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Does gravity have morality? Does it feel bad or responsible for making sure not to throw things on your head? Does it have preferences , likes , dislikes, regrets?

Got my first actual coaching client for social dynamics and confidence for tonight . Looking to get around 2k€ once I deliver the results. Initially it's a 12 week program which is pretty insane . Most I've seen is 4 week natural for 3k . TNL does 10k for 7 days and RSD does a weekend for 3k I'm thinking about 2-3 days infield training and one/ two online calls per week to talk about his call to action missions ( solo approaches during his week ) We can start with some social challenge drills to warm him up and start chipping away at social conditioning. What is social conditioning? It's a survival mechanism that your mind posesses. It looks out for your social safety, your reputation. For you to not draw too much attention, not be loud , not be charismatic, attractive and a leader. It's absolutely needed for your survival in one sense, but on the other hand it's a parasite of the mind. It's not something others do to you. It's yourself doing it to yourself. Socal conditioning IS why we feel social anxiety and approach anxiety You can't talk yourself out of it. Sole theory to reframe is nice , but ultimately the mind wants proof not promise. It wants proof that you will not die if you are loud , disapproved of and draw attention to yourself. Therefore exercises are done deliberately to provide that proof, slowly dissolving that dense protective layer of social conditioning . You get out what you put into it. Gonna take him to local meetup venues as an easy start to have a look at his skillset and rizz Later we'll go to a latin dance bar with lessons to let loose, then probably hit some bars / street game Bro owns two apartments in the city center lol I always struggle with logistics because I live far away but pulling is very real like this Of the top of my head, some social drills ( of the top of my head ), for feeling SOCIAL PRESSURE Speaking to yourself loudly at the supermarket Bad singing at karaoke Singing at supermarket Talking to strangers for directions or whatever and stutter a lot and go blank : emmmm.... Improvised speech to selfie cámara in public Improvised personal speech to a random group of people ( at an exterior bar for example) Improvised speech on camara as I record him ( walking backwards) Speaking loudly to me across the sidewalk ( 4-5 meters apart ) and I act like I don't know him Go to a girl and give her a compliment and gtfo. And return in a moment and hit on her Normal daytime cold approach for a single girl with an opener line : hey, I just saw you and though you were cute - improvise from there on Absolutely blank mind cold approach for a single girl. Same for groups of 2 girls. Mixed ( man + woman ), larger groups , families, girls sitting at tables at venues etc Same for girls and groups of girls surrounded by even more strangers : supermarket ques, bus stops , public transport . . . Night game , physical openers. Looking for rejection on purpose. Making a fool out of yourself on purpose. essentialy these are catalysts to hammer specific nuances of social skills and eventually internalize them . Concepts to plant as seeds in him so they can grow over the next few months and start snowballing that upwards spyral : Congruence ( alignment between thoughts, words and actions ) . What is Intent. Having undivided intent. Moving towards intent and away from intent ( aka smashing gas and brake at once ) . The power of acting and absolutely ignoring your mind / thoughts/ beliefs. Techniques vs principles. Be at the cause and not the effect . Homeostasis, not rocking the boat. Female psychology vs male psychology. Women react to leading , emotions, validation and status ( it's situational). The trap of seeking validation, aprooval and self-qualifying. The skill of influencing others, what are frames, frame battles, unshakable confidence Teach million dollar mouthpiece: free association, improvised humor, voice projection, breaking rapport tonality, add passion / emotion in of logical incoherence. How to manage your energy : draw state from within, persona ( façade ) fatigue, decision making fatigue, judgement fatigue . How to be present but non- self conscious in social interactions. Pinging, calibration. Screening, Logistics. Buying temperature , Cheecky banter , push pull, disqualifiers, teasing. Seeding the pull. Work on progress

I already knew about the impact of a smooth skin because it signals youth, but recently I saw myself feeling attraction because of a girls exposed back was super smooth with no zits blackheads or anything whatsoever and it got me thinking about how healthy her body is ( bonus fertility points )

If you want a specific girl, get good with girls overall. Train your skillset so you can apply it with her. Otherwise you will do your learning mistakes on her and it will be exponentially harder to make anything happen once she senses your unconfident vibe

@NoSelfSelf no offense but you consistently project your desperation/ negative views of women on others in these topics

