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I took friday off to recover sleep debt + i was working until late night so I couldnt get in for free to the club. I could have gone to the bars though. I should aim to go out on friday and Saturaday. I should not miss these. I went to the club yesterday. I mentioned id go solo in the Valencia Game group and two guys joined. One I knew one I didnt. I swear I'm better off solo. These dudes just get me in my head and I feel like im losing momentum AF . It may be that I need to learn how to deal with wingmen In a useful way. They're good if they keep me taking action, we build ourselves up and actually wing for eachother in sets. Staying around talking logically and about Game theory is bad. Avoid at all costs. Its a skillset in its own. Anyways I was pretty damn tired yesterday. I even took 1/8th of a modafinil pill thinking It maybe would combat It but no way. I had super low energy which hindered me from quite a few interactions I opened about 10 sets tonight and its was okay. Some good reactions, worked on my verbals and banter, some cool situational openers. I should maybe try to escalate a bit more. Sometimes the interactions are a little too friendly. A black girl opened me on the dance floor and interlocked fingers with me. I could have gotten some reference experience there but I didnt like her. Damn you standards lol. Also some more insights would be: i was walking by in the dance crowd by two girls. I looked at her, no eye contact. I looked away and she wasnt looking at me but I saw her turning her body towards me with my periferial visión. I opened with "hey " and eye contact and It went good! Also I opened two girls sitting. They have me the coldest look and I just laughed and started at them in the eyes without saying anything, almost like making fun of then because of their reaction. They started smiling as well and opened Up. That was the insight of the night I guess. I frame controled them into them being weird for reacting antisocially towards me, and that its not normal for me to get a bad reaction like that and I didnt take It. Also all of this was done non verbally. I should have taken some numbers maybe. I had plenty of okay interactions. I literally forgot to do It. Also I want to learn to speak with earplugs. I feel uncalibrated and need to develop the muscle memory for how loud to be. I could have opened two or three girls on the dance floor in the loud ass club ( its 3 clubs in one here) . I had the intuition they were receptive and after observing I was right. One girl kissed a guy after a few words. I found feel her horniness in her face. Follow my intuition more. I just was pretty tired and not feeling specifically touchy. I gotta say yesterday was not fun. Not Being negative but Its starting to feel a little robotic. I allways go to the same club or same bars. I should recover sleep debt first of all and switch up the clubs a bit. I like opening with something like " you / your friend looks so friendly. And make It into a pull push. It makes It easy to hug on open. And also I just slide into groups pretty easy with they one. I opened a mixed group, asked the dude if thats his GF with a smile and he was like nahh you can have her lol. We had a good interaction but I wasnt into her that much . Damn you standards. Canadians girl loved the banter, she almost fainted from laughing . Remember to escalate on positive reactions, whatever that means in the moment. She was the cutest of the night. She didnt really give me signals but they kinda loved me from the open. We moved around, met their Friends, etc. I met her later in the night and she gave me an okay response but I was too tired to plow. I should keep It nice and short early and burn It to the ground more as the night progressed. I had seen three or so girls that I opened before but I didnt go for It. Should have done It for the reference exp. Nothing to lose.

Also i may have gotten a little too profound when building comfort. She mentioned her malen friend is a little insecure ( he was in front of us ) and I told him some ideas thay were too on point and the girl resonated with It too much, which put me a little in the boyfriend category maybe and she didnt want to appear slutty around me... I could also have take advantage of her friend liking me in a fun way. I could have gotten información like if she likes me , or of she thinks its okay for me to make out with her , etc. Also I should have escalated verbally with the girl since there seemed to be a little block physically. Maybe I should have flirted a little more, more push pull and play with her emotions, play with the idea of kissing and us together or whatever. Missed reference experience there. I may have her IG im not sure. She may be DTF in spite of making out of that random guy yday.

