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  1. I've had COVID about 15-20 times. I got one vaxx years ago and I cant tell exactly but around that time I started getting extreme poking in the heart, almost like needles. Docs dismissed my claims, said im fine and gave me antiinflamatory meds. Long story short that this repeated throughout one year and a half. It kept going away and coming back. Its gone for a year at least and I dont wanna jinx It. So... I want to hear some opinions. im sick and tired of getting COVID. But I feel like one more vax and my heart would give Up, no joke. I did some research and It may have been miocarditis or pericarditis. I have no idea though i'm just glad It over. Also I dont take any medicine whatsoever for anything really. Is that bad? Should I take some meds for COVID? Thoughts? Edit: currently EFFIN sick AF again. I work in hospitality and lately been going to plenty of clubs.
  2. @undeather thank you so much for taking the time off your day to share this ??
  3. Thanks for taking time to anwser guys. Before COVID i would get sick maybe once a year. Pretty much never. For those years I have been working in a very busy tourist restaurant, where the clients wouldnt ever wear mask. Many of them obviously sick. Every 3 - 4 months almost everyone in the restaurant ( all the staff of 30 ) would get sick at once, múltiple of them testing positive. Chefs using no gloves at coughing at the food. I did not check myself so there is a chance it. wasnt COVID. But im way too familiar with the symptoms to say its all coincidence and I got something else. Ofc i can still be wrong. But its allways the same symptoms but slightly different. Mucus at the roof of your nose that you cant swallow nor blow out. . No taste , no smell, or neither. Fever, more or less intense. Mucus that drips into your lungs that if you dont spit out It gets stuck there and It makes you cough for days. Body weakness , brain fog... Overall I sleep pretty ok and I'm almost never stressed. I havent lifted weights for the last half year but I do 10-15 thousand steps almost every day. Ive allways been very lean. 179cm 63Kg . I dont look bony . I carry a little muscle, but it's extremely difficult for me to put on weight. My gut health is good. No problems with digestión pretty much. Perhaps a little lack apetite. I dont really like eating that much. I could eat way more fruits and veggies, thats missing. I never talked with a doctor about this. I wanted to a few times but It was really difficult to get in contact with one here. The point of my post is to ask if if its worth taking medicine when sick with covid, and your thoughts of taking more vaxx in spite of my terrible initial experience. I cant be 100% sure of what had caused that chronic heart pinching that I described before. I went to the ER and they checked my heart and said It was only muscular in my chest and my heart is OK. But I felt huge pain with every few heartbeats. It was exactly two weeks after taking the first and only vaxx i had taken. Coincideince? Who knows, but I was scared shitless to take another one. Thanks for reading guys
  4. I thought I wouldnt . Every time its the same but different and sometimes it feels like its trying to kill me. Also since this started my hair has been falling out bad. It grows back but its annoying because I have 3+ year long hair
  5. I just want to be in the reallity where Leo delivers his Highest Wisdom about the Nature of God while doing Charlie D'amelio Tok Tok dances
  6. I got COVID pretty bad for the last two days. I forgot its a factor for when im touching my face, good or nose after shaking sooo many hands. This thing is trying to kill me. I have spent 15 hours in bed and literally almost passed out on the concrete... I hope to be recovered tomorrow or the day after... That's a curveball. I didnt want my momentum stagnate.
  7. Going out solo is the definition of growing Hair on your b*lls. So that's what I did. All my wings were slacking. I came to the bar área 1 AM. I first danced for 10 min but was feeling out of state. I walked to the entrance of a different bar and chatted up some guys. Boom, made two Friends for the night. That's an important skill to learn for going out solo. A third italian dude came by asking if its okay to smoke weed in Spain or will he get in trouble. We chat with him as well. He said he wants to talk to some girls tonight. Boom! Improvised normie wing. He didnt have any Game really but It was enough for me to have someone around. I spoke with like 15+ groups and he was complimenting me the whole time for how " extroverted" I a m. An important reframe i had to have was disect the night into babysteps and identify the small wins. Leave my place 1 AM solo: win Reach the bars: win Enter bar : win Dance : win Make eye contact with a girl : win Small conversation with strangers : win Make male friends for the night : win Start approaching: win Get physical with girls : win Get some numbers / IG: win Without this mindset, there is no way I would have been capable of going out solo.