Use a non-microwable ( so it doesn't have micro - pores ) food grade plastic wrap roll and make her some plastic panties for protection from contacting the skin. You can cut it to shape with scissors , use tape etc. For both of you if you want. You can use it as protection to go down on her as well. Or use dental dams , latex sheets, latex gloves ... Combine any of these with female condoms which are longer and stick out. You can use sagami 0,01 male condoms which are as thin as a hair , made of polyurethane ( conducts temperature better and more resistant in spite of being that thin , 4€ per condom) so it feels like unprotected If you want to go down on a girl at a ONS, cut open a condom with scissors and make a quick and effective dental dam Plastic wrap can also be used for a little BDSM bondage 😉 and for making her DIY toys for humping . You can wrap a pillow in plastic wrap and put lube on it so she has her fun that way, add it under her in different positions for added stimulation for her, wrap a towel around your leg and put plastic wrap and lube on it and have her ride it, etc If you have trust and intimacy, nothing is stopping you from implementing stuff like this and even more toys Introduce these things playfully and confidently. Make sure she is okay with it but you have to lead this and calibrate to her feelings And I believe you can get a vaxx for it? Bonus ( feeling generous) Google the pdf book " she comes first " . 200+ pages on female anatomy and to properly go down on her Quick quiz. Am I the only one who does not have oral/normal s@x if we both aren't tested? Like the idea of getting a BJ from a random girl I don't know is exciting but just seems like a bad health choice for both

There is a fine line between getting wasted on a Tuesday and working on your skills / personal development work: intention and not getting intoxicated. Some people go out with the intent of getting wasted , getting lucky, to pick a fight, out of boredom, to get validation and attention, to meet people, to hook up, etc Yours can be personal development, dealing with your own emotions, overcoming your fears, improving your mindset , learning to build your own state, giving value and fun to others , conversational skills, improving your voice projection , sense of humor, casual flirting skills , etc Getting laid should be no more than a bonus, and fixating on getting laid and making it your standard for a successful night is a sure way or making yourself miserable

Bars and clubs are the gym for your social skills. It's far from just just getting laid. If don't enjoy yourself that's on you

Let's be more precise here. Describe tangibly what situations trigger you and how they make you feel I imagine you are talking mostly about social scenarios

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@k-ahmadzadeh how does your hour to hour day look like ? What about your days/weeks? What do you actually spend your time doing?

@jacknine119 https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scientology That's why

@Francis777 if you don't understand the mechanisms of your mind and are lost in monkey-mind, then it's an useful practice

@BlessedLion if you don't see the problem then you don't understand the basics of being alive. Imagine if you're could lie in your bed permanently hooked on heroine high without drug side effects. It feels good, cool, but the very basics of life requiere work. And if you want a good life, blissing out is a counter productive temptation It turned me into an animal in the sense that I felt such a deep sense of confusion and lack of ground, combined with the despiteful attitude towards " thinking" from eastern spirituallity, that I barely thought about anything and just reacted to my environment and emotions, almost like a chimp. The good life requires planning, strategizing, long term thinking, willpower, avoiding traps, etc

@OBEler I happen to naturally make deep sense of logical explanations about the nature of reality. I had a few mystical experiences sober and all of this happened before my very limited psychedelics experience It's was a combination of dark night of the soul and deeply understanding nihilism/morality/unconditional happiness, "infinite love" ( whatever degree is possible sober) , meaning , value , purpose that feels like permanently rewired my reward systems. It's not too good to be true. It's a trap. Doing nothing feels blissfull. Working hard and doing chores feels like a grind (duh) which makes me rather not do anything. I can train myself to enjoy that as well but it doesn't come as natural as when doing nothing Then again I intuit my potential and feel guilty about wasting my life because I realize than there are more rewarding things in life than feeling blissful Then again when these emotions arise I can release them and feel blissful again Spirituallity is dangerous, but even more so if you haven't built a strong work ethic and good habits and a fulfilling life from before Again , it's been a bittersweet journey. There plenty of upsides and downsides