Oh man. Went out solo. I had a wing coming in a few hours. He never showed Up. I had fun "by myself" in the meantime. Talked with some groups, made friends and got myself a normie wingman out of nowhere. Started opening Girls . Good momentum. We had like 5+ decent convos at the start of the night. Got like 3 half solid IGs 2 AM my turkish normie wing left. I had some fun alone again but by 3am I was heading back to my place to call It a night. I sat on some stairs and was quietly singing something and some girl was in a fun mood and she literally came to me to give me a hug. We connected in many things. We went back to the club for hours. I lead them through the club. They dissapeared ( It felt like a sht test ) and when we found eachother again i was dancing with a hottie by the hands with was a good scenario for me. I actually wanted to make out with her. She had a tight body and cute face, which IS my standard. We danced. Pretty intimately but not all the way. I told her we can dance but no kissing and she giggled and we danced a bit more harder. I cant tell if this worked in my favor or not... I sat her down to build confort. I met her fiends. I literally told her im not boyfriend material and she giggled. Every time we went dancing she was a little cold. She would allways be smiling and grabbing my hands and interlocking fingers but would never grind on me. It looks now I should have lead harder and get blown out or make it. I found out she is staying in the same room with this male friend and her other friend and I thought she doesnt want to feel slutty so that's why I cant escalate on her. Anyways , I ditched her and I think that made her feel feelings , because when I went with my other girls for a few minutes i actually saw she was grinding on some random goofy 18 yr old and they made out while her female friend recorded It!!! It fucking shocked me wow. I thought I had read the situation so well. The only explanation I have is she felt disvalidated by me leaving like that and she felt she wanted some sort of aprooval that the random guy provided. Anyways, i hadnt danced with my Girls all night basically as they kept getting lost. But later i started grabbing her by the arm which she liked . We went for a water and when we came back there was some dude sitting next to her friend. Amazing, just the perfect distraction. We checked if she was smiling. She was. I told her to sit opositte. We started hugging. I masaged her. She loved It . I stood her Up, I learned against the wall and we hugged super sexy. From front and behind. I bit her neck and she liked it. If I had a chance for a kiss It was there. I should have done It. Loud music. I she gave me all the green lights. . . She was into it I didnt have a super smooth kissing escalation and I'm not a super good kisser so my inner Game wasnt on point there. Anyways we walked outside the club together. Her friend literally offered to leave us alone lol she was on our side. We went into this super mega water fountain, hugged in the middle of it. We masaged ourselves while hugging . I asked for permision to grab her ass and she agreed by a little moan which was cute. We spoke super close but all we ended having a small kiss on the lips. The feelings weren't there really. We enjoyed ourselves. I had the chance for a good makeout but I didnt capitalize on It in the club. Overall fucking great for a solo night that was suposed to be just for momentum building. She had a cute face, perfect smile and a thicc body. I love It. Going to sleep now. More tomorrow.

Yesterday I went out again. I discovered there is free entrance for an actual club every night of the week! Great great info. I'll get a feel for if its better than the bars. ATM my plan is to stay August here and then try Madrid. It may be overwhelming but I can allways come back here. Mostly I would do It to find experienced wingmen. Its the one thing this city is lacking. And I feel Its the one thing that could supercharge my growth. I knew my wing is not very experienced but he is a good guy. He is super logical and throws off my vive a bit but he was fun once he got drunk haha. I almost wanted to go solo and not tell him about the club. But I changed my mind in the last moment. I guess I did good because im still not in party mood. I'm pretty stiff and logical. That's okay, building momentum. Good thing is he speaks french and Italian. Lots of foreign people here. He smokes a lot and asks for lighters constantly. He actually sparks up conversations this way which is nice. I had to instruct him to introduce me when things are going well. He listened. Had some positive interactions today. I consistently am capable of making friends with male groups on the dance floor . We sticked for hours with this french group. Its good because that way I can leave my wing and break off solo a little if he is not big on approaching. Had some good interactions with girls as well. Like three or four That's good because im scavenging experiencie night by night. Im getting a few seconds, or a few minutes, or a little insight per night, but its building over time. Yesterday best experience was: i was on the dance floor. I turned around on the dance floor, tapped a girl on the shoulder and smiled at her. She smiled back, we had a brief man to woman high five and she actually interlocked fingers with me. I spinned her twice. There i should have put her hand on my back and slowdanced with her. But instead I tried to take her friend by the hand and put It on my wings shoulder. It was bad. She wasnt in a good mood and she just took her friend and left. I should have gotten physical with her and ignore the friend briefly, and after I build some connection either come outside with her or try to get her with my wing then. What I wanted to do was good but only if she was ON which she wasnt Game = micro learning. Seconds of valuable info per night. I was not capable of grabbing girls. I was tense and not in state and not smiling at all. That's okay, i'm building momentum again. I was 5 days in bed. But what i just said is definitely the correct course of action. When i let my hair loose people come to take a pictures with me and It looks like in famous ( they say I look like Jesus ) I caught girls side eyeing me probably thinking im famous.