  8. The other day a girl grinded on me so hard i was left with such blue balls I couldnt walk. Good bless fapping
  9. Took Sunday off. Well, not really. That night we gamed until 8 AM , that was pretty much daygame lol JK. I just recovered from the sleep debt today actually. Everything is pointing towards me having to go out solo consistently. Wings cant be relied on in this city. there is a few but not very active . It looks like I will have to go alone to the bars tonight . TBH I feel Ill have a good time, Ofc there is a little resistance but over the last week I've been keeping momentum. It's not enough to
  10. @Leo Gura DafuQ is vibing really? Ive heard It as non goal oriented conversation with the only purpose of emotional stimumation
  11. Super quick update. 9 pm invited tl Friends beachparty. Talked with 20+ people, very good vibes. One girl was ready to go home with me but she wasnt really my type or very pretty. An other one was a little better but I still didnt feel anything . She liked me and was nervous around me. I should take contacts in these sitiuations. Its cool to have female friends. I went to da club. Approached two Girls on the way to the club and we walked to the line together. Good vibes, they were very open but not hot enough lol. I chat Up about 10 people around us, we all enjoy ourselves. A dude from the line later buys a table and invites me over. Cool. I met 4 wings tonight and i gotta say I was doing amazing solo and they made my state and momentum go down lol. Last wing called me 5 AM as I was about to leave. Hes very cool and pretty natural. Hes got 200k subs on YT ( hes a mágician ). Hes pretty naturally social. His smile and facial expresions are on point. Our energy fits together very well. We opened around 40 sets. Maybe got around 4 Instagrams . A girl i opened at the supermarket the same day in the afternoon literally messaged me to come over as she was there in the same club. I actually shouldnt have done It!!! I didnt like her and spend 2 hours babysiting her because she was alone ( when i approached i hoped her sister was single , they were together ). Anyways the last two Girls were ON. One grinded on me nicely ( got super blue balls lmao ) . We walked out the club by the hand with our fingers clasped. We hugged 15 min as It was the only thing i felt like doing. Maybe i should have kissed her a little for the exp. My momentum that night was crazy. I had taken 1/5th modafinil and I must say i was energetic but It made me a little too intense and serious around 5 AM. However I got to flipo It around once we started taking action with my wing. Super good times. Add more soon!!
  12. Dear Leo. First of all, thank you for your contribution to mankind. In spite of all the content, your pure work ethic and pasion for personal development / spirituallity has been the thing that I appreciate the most. That being said , do you plan a long term structural change to recover? Your blog post left me a little uneasy with no real conclusión. Tbh I get infinite valuetainment simply in your posts on this forum. You have created enough content to do an extreme Impact on humanity for the rest of your life. My ambition is naturally pretty low and sometimes the mental structure of high archivers does not compute with my worldview. Once I outgrew "competition" as a whole my ambition left with it. Which is okay, I'm still working on that juicy visión. Wish you a holistic recovery.
  13. The action taking is getting too exponential to disect every single micro interaction. If you are enjoying It let me know so I i'll make the effort to articulate It . I worked for 7 hours as a waiter in the daytime. Got 15k+ steps in and I went home for an hour nap. I was going to go solo to the club, but the lazy wings from the local Telegram group are getting inspired by my daily action taking and are starting to message me. I swapped my plans of the club to meet a local more experience wing than me at the bars. I've never been there and its really good. Like good good. Both steet game and bar Game. I must have opened around 30+ groups of people. Half of It Girls and another half of It very very pretty Things that went well: my verbals got better tonight. If I rofl at the things I say its a great signal. I did more teasing, nagging and dissprooval. Girls love It if done properly. A bout 10 girls fucking loved me opening them. I mean they got this smile and laughter that almost floored them. Im proud because I know my verbals are like that IRL and Im capable of replicating it. i just need to keep It up and build momentum. I have kept a huge smile on my face for the whole night that had been reciprocated by most people. My speech became WAY more captivating tonight. Pauses, inflexion of the voice, voice pitch, loudness... It creates Magic out of nowhere!!!!! Tapping girls on the shoulders to start an interaction in a packed club is so effective WTF Calling out people makes them reactive!!! Ive seen rsd doing this for years and I just experienced It today. " Why you you laughing at that? Why are you licking your lips? Etc Powerful to make them react to you. 5 Girls were into me but I didnt manage to make It go anywhere. Matter of fact the very first girl I approached was into me + horny but It took me off guard. She tried to clasp our fingers while holdinng hands dancing but I wasnt present enough. My energy went Up as the night progressed rather than down. Things I did wrong / can improve Dont lean. Let them come to you. Unveawering eye contact, no jumpy eyes looking around. Slow and steady. I didnt go for number close / IG of ANY of the Girls that liked me !!! Why???? I just learned that lesson for good, trust me on that . More this afternoon. Cheers.