When I went through the beginning of a dark night of the soul I laid in bed for months and months and barely moved my body, which I feel the symptoms of years after . My back is fcked ' I stopped thinking because of eastern spiritual brainwashing which turned me turned me into an animal ( no thinking , just reacting to instincts and environment) which had set me back years in development . My natural reward system is f*cked till this very day from 6 years ago. I have the capacity to lay in bed and bliss out as if I had archived anything in the world. What the f* can I leverage to work hard now? Archivements don't mean anything anymore. The way I coped with this is by finding what am I naturally drawn towards and loose myself in it, with no purpose to archive anything In specific but just enjoy doing Sometimes I wish I hadn't found spiritually at age 18. I remember reading the title of a video called " spiritual enlightenment, the most shocking truth you will ever see ". My mind immediately went : not yet, too soon, without knowing what it is But curiosity kills the cat so I fell down that rabbit hole. It has been a bittersweet journey

"Crocodilian Symphony" features deep bass and low frequencies, natural soundscapes, steady rhythmic patterns, and minimal melodic elements to align with crocodile nature, psychology, anatomy, and social behavior. The deep bass tones resonate with their sensitivity to low-frequency sounds and vibrations, which they use to detect prey and environmental changes. Natural sounds of water splashing, river currents, and rainfall replicate their habitat, providing comfort and reducing stress. Consistent, repetitive beats (60-80 BPM) avoid startling the crocodiles and help maintain a calm state, mimicking the rhythmic environmental sounds they are accustomed to. Simple, droning tones and minimal complexity prevent overstimulation, keeping them relaxed. Understanding that crocodiles are territorial and sensitive to environmental changes, this music creates a sense of security, reduces aggression, and facilitates a natural, less stressful environment.

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I'm enjoying the crocodile memes but unlike Leo I don't believe crocodiles are the perfect allegory for life. Yes, crocodile-like dangers have the most severe consecuences : sudden death or setting you back decades in life ( picking up a hitchhiker at 4 am, falling for scams, not looking before crossing the road... Similar to the crocodile trap but not that immediate, I'd like to add the avalanche-like traps ( you can screw around minimally. Minimal leeway before the inevitable pain/ danger . Very shortly an unstoppable world of pain arrives . Just one step in the wrong direction will trigger the cascade : debt, doing drugs, getting in fights, unsafe driving practices, doing crime , unsafe s@x... But actually the more accurate allegory for life more like a Glacier: A slow , predictable, gradual mass of pure danger that slowly inches towards your demise over time. These are the long term EXPONENTIAL threats, THE MOST overlooked because they develop so gradually . In this case failure is the result of small mistakes repeated over a long period of time, not an one time big event. Not working out, never going to the doc, smoking, substance abuse, chronic stress, laziness, addictions, bad spending habits, lack of work ethic, bad company, poor diet, bad sleep habits, stuck in comfort, procrastination, bad time management... Once the glacier gets your feet, you have a small chance to break off, IF YOU DON'T react, soon enough you will be swallowed by the ice. Note : sometimes massive chunks of glacier snap off causing an avalanche ( a slow threat can become dangerous sooner than expected) Answer this : What are the glaciers in your life? But yeah if you get snatched, life is unforgiving. Sometimes it's just natural selection . ( Sorry ) So I'd like Leo to give a public apology to the intelectual community and feature my ambush predator mega- thread on the junk sub forum. Cheers

Dancing bachata/ salsa, contact improv dance, extatic dance, singing with people/ Acapella groups / choirs, doing music ( guitar, drumming, beatbox) , giving massages , teaching personal development in coaching calls, paying with animals / my dawg, Hatha yoga classes , acro-yoga, improv theatre, charity / volunteering for free help to people, going to clubs and bars for non goal oriented results besides perfecting social skills and vibeing ( boosting my own mood and others in the process) performing stand up comedy , language exchanges for German and french , day game cold approach , doing prepared Toastmasters speeches, doing tabletopics in toastmasters and just shooting the sh*t with normie friend and wingmen. I enjoy this forum as well for this purpose . Speaking to myself out loud is good or to the selfie cámara I'm looking into ju-jitsu and busking That's to scratch the social itch in a casual way. Then I have an itch for deeper more meaningful activities A big part of me is introverted so sometimes I dont interact with people at all for a week at all

You are projecting your pessimism about going out. I literally described the opposite of what you understood There are plenty of ways to scratch your socialization itch besides bars and clubs, do what works for you