Heyy its the first day I can say im " recovered ". My nose is still runny though. I went out nightgame after 5+ hour work shift at night. I salute myself because It would be easier to simply go home. The reason I went out is because a wing from the Game global group arrived in Valencia today and hes staying 3 days. I allways get motivated when I get to meet a new wing and my best side allways shows. I opened 3 groups first and we had a good time. Total of the night maybe 10 or somewhere around there, guys, girls and mixed. Simply walking up without saying anything sometimes gets you noticed already. My verbals kinda slacked today. I stumbled on my words and slurred my speech too much for my taste. That's okay considering ive been 5 days pretty much just in bed. I should grab more at the club. Remember THE CLAW lol Asking about dancing aparently creeps girls out from my experience thus far. Maybe add something tomorrow, its 4 AM so GN. Bottom line : i did great because I went out and took some action.

I've had COVID about 15-20 times. I got one vaxx years ago and I cant tell exactly but around that time I started getting extreme poking in the heart, almost like needles. Docs dismissed my claims, said im fine and gave me antiinflamatory meds. Long story short that this repeated throughout one year and a half. It kept going away and coming back. Its gone for a year at least and I dont wanna jinx It. So... I want to hear some opinions. im sick and tired of getting COVID. But I feel like one more vax and my heart would give Up, no joke. I did some research and It may have been miocarditis or pericarditis. I have no idea though i'm just glad It over. Also I dont take any medicine whatsoever for anything really. Is that bad? Should I take some meds for COVID? Thoughts? Edit: currently EFFIN sick AF again. I work in hospitality and lately been going to plenty of clubs.

@undeather thank you so much for taking the time off your day to share this ??

Thanks for taking time to anwser guys. Before COVID i would get sick maybe once a year. Pretty much never. For those years I have been working in a very busy tourist restaurant, where the clients wouldnt ever wear mask. Many of them obviously sick. Every 3 - 4 months almost everyone in the restaurant ( all the staff of 30 ) would get sick at once, múltiple of them testing positive. Chefs using no gloves at coughing at the food. I did not check myself so there is a chance it. wasnt COVID. But im way too familiar with the symptoms to say its all coincidence and I got something else. Ofc i can still be wrong. But its allways the same symptoms but slightly different. Mucus at the roof of your nose that you cant swallow nor blow out. . No taste , no smell, or neither. Fever, more or less intense. Mucus that drips into your lungs that if you dont spit out It gets stuck there and It makes you cough for days. Body weakness , brain fog... Overall I sleep pretty ok and I'm almost never stressed. I havent lifted weights for the last half year but I do 10-15 thousand steps almost every day. Ive allways been very lean. 179cm 63Kg . I dont look bony . I carry a little muscle, but it's extremely difficult for me to put on weight. My gut health is good. No problems with digestión pretty much. Perhaps a little lack apetite. I dont really like eating that much. I could eat way more fruits and veggies, thats missing. I never talked with a doctor about this. I wanted to a few times but It was really difficult to get in contact with one here. The point of my post is to ask if if its worth taking medicine when sick with covid, and your thoughts of taking more vaxx in spite of my terrible initial experience. I cant be 100% sure of what had caused that chronic heart pinching that I described before. I went to the ER and they checked my heart and said It was only muscular in my chest and my heart is OK. But I felt huge pain with every few heartbeats. It was exactly two weeks after taking the first and only vaxx i had taken. Coincideince? Who knows, but I was scared shitless to take another one. Thanks for reading guys