  14. Confirming i have kept the momentum yesterday as well. At 8 am I had a 15 min convo with a older man at the beach. I went to the mall later to buy clothes for my job. I didnt do any specific exercise but I started Singing aloud among people and some were turning heads, which is a nice way to practice feeling socia pressure. I get on my knee to pet a dog from a table at a cofee place and I chat with the lady with a smile on our faces while she's breastfeeding ?? I did It accidentaly but It has pushed my notions of whats possible. I didnt do much afternoon besides people watching with the AC at the mall. All good cause there wasnt a single grill I wanted to open. 19 PM my friend hosts a digital nomad meeting at a Coworking Space. I arrive early. The first hungarian girl that's there is stunning and absolutely my type. Im just polite , social and charming at the event. Around 30 people showed Up. I talked with everyone, guys and Girls. Everyone kept asking if I own the place or if Im the host, because of how welcoming and charming I was lol I'm a natural host. I should make something out of that probably. Next week( or is it tomorrow ???) my friend is co-organizing a beach party of 100+ people and he wants me to help hin out! Aparently things get pretty Wild as you can imagine. Im pretty excited ?? I had built a lot of rapport with the blonde hungarian chick. She was looking me deeply in my eyes as we were super close because of how loud It was. She kept licking her lips unconsciously and asking me a lot of questions. She came on her own as everyone else and I could tell she was a little shy. I broke rapport temporalely to meet her again in a moment but then I got carried away talking with people and she dissapeared!! I think she felt unconfortable not having someone to speak to and she was too shy to say bye to me. My wing has her number as she gave It to him when leaving ( its more acceptable since hes the organizer ) i could try to make something happen but I feel i'll see her again. She is pretty cool and smart as well... No simping before sx boys!! ? After that I went with my wing the organizer to the city center and later to discover the bar área!!! Its pretty damn good and very Alive!! So good that we found out about It. I thought valencia was dead at night in between week and I was so confused by It . I talked with múltiple dog owners on the way to the bars. Its not a technique at this point, It just comes natural to me. We always have minimum a 5 min conversation and we leave with smiled on our faces. Great for keeping social momentum. We went into the first bar. I talked with some dudes. Went good. Walking out sitting at a high table are 4 girls. Around 21. I introduce myself without hesitation. They seem a little cold. I tell them that i'm practicing my cold reading skills and id like to test on them. I should saying " guessing skills better". One girl i get wrong . I get that the other three are dutch first try. I also get whos oldest and youngest on first try. We have some platonic conversation. One of the Girls has the biggest RBF face. I interrupt my speech briefly to aknowledge It by simply giving her the biggest smile with genuine eye contact in silence. She breaks a smile! It was a cool experience. I excuse myself as I could feel I was overstaying my welcome. Later i opened a group of 8 girls. I told them a story about a monument they were checking out in a very engaging and captivating way. They were into It. We dipped soon after. I could have plowed through see how much I could push It because two of them were attractive and my type. I actually would have met them again at the bars later because I saw them there but my wing is 40 ish and gets tired early if he doesnt get a nap in in the evening ? and I didnt stay around for long either. Tonight will be good . I expect daygame and clubbing. I finish first day of work at 17 which is great. Hope to have energy left and give It all. I JUST KNOW RESULTS ARE RIGHT AROUND THE CORNER!! This is going to be 1 week of snowballing momentum. I cant imagine 1 month or 1 year... Damn!!
