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I've completed the LP course about a year ago, and I've been chipping away at it for over 4 years since I purchased it . Looking back at it honestly, I gave it a 60% effort, but that's what I could do with the level of motivation I was dealing with at the time . My main problem with it was that I seriously lack life experience. I'm now 23 turning 24 soon and I've spent most of my life: At school - mentally derping out Playing videogames - derping out more Watching YT vids - further derping out . I simply lack life experience. IDK what I like or I could like because I have not lived profoundly or actively enough. How can I commit to something or choose something that I want my life to be about if I don't know what there is to choose from? So: I loved thinking about how to develop myself since I still was in School. I was thinking and reading about how to improve myself before I knew there existed a Personal Development comunity or a Personal develpment aisle in the book store. I wanted to study psychology but I quit before I even started because I felt repulsed by the current academic structure ( emphasis on memorization , grades , lack of nuance in teaching each individual, etc ) I told myself that I don't want to study mental sickness. I want to study Personal development. But there is no major in that. I said I'd do it myself. But being just a 18yr old man-child, with no paying skills besides waiting tables and knowing a few languages, over time I got lost all over the place: I got stuck in a 9-5 . Also a Dark night of the soul left me in a routine of going to work and going back home to lay in my bed for more than a year. I developed a degree unconditional happiness that hindered my motivation to do many things, and I also dropped the fear of death to a healthy 10% of what it was. I had developed some eating disorders and I got back into videogames, and much more . Fast forward after dealling with all that chaos I'm more grounded than ever. I explored and contemplated and journaled and experienced and read and asked. Now I know what my values are, what things I like doing, what impact feels meaningful to me , what my strenghts and weaknesess are, what my fears and dreams are. what my bucket list is, what I aspire to... All of this to go full circle. I want the core of my life to be about Personal development. I'm simply fascinated by the scope of the field. I truly feel it is the most meaningful thing I can do with my life. Anything else feels like a waste of time or procrastination. I did discover many things that I like ( Singing, Vlogging, video directing, Animation, Stand-up . . . ) but they arent the main course. I had the belief from the very beggining that I don't want to become a Personal development Guru because that is so vanilla. Another one of those wannabe Life Coaches? Another Leo copycay? I was laughing at my teachers in school because they went through school and university to go back to school to teach the same shit in a strangeloopy way. But it turns out I'm okay with deepening my Personal Development wisdom with the intent of applying it to my own life and then " teaching" or comunicating the insights in my unique way. It is a saturated market but I would still do it If it brought me no money. I thought many times what I'd do if I had limitless money. I would sit on a chair in a busy street with a sign that says " tell me your problems " . TLDR : Contemplation and sharing Insight is the core of my life. I want to help others to help themselves by providing them wisdom, insight and mental tools that they can apply if they desire to improve aspects of their lives. How ? One on one and by videos / Vlogs. The voice is my prefered medium. I will develop eloquence and use it to comunicate wisdom applied to people's circumstances. I value Wisdom + Playfulness + Connection and it all merges into Teaching and Sharing wisdom. As simple as that. It feels 8/10 congruent. Work in progress. It may sound kinda vanilla. Do I care? nah. I'm still astonished by the clarity this has given me. See you around.

@somegirl fun. People don't think too much.

Get your hands on some water kefir grains, start brewing and start chugging. All of my intolerances and gut issues gone within a week. Dont underestimate the power of probiotics. And its fucking delicious. Part 2 Water kefir bible with all your question anwsered: https://www.yemoos.com/pages/water-kefir-faq-introduction-basics The ball is in your court now

@WonderSeeker ive been in his free tour in Barcelona. Seriously disappointed with the talk as I flew 1000 km just to hear his theory on the last generation spoiling the hot girls for us. But the networking is really nice as you meet likeminded people and a good wingman is gold. Later that night I was in the same club as him and his bootcamp students and basically he points at girls for you, you approach and then he whispers some feedback in your little momma ear Definitely don't pay 3k euro for a 3 day bootcamp. Rsd is notorious for upselling themeselves. Rather invest some of that money in an escort if you haven't experienced intimacy with a girl as it will loosen you up more than anything, if you are okay with the experience. But if you want a terrific experience, go for the 4 week natural Bootcamp. Its about 2k euro for 4 weeks. You basically live with Alex for 4 weeks and the other students and you hit it hard every day. And he worked with Owen for years but left their company because of their shady business habits. He openly calls himself the most experienced pick up coach in the world. Very genuine and authentic guy. Have a look: Old but gold. Look at his new stuff and contact for a bootcamp if that's what you want. Good luck ?