@Leo Gura @Michael569

I thought I wouldnt . Every time its the same but different and sometimes it feels like its trying to kill me. Also since this started my hair has been falling out bad. It grows back but its annoying because I have 3+ year long hair

I just want to be in the reallity where Leo delivers his Highest Wisdom about the Nature of God while doing Charlie D'amelio Tok Tok dances

I got COVID pretty bad for the last two days. I forgot its a factor for when im touching my face, good or nose after shaking sooo many hands. This thing is trying to kill me. I have spent 15 hours in bed and literally almost passed out on the concrete... I hope to be recovered tomorrow or the day after... That's a curveball. I didnt want my momentum stagnate.

Going out solo is the definition of growing Hair on your b*lls. So that's what I did. All my wings were slacking. I came to the bar área 1 AM. I first danced for 10 min but was feeling out of state. I walked to the entrance of a different bar and chatted up some guys. Boom, made two Friends for the night. That's an important skill to learn for going out solo. A third italian dude came by asking if its okay to smoke weed in Spain or will he get in trouble. We chat with him as well. He said he wants to talk to some girls tonight. Boom! Improvised normie wing. He didnt have any Game really but It was enough for me to have someone around. I spoke with like 15+ groups and he was complimenting me the whole time for how " extroverted" I a m. An important reframe i had to have was disect the night into babysteps and identify the small wins. Leave my place 1 AM solo: win Reach the bars: win Enter bar : win Dance : win Make eye contact with a girl : win Small conversation with strangers : win Make male friends for the night : win Start approaching: win Get physical with girls : win Get some numbers / IG: win Without this mindset, there is no way I would have been capable of going out solo.

The other day a girl grinded on me so hard i was left with such blue balls I couldnt walk. Good bless fapping

Took Sunday off. Well, not really. That night we gamed until 8 AM , that was pretty much daygame lol JK. I just recovered from the sleep debt today actually. Everything is pointing towards me having to go out solo consistently. Wings cant be relied on in this city. there is a few but not very active . It looks like I will have to go alone to the bars tonight . TBH I feel Ill have a good time, Ofc there is a little resistance but over the last week I've been keeping momentum. It's not enough to

@Leo Gura DafuQ is vibing really? Ive heard It as non goal oriented conversation with the only purpose of emotional stimumation

Super quick update. 9 pm invited tl Friends beachparty. Talked with 20+ people, very good vibes. One girl was ready to go home with me but she wasnt really my type or very pretty. An other one was a little better but I still didnt feel anything . She liked me and was nervous around me. I should take contacts in these sitiuations. Its cool to have female friends. I went to da club. Approached two Girls on the way to the club and we walked to the line together. Good vibes, they were very open but not hot enough lol. I chat Up about 10 people around us, we all enjoy ourselves. A dude from the line later buys a table and invites me over. Cool. I met 4 wings tonight and i gotta say I was doing amazing solo and they made my state and momentum go down lol. Last wing called me 5 AM as I was about to leave. Hes very cool and pretty natural. Hes got 200k subs on YT ( hes a mágician ). Hes pretty naturally social. His smile and facial expresions are on point. Our energy fits together very well. We opened around 40 sets. Maybe got around 4 Instagrams . A girl i opened at the supermarket the same day in the afternoon literally messaged me to come over as she was there in the same club. I actually shouldnt have done It!!! I didnt like her and spend 2 hours babysiting her because she was alone ( when i approached i hoped her sister was single , they were together ). Anyways the last two Girls were ON. One grinded on me nicely ( got super blue balls lmao ) . We walked out the club by the hand with our fingers clasped. We hugged 15 min as It was the only thing i felt like doing. Maybe i should have kissed her a little for the exp. My momentum that night was crazy. I had taken 1/5th modafinil and I must say i was energetic but It made me a little too intense and serious around 5 AM. However I got to flipo It around once we started taking action with my wing. Super good times. Add more soon!!