  15. A random IG friend of the hottie argentinian influencer I approached yday followed me on IG this morning 6 AM. Did they Talk? Does she expect me to make a move? She's not exactly my type so I'll follow her back but im not doing anything unless she initiates smth
  16. Its part of why they're addicting. Rarely you get that level of engagement and presence IRL unless its fighting or sx. It emulates fight or flight. Source: life long addiction to online competitive games. WoW, LoL , shooters, etc What can we say? Breathe deep, relax , be mindful. Maybe play standing up for more body awareness
  17. 5 pm i had a job interview. The girl is cute. I noticed an improvement in my baseline eye contact . Relaxed but steady. I went out solo again. 0 reliable daygame wings for now :0 -- 20:30 PM Scooting around on my kick scooter. I noticed I'm a little scared of being in the city because I know if will feel bad if I chicken out of an approach of a cute girl lmao. I decide to warm up a bit. I see a dude with a cámara taking pics. I start a convo with him that last 5-10 min. Pretty good. Next i see another dude with a cámara . 5 min conversation. Next I see two okay girls but I second guess as usual. A stunning girl passed by me. Shes walking alone. Petite slim blonde in a loose shiny Orange dress. No bra, nipples poking a bit. Shiny green nails. A few well placed tatoos. Perfect smile. Green eyes like mine. I opened with a big genuine smile on my face because I managed to recontextualize my anxiety as excitement in the last second. i instantly looked for eye contact as i waved walking next to her. She responded with a huge smile that stayed on her pretty much all 5 min of conversation. Initially I was speaking in english but soon I found out shes from Argentina. I would never guesses. She looked like a spoiled California girl ( now that I think about It I should have said that lol ). We swapped language and that was a cool rapport building experience. Argentinian girls are allways super nice and willing to engage in conversation. She was asking me questions from the very beginning. Im a little ashamed of how much my verbals suck atm. That's okay. Im doing my best and taking action. Keep It up. . I scooted away with a surprised Pikachu face of my own dumbness : I asked if shes doing smth atm. She said no. Then I asked for her number but de declined. She said shes leaving in two days but she gave me her IG . And then I self ejected!!!!!! I had no reason to go away!!! Wtf. Keep plowing, enjoying ourselves and try for instant date... ! She literally just accepted me now but didnt follow me back. I need to surveil and guide them in the moment lol this keeps happening. Ideally go for numba. Again. I feel i didnt create any attraction. I did set a frame by the initial compliment but by the end i could tell she wasnt into me I think I keep saying stupid shit like i come here to see my friend but he got sick Wtf? Im extremely creative and funny in normal conversationd but cold approach reveals some sort of hidden autism in me lol She has 70k followers.. okayy. Next i saw two 20 yrs old girls. One not interesting one brunette with a okay body and cute red dress. After 2 min of hesitation and seeing them being absolutely lost i decided to approach. I came from front, didnt say anything and I waited for eye contact with a smirk. Initially she has scared eyes but soon she smiled a bit. She crossed her feet as we were speaking which is an indication of interest ( she doesnt intend to go walk away ). They're staying 3 more days. God my verbals suck a$$ I stutter with my words and do poor eye contact. I correctly guess they're dutch first try. They're kinda impressed. They say I guesses It because they're tall. I said they arent that tall. They took It as banter and lighted up emotionally for one time. Again, i keep seeing this trend if girls enjoying being disqualified. I again said that BS of me coming to visit my friend but he is sick . Why the F do i keep saying that. She anwsered with oh so now you're alone in a little breaking rapport tonality. I broke eye contact. I cant belive i started justifying myself with some bs lol . Oops. I asked their plans for now . They said they're looking for some place to grap good good, whatever It is. They asked me for recomendation. I said I dont know any place and that i'm not hungry but I could get a drink and we could walk together and perhaps we would find something IF YOU DONT MIND. I should have kept building rapport and ideally asked for number. That would have been more honest and autentic to my real intentions DafuQ my cringe wording LOL, where the F did that suplicating come from?? Eww. Ofc she rolled her eyes a bit unfomfortably and said " i think we Will just look for something ourselves". I excused myself. Told them to have a good night and we parted ways awkwardly. Im pretty sorry for how lame and little creepy I was , damn. I mean I wasnt entirely into her, which probably has smth to do. I ignored the friend mostly besides a hi and ocasional eye contact. I could try to game through the friend so I engage both. Still im proud of myself for going out solo, keeping Up the momentum and taking action. Mastering game is in part learning from tens of thousands of short 15+ sec intractions. Starting job soon i Will do my best to keep the momentum. I may stay here for just one Paycheck( one month ) and go to Madrid. Atm im only aware of clubs 2-3 nights a week here... Rest is pretty damn sh1t bars. + This wing group is dead It seems :€ Madrid is Infinitely more active I think. But also more competition. Talk to ya soon - Jack
  18. Insight: Girls crave chasing a man. If I overly compliment her I give away too much validation and there is no posibility for her to want to chase my validation. I can minimally compliment her but thats It. The rest must be a frame of me being the buyer and not the seller. Make her qualify to me by teasing , giving push pull or cocky back ended compliments with a smirk. Im evaluating and kind of ", judgeing her value. This is the ideal frame. Its not some Sort of manipulation. Im doing her a favor because those are the emotions she loves and craves. WTH. I should have so much fun with this. Interact with her in a way I enjoy It the most. That's what It should be about. Ofc respect boundaries.
