ideally, not very much. I found a few of these people and it's very nice. I never found it in a girl though, but I didn't look very hard either.