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Biggest love bite of his life
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Dogs sticking their nose out the window on a car ride is like TV entertainment for us
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@Leo Gura " I'll send fork-tongued demon crocodiles to love-bite your last precious testicle in your dreams"
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Nah, if you are a sociopath/psychopath it's mostly upsides and you can't help it. It's just so juicy its like honey for an ant. You don't understand how many people get away with sketchy sh*t. The upsides are real. Ofc don't do it though
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Notice how the crocodile trap is deadly , but mentally challenged If you get snatched by such a trap, sometimes it's just natural selection ( no offense )
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@Clarence Thats a good start. Let's put it on save for now. What are some statements about the situation that you find yourself in, that you would like to be true, and if they were true and you managed to embrace them, they would solve/ease your emotional issues? For example : It is absolutely okay to be selfish. I do not owe anything to anyone. It is not my job to save others from suffering. ( imagine what this would mean for your emotional wellbeing if you managed to embrace this as a truth - as a thought / emotional experiment ) Come up with personalized ones. Really take your time with this.
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mmKay replied to blankisomeone's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@Leo Gura 250+ ironies or life incoming? -
Are you talking about life coaching , or life purpose coaching as in career guidance and the like?
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@Clarence there is a lot to unpack in that. Let's start with this What are some statements about life at large that you would like to be true, and if they were true, they would solve/ease your emotional issues? Answer in a moment, first understand the following Silly example: My dog sheds hairballs all around the house. This makes me angry at my dog. The beliefs causing my emotion reaction ( anger ) are: My dog is not supposed to shed hair. Dogs are not supposed to shed hair. My house should be clean of dog hair by default, I shouldn't have to clean hair because I own a dog. (It's a silly example compared with your situation, but this is literally how unconscious beliefs run our emotions.) Result : My beliefs about how reallity SHOULD be doesn't match HOW IT REALLY IS, causing a spectrum of negative emotional reactions in me. Solution: Embrace truth and how reallity actually is. Align your beliefs about how life should be with how it actually is Mentally reframe ( embrace , understand ) that dogs shed hair. And that if you own a dog you will have to clean dog hair. Find out WHAT beliefs are you unconsciously holding about your situation and life at large HOW are they inaccurate ( partially or absolutely) causing inaccurate perception of reallity, triggering negative emotions. And now answer the initial question for the proper mental reframe. I challenge you to find how the answers you come up with ( the ones that give you mental health emotional peace) are actually TRUTH , and many of your current beliefs are false and inaccurate perception. Suggestions : explore beliefs about : your age, accomplishments, your responsibility about others physical/mental wellbeing, living up to others expectation, the nature of being alive as finite creatures... Feel your intuition here. Warning : this may get you initially worse as you challenge many of your core beliefs about life and get lost in confusion before you ground yourself. Let us know how that works for you
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Being in a though situation sucks. Feeling bad about being in a though situation just adds salt to the wound. Learning how to cope/release/aliviate your emotions would be at least something. Maybe let's explore that. What exactly is causing you to feel guilt and shame?
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Ambush predator vs the average australian :
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That's recontextualization
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At this moment my imagination is like a 2.5/10. I hope it improves once I chelate. I barely can hold the image of an orange in my mind. I have to outsource that stuff into words I can read or Images i can see over and over. THats why I'm pretty hyped for AI video generation. It would be like having an external imagination for me . I'm not talking about AI p®n that's nasty. I mean for visualizing an inspiring life for example . Like a video vision board
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Very tought situation. I feel you. Soon enough I will find myself in a similar place, and so will many other sons and daughters. Empathy is a bitch sometimes. Some people have very little of it or don't have it altogether. I don't really envy them though. But what would that kind of life look like as a thought experiment? What would it look like for you not having the capacity of imaging the emotions of others? If I were you i'd get a full time job, sleep in my car and pay for caretaking. This would give a healthy distance and alone time away from the situation . Maybe do extensive research into any goverment help ( maybe you can get some paychecks ) Your situation could be seen in a very simplistic way as an issue of lack of money, not knowing how to release/deal/cope/ with your own emotions and not establishing boundaries / not communicating clearly. I may be totally wrong. I barely know your situation and this is just my personal opinion. Don't take this too seriously and follow your own judgement. Looking back at your life 30 years from now, tell us exactly how your situation folded out , how you feel about it, and what did you learn. Make it VERY DETAILED
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@Leo Gura i still remember that post of yours where you claim you made your girl c*m through text or phone call Are you talking about delivering/building with her an erotic- novel-like story ? Through words and mental imagination? I'm sure I'm not the only one who would appreciate some resources or blog post lol Rate your inner eye visualization skills from 0 ( ant) to 10 ( Tesla) Thoughts on Tantra? It's mostly a lot of breathing, learning to enjoy non s*xual sensations, and delaying orgasm. Also imagination but it's like Kriya, not really erotic. And lots of "spiritual bs" I like this exercise ( kinda made it up ) where you guide her breath with your words and make her imagine that the breath in / out is not air, but actually YOU penetrating her. Is that more along the lines of what you mean? Would look something like this (NSFW) but it's on YouTube . Ignore the woo woo commentary or description
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"Speed has never killed anyone, suddenly becoming stationary… that's what gets you" -Jeremy Clarkson
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mmKay replied to QandC's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
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mmKay replied to QandC's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
This one happened to me recently Client comes in for coaching on issues trusting people. Cancels session because she doesn't trust me -
I wasted years of my youth " letting go " of my negative emotions about my sh*tty life instead of taking action. One of the many spiritual traps.
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I'll definitely choke out a member or two the day this forum releases on VR