  19. I bet your mind radically opened after you tried weed right? Who would have thought
  20. Little more progress. Im proud of myself for keeping It Up. I almost stayed in all day yesterday but the momentum made me leave the house. I went to the city center in my kick scooter ( i actually face planted because of irregularities in the pavement!!?) Its a super fun and casual way of getting through the city people watching, and ofc selecting girls for cold approaching. First girl, cute body but I didnt like the face that much. Dressed un right gym shorts. I wasnt actually very attracted but I felt anxiety ( I have the habit if re-framing It as "excitement") so that means I should have opened. Thing is she caught me off guard, but I could have catched up to her no problem like I allways do. Second girl was astonishing. Cute pale blonde super thicc and pretty slim. Super asthetic face. Initially i thought she was with a 10 people group. I challenged that belief by keeping an eye on them. Eventually just her and her friend were left! I was like 20 meters away and I was mustring the courage to open her. I hesitated a lot, for like 4 min as they were just standing there. My girl was on the phone with someone ( Inmediately I thought with her BF) which IS pretty bs lol ) I was second guessing too much. I decided to open a second girl passing by alone. She was also blonde , more petite and a little older. Pretty often I beggin speaking in english because I think they're foreign but actually soon I find they are Spanish so guess experiencing that familiarity is a little plus. She's dressed all black. I compliment her on her style. I adress that shes all black like me. She scans me and gives a little smile. She instantly begins to invest in the conversation by asking me questions. We speak for 40 seconds as we walk a little fast ( It may have been her being nervous, she was pretty inexpresive but the fact she was asking me questions ment I had reached the social hook point. My verbals are pretty unoriginal ? I struggles to find stuff to say and I just ask her if she'd like to go for some drinks with me right now. I didnt even know a place or want to spend the money actually, but thats what I came up with. She told me she really had to get home. My dumb autistic ass wasnt present enough LOL after the first sign of resistance I gave up, excused myself and told her to have a good evening. I SAW IN HER REACTION SHE WAS DISAPPOINTED TO SEE ME GO. ??? I should have plowed and vibed a little more since all was going good. To add insult to injury indidnt even number close in spite of her clearly being interested in me to some extent ?? Just the fast walking there me off but its normal for a girl to be nervous around a cute guy if shes single!! Lesson : Be more present. If shes investing in the convo stay as long as possible. 1 obstacle or curveball IS nothing. As long as she's still there, hasnt told me to leave and she's talking to me, keep in there. If instant date doesnt work ( which wont be that likely since many things need to be aligned) dont just FKN eject. Keep plowing, ask for numba , seed a date, build more rapport... I scooted back in the direction of the other thicc girl from before, with a smirk on my face even though I Inmediately recognized the mistakes I had done. She was not there. I spent two minutes looking for her as I felt I was ready for the open. I became pretty sad ? but i felt that I'll see her tonight again, which I did 2 hours later, with a group of 6 more girls! She was on the phone with her gfs before and not her BF , I knew It. Man, I got the biggest smirk on my face because of the challenge that was ahead of me . I was pretty nervous / excited. BRO. I scooted down the road and back as I was summoning some courage and I EFFIn lost then again. Oh my lord such an epic fail. I didnt feel sad or dissapointed. I felt freaking GOOFY as fk. I chatted up some people with dogs. Two Girls sitting on a bench. I pet their dog, tell them a story and dip politely. I Talk to a 45yr old lady with a fat wiener dog! So cute! We talk for 10+ min and I dip. I saw a petite blonde girl with blue eyes, around 20 yrs old, walking with her friend. Absolutely my type. Not extremely beautiful face but ok. I saw them once. I second guess 5 min, man... I nervously scoot on my kick scooter ( lmfao) and approach them from the front, slowly gliding towards then. I ask her if she speaks english. They giggle and say no no no. I thought that they are foreign and dont speak any language that I know and I say okay good night. I should have stayed in there. They were walking pretty slow and nothing was stopping me from plowing more and more just speaking, grinning , making eye contact and seeing if I manage to break the ice. I dont need to have verbal confirmation of them understanding english. If I do what I just wrote, and they respond positively, in some sort of english.... There is my fkin anwser!!! If they are giggling its a green light. I scoot