Dear Leo. First of all, thank you for your contribution to mankind. In spite of all the content, your pure work ethic and pasion for personal development / spirituallity has been the thing that I appreciate the most. That being said , do you plan a long term structural change to recover? Your blog post left me a little uneasy with no real conclusión. Tbh I get infinite valuetainment simply in your posts on this forum. You have created enough content to do an extreme Impact on humanity for the rest of your life. My ambition is naturally pretty low and sometimes the mental structure of high archivers does not compute with my worldview. Once I outgrew "competition" as a whole my ambition left with it. Which is okay, I'm still working on that juicy visión. Wish you a holistic recovery.

The action taking is getting too exponential to disect every single micro interaction. If you are enjoying It let me know so I i'll make the effort to articulate It . I worked for 7 hours as a waiter in the daytime. Got 15k+ steps in and I went home for an hour nap. I was going to go solo to the club, but the lazy wings from the local Telegram group are getting inspired by my daily action taking and are starting to message me. I swapped my plans of the club to meet a local more experience wing than me at the bars. I've never been there and its really good. Like good good. Both steet game and bar Game. I must have opened around 30+ groups of people. Half of It Girls and another half of It very very pretty Things that went well: my verbals got better tonight. If I rofl at the things I say its a great signal. I did more teasing, nagging and dissprooval. Girls love It if done properly. A bout 10 girls fucking loved me opening them. I mean they got this smile and laughter that almost floored them. Im proud because I know my verbals are like that IRL and Im capable of replicating it. i just need to keep It up and build momentum. I have kept a huge smile on my face for the whole night that had been reciprocated by most people. My speech became WAY more captivating tonight. Pauses, inflexion of the voice, voice pitch, loudness... It creates Magic out of nowhere!!!!! Tapping girls on the shoulders to start an interaction in a packed club is so effective WTF Calling out people makes them reactive!!! Ive seen rsd doing this for years and I just experienced It today. " Why you you laughing at that? Why are you licking your lips? Etc Powerful to make them react to you. 5 Girls were into me but I didnt manage to make It go anywhere. Matter of fact the very first girl I approached was into me + horny but It took me off guard. She tried to clasp our fingers while holdinng hands dancing but I wasnt present enough. My energy went Up as the night progressed rather than down. Things I did wrong / can improve Dont lean. Let them come to you. Unveawering eye contact, no jumpy eyes looking around. Slow and steady. I didnt go for number close / IG of ANY of the Girls that liked me !!! Why???? I just learned that lesson for good, trust me on that . More this afternoon. Cheers.

