AudibleLocket

Hey you, have a profund day. I was thinking today about the role of other people in your own development as a person. In Leo's video " How to stop carryng about others opinion " he talk about being authentic and happy by yourself, that people can't really offer you anything significant in life. He also talks about this in his video "How to deal with loneless" , that personal development is a path to be trilled alone. But in the other hand he also talks about expressing love to everyone , and being a light source for man kind. I've read some books that also encourage you to see the beauty in other people. And i have met many human beings that inspired me, i've learned alot by living with some really great people. Perhaps balance is key in this question, any insights about this ??

@bejapuskas tnks for reading. I meant balance by cultivating good relationships/Sharing love, at the same time being authentic and not carying about their judgements. I'm working on this unconditional love, trying to get rid of judgements and ideologies. Latelly i started to see the beauty of little things that pass unnoticed throught the day. Specially when i'm driving my way home. I've had some lsd/shrooms experiences that show me a little about this mystical and lovely reality.

Hello you, have a nice day ! I'm 21 Years old, living in Brazil. I have a debate going on inside my head. I am trying to overcome my shyness/social anxiety, and developing myself in general. But i think i'm starting to get crazy about all of this, when i talk to people i dont know if i should focus on the present moment, on myself internally, on relaxation, on the subject ... I have sometimes a feeling that i dont know who/what the fuck i am, this get's me a little crazy, i struggle to identify my personality with something/somewhere in my mind. I was woundering if in order to be more confident/less shy , i should build a " Strong sense of Self ", a strong identification inside me. It has been 6 months since i started the path of meditation/ self inquiry, and man this completely changes my mind. I find myself able to see my life out of my head much more, i am living much happier. How can i be more confident and in the same time surrender to no-self ? Sorry for the english and Thanks for reading , i know this is very noobie shyt but i just woke up with this in my mind.

Hello Guys, im 21 years old and living in Brazil, meditate for 6 months. I was woundering if i should forget about enlightenment for now and focus on my " EGO`S PROBLEMS". I have some social anxiety/shyness when speaking in public, and also i am not quite sure about my life`s purpose. My internal debate is that i should develop myself to a certain degree before doing self-inquiry, or can i balance things doing enlightenment work while self improvement. Is there a pre-stage required in life to start seeking Enlightenment ?