down the road. I see a russian blonde walking slowly. Well dressed and hair ironed ( or however you say in english ) I gotta patt my own back for this one. I thought she was walking with this guy. I challenge that belief. I wait a bit more. They are not together! But they still walking very close. I open her in spite of the dude being there. It was one of my "fears" for a while. It goes good. I compliment her on her all white dress. She inmediately invests in the conversation. Her english is not very good. I ask for her numba but she has a BF. We part ways with a smile. Then I chickened out on two girls. One group of girls i really should have opened as they were in party mood, with a little speaker, good vibes , drinking a little beer, giggling and having fun ( It was 11 pm) I passed by them once. I skipped. i saw them again 30 min later again walking in my direction. They entered the bar in front of which I was sitting ( shitty bars here, only tables... ) The only cute petite blonde walks out the bar giggling and literally walking up to me to a meter of distance. I wasnt in that kind of high energy mood so I didnt manage to open. I should have gone for the reference experience. They were very open. On the sidewalk there was a bolivian dude Singing Michael Jackson in a pretty shitty way. He couldnt sing really and I was amazed hes doing this. He looked very very nervous. I was the only one around at that moment. After he finished i started a conversation with him . 10 min after he borrows me his microphone and I do some BeatBox. Im pretty rusty but his sound system is pretty nice. Some people pass by and glance and keep walking. It was a cool experiencie. I wanted to hang out more with him to practice a gig with him or smth but he did not want my number! Lol. I couldnt read him at all. Pretty cool experience anyways. Im proud of myself for keeping the momentum going. I literally almost stayed in all night lost a day of action taking. It looks like i may have a wing for today!! I was going solo all this time. Two more days till friday. Cant wait for nightgame. Today more daygame . Reflect, visualize , field test and analyze.
  21. GJ man ! Wish I had more nightgame options here besides 2 nights a week lol. Going through a similar challenge to yours. Keep It Up.
  22. Super cool date idea that i come up with 4 AM : take her for a small Photoshoot Im downloading tinder Badoo and bumble boys. I literally dont know if I have the looks for It. I have never given It a fairy try
  23. Today your boy grew a few hairs on his b@lls ?? I woke up 8 AM to go shower at the beach showers. as im under the shower a girl and two guys join to the showrs in front of me. I offer them shampoo and they accept, Inmediately I can tell they're from colombia ( the accent ). I guess right and they laugh. Colombians are allways in a great mood I swar. He joked that I guessed they're colombian becouse of how dirty they were ??? we had a little chit chat for vibe and momentum building purposes and they moved on. next girl came by to the showers, I offered shampoo again lol and she was supper happy about it. more chitty chatty for momentum purposes. I had a job interview. I arrived extremely sweaty. EXTREMELY SWEATY because I went to the wrong place and I had to run for my life to the other place 1.5 KM away ( 1 mile for y'all murricans ) . ´The interviewer lady was super cool, she actually told me the story of the restaurant for 5 minutes and then asked me about my story. Pretty damn cool, never had such an experience. I got to talk and be listened to, which further built my social momentum. It felt like the lady loved who I am and I feel I'll get called for the position next week , which is great because I'm absolutely broke, got like actual 120€ in my pocket ( and 900€ coming as a potential refund + my dad owes me money ) There i was , on the streets on my own. I started walking home as I saw a blondie with blue eyes and some tight leggins walking fast. Intuitively I started walking after her to catch up ( she was carrying two smoothies and I instantly thought it's for her boyfriend) but I went for it anyways. I made myself smile as good as I as I made eye contact with her and made a sing for her to remove her airpods. She removed them and looked at me, I didn't even get a word in and she told me she's in a rush. I stopped insisting inmediately, said " oh okay, goodbye " as she kept walking away. There I got the insight that I must react quickly, and expect that if she's walking was I will need to swing through the opener and be ready to walk with, a little in front of her . From there on, as I felt the " rejection " , which wasn't really a big deal , It kickstarted my momentum even more. From there I lost count how many girls I actually approached!!! My momentum building strategy was starting to bear real fruits!!!! I did like 4 hours of solo daygame as no one was avaliable from the telegram groups. The next girl, spanish petite blonde with blue eyes, with