Confirming i have kept the momentum yesterday as well. At 8 am I had a 15 min convo with a older man at the beach. I went to the mall later to buy clothes for my job. I didnt do any specific exercise but I started Singing aloud among people and some were turning heads, which is a nice way to practice feeling socia pressure. I get on my knee to pet a dog from a table at a cofee place and I chat with the lady with a smile on our faces while she's breastfeeding ?? I did It accidentaly but It has pushed my notions of whats possible. I didnt do much afternoon besides people watching with the AC at the mall. All good cause there wasnt a single grill I wanted to open. 19 PM my friend hosts a digital nomad meeting at a Coworking Space. I arrive early. The first hungarian girl that's there is stunning and absolutely my type. Im just polite , social and charming at the event. Around 30 people showed Up. I talked with everyone, guys and Girls. Everyone kept asking if I own the place or if Im the host, because of how welcoming and charming I was lol I'm a natural host. I should make something out of that probably. Next week( or is it tomorrow ???) my friend is co-organizing a beach party of 100+ people and he wants me to help hin out! Aparently things get pretty Wild as you can imagine. Im pretty excited ?? I had built a lot of rapport with the blonde hungarian chick. She was looking me deeply in my eyes as we were super close because of how loud It was. She kept licking her lips unconsciously and asking me a lot of questions. She came on her own as everyone else and I could tell she was a little shy. I broke rapport temporalely to meet her again in a moment but then I got carried away talking with people and she dissapeared!! I think she felt unconfortable not having someone to speak to and she was too shy to say bye to me. My wing has her number as she gave It to him when leaving ( its more acceptable since hes the organizer ) i could try to make something happen but I feel i'll see her again. She is pretty cool and smart as well... No simping before sx boys!! ? After that I went with my wing the organizer to the city center and later to discover the bar área!!! Its pretty damn good and very Alive!! So good that we found out about It. I thought valencia was dead at night in between week and I was so confused by It . I talked with múltiple dog owners on the way to the bars. Its not a technique at this point, It just comes natural to me. We always have minimum a 5 min conversation and we leave with smiled on our faces. Great for keeping social momentum. We went into the first bar. I talked with some dudes. Went good. Walking out sitting at a high table are 4 girls. Around 21. I introduce myself without hesitation. They seem a little cold. I tell them that i'm practicing my cold reading skills and id like to test on them. I should saying " guessing skills better". One girl i get wrong . I get that the other three are dutch first try. I also get whos oldest and youngest on first try. We have some platonic conversation. One of the Girls has the biggest RBF face. I interrupt my speech briefly to aknowledge It by simply giving her the biggest smile with genuine eye contact in silence. She breaks a smile! It was a cool experience. I excuse myself as I could feel I was overstaying my welcome. Later i opened a group of 8 girls. I told them a story about a monument they were checking out in a very engaging and captivating way. They were into It. We dipped soon after. I could have plowed through see how much I could push It because two of them were attractive and my type. I actually would have met them again at the bars later because I saw them there but my wing is 40 ish and gets tired early if he doesnt get a nap in in the evening ? and I didnt stay around for long either. Tonight will be good . I expect daygame and clubbing. I finish first day of work at 17 which is great. Hope to have energy left and give It all. I JUST KNOW RESULTS ARE RIGHT AROUND THE CORNER!! This is going to be 1 week of snowballing momentum. I cant imagine 1 month or 1 year... Damn!!

A random IG friend of the hottie argentinian influencer I approached yday followed me on IG this morning 6 AM. Did they Talk? Does she expect me to make a move? She's not exactly my type so I'll follow her back but im not doing anything unless she initiates smth

Its part of why they're addicting. Rarely you get that level of engagement and presence IRL unless its fighting or sx. It emulates fight or flight. Source: life long addiction to online competitive games. WoW, LoL , shooters, etc What can we say? Breathe deep, relax , be mindful. Maybe play standing up for more body awareness