Hey, I've been using a DIY oregano oil / water mouth wash for the last few days as I hate listerine and love a fresh breath. I use about a drop of the oil for half a liter of water and then keep ot in my mouth for about a minute before spitting out. It burns but nothing too crazy and my moith feels fresh for the next 8 hours but im concerned about the potential harm of ingesting micro ammounts of an antibiotic everyday ( the oregano oil) Thoughts?

@Nos7algiK I've had chronic tinnitus from age 0. You get used. It kinda sucks though as I love silence.

When are you going to do Hot Ones? Lol Here is a millionaire idea for ya : interview celebrities in hot ones style but instead of hot wings you give them increasingly more puffs of dmt?

So if we are talking about emotions: There is a thin line between love and hate. These are strong emotions. The opposite of love isn't hate, but indifference. ( no emotion ) So if you were over her, you'd feel indifferent. But the resentment means there are still feelings to be worked through That's my 2cents

I see, thanks for the anwsers guys. Any other DIY mouthwash ideas are welcome.

If you're stupid you're not able to recognize the fact that you're stupid therefore you wouldn't take a vax for stupidity ?

I really like that concept. Tyler shot a whole vid on " Delusional levels of self confidence "

I found proof

China just banned under 18 yrs old bingeing videogames. Wish this was around in my times lol

@preventingdiabetesi ment " Wisen up" as explained in this vid :

@preventingdiabetes I'll give you a perspective. I've been playing video games since I was 3 till' 19. Ridiculous ammounts. I talking more than 12 hours a pretty much every day. Now I'm 23 and I regret it , not because I didn't enjoy it, but because I reached a point where they no longer give me that sense of purpose and progression since I've glimpsed how good life could be if I had put that effort into developming some serious skills. Fulfillment is directly proportional to your degree of mastery. And once you're outside that digital bubble your video game skills mean nothing. Life can be infinitely more fulfilling than winning some League of Legends matches. You can do two things : drown yourself for a couple of years in videogames to learn the lesson of how you piss your life away, or wisen up today

Would you like to share your thoughts about the psychology of " having a crush"? Imo there can exist a degree of attachment even before sex, as a kind of obsession. As a guy I've experienced Oneitis a few times, and the best way of describing it it would be almost some sort of OCD , where you can't get someone off your mind and you struggle to be yourself when you're with them. I can imagine girls also crush on guys but I can't tell to what degree . Kinda funny feeling. After all this time of consciousness work I cant manage yo shake it off . It's like a really strong primal instinct. Only replacing her with a different girk works. Or maybe it's just me and I inherited the simp gene ?

@Sempiternity bruh sex without jazzing is as if you were eating a tasty sandwitch but you spit it out instead of swallowing.

Gordon Ramsay absolutely ruining this Grilled Cheese recipe by burning the bun and not even managing to melt the cheese yet he is framing it as a masterpiece. People have eyes Gordon, You've been exposed you DOUGHNUT. Comments are hilarious as well?

You can move or learn social circle game, which is how most normies get laid. The idea is making friends, and then being introduced to your friend's friends. And then to your friend's friend's friends. Until you find a cute single girl that you like and is available. More tapdancing around the problem and more effort but it's not alarming in small cities where everyone knows you. Just move i'd say.

lets not get into baby food ; )

@Hardkill most of the people you think have made an early strategic deliberate decision of working on their Life purpose is actually just luck. They just happened to stuble upon a field or skill early on, by chance or introduced by parents and they just stuck with it. Some people love the skill they developed early on and therefore kee building it for the rest of their life , and some weren't so lucky and they have little to show for in their adulthood. And if they're lucky enough to stumble upon personal development, they have the opportunity to deliberately build a LP from scratch. Also, "these people" you mentioned haven't probably figured out much. An actual Life Purpose is so much more than just having a lifelong practice of a skill.

This kinda fits here?