tight short sportswear ( ABSOLUTELY MY TYPE , besides the spanish part) crossed ways with me on the pedestrian crossing. I looked into her eyes , felt attracted and after 10 seconds of hesitation and walking the opossite way, the momentum made me walk after her, I started speedwalking and hard stopped her. I told her in spanish that she has something attractive about her but I cant tell exactly what. She responded with a big smile and a thanks. I swinged through the opener, pushed the gas on plowing and free asotiation. She was talking to me from the very beginning. Attention from a cute female feels so nice We got to a red light and a guy started staring at us. I noticed it with my periferial vision but It didn't bother me at all. I tried to number close but aparently she was in a rush ( I asked if she was, and she simply agreed, which is a bad habit I guess as it kind of is shooting myself in the foot because she just has to agree with me and has an excuse to leave . note that . Get my foot in the door by doing a " false time constraint" if she is in somewhat of a rush ( i saw she was walking pretty fast ) , as in " I actually need to go in a moment ". It gives a little more importance to our present conversation and allows me to build more rapport before the number close. Ideally Id try to push for an instant date but she actually was busy. That felt good . Again, I crosed paths with a petite blonde in a fluorescent green dress. I hesitated for like 30 seconds and ran back to catch up with her. She wasn't extremely pretty but Ive lowered my standard a bit. She was pretty confused as she didnt speak none of my languages. She understood the compliment I think but she just said " no " and disagreed to the rest ( she had no clue what was I saying ). It may have been because I was speaking too fast as well. Most likely it was that to a large degree. It didn't really sting though. I literally can't reacall all the interactions of the afternoon. lol Next was an argentinian girl. I spoke english to her. we had big grins throughout the conversation and she took the complement well. I made some funny comments about argentinian stereotypes and we laughed. I high fived her bcause she told me she's studying music and sings. Ive been learning how to sing for the last 3 years and I'm getting into music slowly myself. we connected on that . Pretty damn cute. That's one of the things that I screen for. I almost missed her becuase I hesitated like three times and she got pretty far away from me before I speeded to her. I swear she saw me " following her and hesitating a couple of times LOL, but she had headphones in so I think she was in her own world . She was super receptive to the open and she hard stopped , and I offered to accompany her , which she agreed to. I found out she was leaving today and was on the way to meet her friend so the close didnt work. Next was this THICC slim almost albino dutch blonde. My opener was sloppy af. She had headphones in. She removed them but my angle was pretty sloppy which caused me to have a moment of awkward silence after the open which almost killed instantly the interaction ( note taken ) we talked a little, she said she's looking for her friend. I asked if I'm bothering her bcause I saw hints in her look. She politely said " yes, and sorry but im in a bad mood, with a little guilty smile " . I excused myself and said goodbye. Next argentinian girl almost inmediately after her went pretty good as I just had talked to an argentinian minutes before and I could follow a similar structure as before. I was pretty damn charming. She told me she had a boyfriend a minute in which is great. We had little laughs and smiles the whole time. What I say when they say they have a BF is to tell him what happened and that he should appreciate her more, with a grin . they allways smile . I walked by two girls. The blonde was slim and dressed in a red top and tight mini jeans. when we crossed she was talking with her friend with an accent that I could tell she was " choni " which means shes that kind of urban subculture, I was turned off by that but physically she passed the test. I literally second guessed so hard that I had to sprint to reach in front of them about 100 meters if not more. I complimented her, made a little observation about her blue eyes and left them with a smile on their faces as I wasnt REALLY interested but I still wanted to take a little action . the next one was pretty effin crazy!!!!!! I opened this little quiet slim spanish blonde girl on my way to my next job interview. I'm talking for 30 seconds. she's a little cold as I struggle with verbals she told me she's in a rush to cath a train . We HARD stop. A FUCKING TINY DOG fell off the balcony and lays there paralized bleeding off his face. she gasps and tries to help. A 30 year old girl is trying to help it but is afraid to touch it . I take initiative, buzz all the bells, shout to some neighbours at the balconies. I get into a farmacy