5 pm i had a job interview. The girl is cute. I noticed an improvement in my baseline eye contact . Relaxed but steady. I went out solo again. 0 reliable daygame wings for now :0 -- 20:30 PM Scooting around on my kick scooter. I noticed I'm a little scared of being in the city because I know if will feel bad if I chicken out of an approach of a cute girl lmao. I decide to warm up a bit. I see a dude with a cámara taking pics. I start a convo with him that last 5-10 min. Pretty good. Next i see another dude with a cámara . 5 min conversation. Next I see two okay girls but I second guess as usual. A stunning girl passed by me. Shes walking alone. Petite slim blonde in a loose shiny Orange dress. No bra, nipples poking a bit. Shiny green nails. A few well placed tatoos. Perfect smile. Green eyes like mine. I opened with a big genuine smile on my face because I managed to recontextualize my anxiety as excitement in the last second. i instantly looked for eye contact as i waved walking next to her. She responded with a huge smile that stayed on her pretty much all 5 min of conversation. Initially I was speaking in english but soon I found out shes from Argentina. I would never guesses. She looked like a spoiled California girl ( now that I think about It I should have said that lol ). We swapped language and that was a cool rapport building experience. Argentinian girls are allways super nice and willing to engage in conversation. She was asking me questions from the very beginning. Im a little ashamed of how much my verbals suck atm. That's okay. Im doing my best and taking action. Keep It up. . I scooted away with a surprised Pikachu face of my own dumbness : I asked if shes doing smth atm. She said no. Then I asked for her number but de declined. She said shes leaving in two days but she gave me her IG . And then I self ejected!!!!!! I had no reason to go away!!! Wtf. Keep plowing, enjoying ourselves and try for instant date... ! She literally just accepted me now but didnt follow me back. I need to surveil and guide them in the moment lol this keeps happening. Ideally go for numba. Again. I feel i didnt create any attraction. I did set a frame by the initial compliment but by the end i could tell she wasnt into me I think I keep saying stupid shit like i come here to see my friend but he got sick Wtf? Im extremely creative and funny in normal conversationd but cold approach reveals some sort of hidden autism in me lol She has 70k followers.. okayy. Next i saw two 20 yrs old girls. One not interesting one brunette with a okay body and cute red dress. After 2 min of hesitation and seeing them being absolutely lost i decided to approach. I came from front, didnt say anything and I waited for eye contact with a smirk. Initially she has scared eyes but soon she smiled a bit. She crossed her feet as we were speaking which is an indication of interest ( she doesnt intend to go walk away ). They're staying 3 more days. God my verbals suck a$$ I stutter with my words and do poor eye contact. I correctly guess they're dutch first try. They're kinda impressed. They say I guesses It because they're tall. I said they arent that tall. They took It as banter and lighted up emotionally for one time. Again, i keep seeing this trend if girls enjoying being disqualified. I again said that BS of me coming to visit my friend but he is sick . Why the F do i keep saying that. She anwsered with oh so now you're alone in a little breaking rapport tonality. I broke eye contact. I cant belive i started justifying myself with some bs lol . Oops. I asked their plans for now . They said they're looking for some place to grap good good, whatever It is. They asked me for recomendation. I said I dont know any place and that i'm not hungry but I could get a drink and we could walk together and perhaps we would find something IF YOU DONT MIND. I should have kept building rapport and ideally asked for number. That would have been more honest and autentic to my real intentions DafuQ my cringe wording LOL, where the F did that suplicating come from?? Eww. Ofc she rolled her eyes a bit unfomfortably and said " i think we Will just look for something ourselves". I excused myself. Told them to have a good night and we parted ways awkwardly. Im pretty sorry for how lame and little creepy I was , damn. I mean I wasnt entirely into her, which probably has smth to do. I ignored the friend mostly besides a hi and ocasional eye contact. I could try to game through the friend so I engage both. Still im proud of myself for going out solo, keeping Up the momentum and taking action. Mastering game is in part learning from tens of thousands of short 15+ sec intractions. Starting job soon i Will do my best to keep the momentum. I may stay here for just one Paycheck( one month ) and go to Madrid. Atm im only aware of clubs 2-3 nights a week here... Rest is pretty damn sh1t bars. + This wing group is dead It seems :€ Madrid is Infinitely more active I think. But also more competition. Talk to ya soon - Jack

Insight: Girls crave chasing a man. If I overly compliment her I give away too much validation and there is no posibility for her to want to chase my validation. I can minimally compliment her but thats It. The rest must be a frame of me being the buyer and not the seller. Make her qualify to me by teasing , giving push pull or cocky back ended compliments with a smirk. Im evaluating and kind of ", judgeing her value. This is the ideal frame. Its not some Sort of manipulation. Im doing her a favor because those are the emotions she loves and craves. WTH. I should have so much fun with this. Interact with her in a way I enjoy It the most. That's what It should be about. Ofc respect boundaries.