literally next to it. I tell her the clerk the situation and she gifts me a blanket. I give it to the lady and help her to wrap it up and carry it properly. My girl knows where the nearest vet is ( suddenly shes not in THAT MUCH OF A RUSH ) We all three start walking, we chit chat and empathize with the dog. I lead a bit and tell them to hurry because he was in a critical state although I belive he made it since he was moving. he was small and very light therefore I belive the fall wasnt super hard ( sorry IDK physics ) We rush into the vet. the 30 yr old stays and I head back to where we came from with the blonde. We vibe on the way back, she takes my lead running on the pedestrian crossing as it was about to turn red for us. We part ways and she gave me her IG even though I asked for her number. She travels quite a lot aparently and wont be here for at least a month. I said I was cool with that. I didn't see any explicit attarction signs but the biggest one is she didnt tell me to leave and was talking with me, which is actually a passive sign . One thing i learned is if its IG I need to make her accept me inmediately, as if they are private it may take them hours to accept me or even forget to do so. She still hasn't accepted me but that's okay. Next was kinda cute 30yr+ argentinan girl. Pretty receptive and good vives. I stopped her at her first Word and guesses shes from Argentina. Very soon I asked if she had a BF and she does, so I wapped It soon after and we left with a smile. next on the way back I opened two italian girls. They spoke very little language and I struggled for words as well. Didn't go anywhere but I'll take the 20 seconds of experience. The blonde was pretty cute but not exactly my type. I almost skipped it because initially I thought they were part of a 8 people group but with a little more observation I saw it was just the two of them. I also second guessed a lot and took me like three minutes to open them after just observing and trying to get the courage to do it. im still glad i did it. I walked by a buss stop. there was a petite girl with a tall black bun hairstyle, dressed all black . She looked pretty cute. there were 2 unrelated dudes and a old lady sitting by. I chickened out that one, It's okay. Almost inmediately later a group of thee girls walked by. around 22 yrs old i guess. the one walking in the middle was petite and smoking hot . Canadian, very aesthetic face, beautiful smile, slim and pretty THICC. I walked past them 100 METERS!! and turned back to hard stop them. I " confessed " that I had just past by them and I wanted to say that there was something about her friend ( pointing with an open hand ) that was cute. they smiled. We talked EXTREMELY briefly and I said I was in a rush and had to leave ( not true ), but that we could hang out sometime if she'd like. She agreed and gave me her IG. There was a little awkward silence as I pulled out my phone bcause it was in battery saving mode and was going very slow ( my bad for slow thinking ). She actually accepted me but said shes temporarely leaving to mallorca and we agreed that we " may meet " when she's back. No big hopes but I'm very proud of myself. I opened a spanish mom her daughter ( ofc i wanted the daughter ). I struggled for words and my open was lame. The mom " shoo" me away with words but she was winking at me. Im still confused. The daughter was not receptive. Ill take the 30 seconds of experience no problemo. I went back " home " , changed clothes to shorts , flipflops and a different t-shirt as I was dripping in sweat ( its extremely hot outside ) . I wasn't planning to do more approaches as I had exceeded my expectations for day nr 2 for a big and the clothing is pretty slack and lame. 2 minutes passed after i left on my kick scooter and across the road wating on the pedestrian crossing there is a cute slim brunette with tatoos . I didnt even know what to say but I let her come my way and I hard stopped her. She took her headphones off and I said that she has cute eyes . We looked profoundly into our eyes as they are the same coulor ( hazel ) . She loved it. we vibed a bit and I asked if she has BF. She said " yeah in an almost sad tone " . I told her to tell her bf what happened and that he should appreciate her more. We left with a big smile . Last was petite blonde in right leggings in a shirt with no bra. I could see her nipples pointy again she was italian, my Game was lame and she told me she had a BF ( may have been true, maybe not ) After that I did some random small talk with people asking actual directions and casual conversation at the grocery store to keep building momentum and vibe. So that was the afternoon daygame. It took me about an hour and a half to write all of this. As my action taking gets more exponential I'll distill it more and more because it's very time consuming. I was just proud of myself for today as it was the first time in a long time I had taken real action . more to be added soon - Jack