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I had never " closed my eyes " or blinked in a lucid dream before. I can willingly close my eyes in the dream and it allows me to walk through objects if otherwise blocked. I belive this may be also a way to materialize whatever I want or even teleport inside the lucid dream. I'll keep y'all updated

do you think it's true that it shouldn't be that way? And if she were to leave you, you would be left with nothing forever? How does having those thoughts make you feel?

I find the olympic snatch to be one of the unhealthiest exercises there are. IMO the overhead squat has so much potential for things to go wrong, and the wrists and shoulders are in a very unnatural position. If you insist , I'd say working on core strenght, balance , shoulder press and squats individually would help you a lot

what are some of the thoughts you have about the situation ?

What causes that negative / depressive state? What stops you from being positive, accepting your situation and taking action socializing?

there are guys that will try to put you down, boss you around, steal your girl... get into fights, are really bitchy, judgemental, energy draining, full of excuses, huge egos, get drunk etc. its okay if you're an begginner, at least just dont be an energy vampire

this thread made me think of this vid Where is my ethically sourced organic Fentanyl? BPA free bag please

More Survival pressure = more Ego More Ego = more survival pressure Less Survival pressure=less Ego Less Ego = less Survival pressure Another one for y'all's strange loop collection

Let's just settle for "human" as the ultimate ruthless survival metaphor. Ambush predators at least don't BS each other or themselves about what they're doing. Humans engage in self deception , denial , lying , cheating, stealing , etc Crocodiles and spiders don't do ethnic cleansing, use nukes, create pyramid schemes, use emotional manipulation, create cults, do decades of war, slavery, rape... A crocodile snatching baby zebras is peanuts compared with humans billion animals systematized slaughter houses. Spider webs are a laughable trap compared with love Tate's lover-boy webcam scheme for example I think Leo's new corruption vid will give us our deserved badge for ruthlessness

Zone of genius in a nutshell is where you happen to get in a flow state by acting through your medium , while also being aligned with your top values, strengths and preferred impact . For example (me): Top 3 values : personal development, understanding, spontaneity Top 3 strengths : playfulness, ingenuity, genuineness Prefered medium: speaking Most meaningful impact: helping men improve their self esteem, self understanding and social skills Zone of genius: Coaching social dynamics IRL

I'm so excited!! I just had the idea of trying to astral project inside the Astral realm and upon research it's apparently a thing!!! I'll report after I get some experience. GPT: To astral project within an astral projection (a projection inside a projection), you can use similar techniques to your initial astral projection, but with a focus on deepening your awareness or shifting dimensions. Here are clear steps you can follow to achieve this: 1. Set the Intention Before you begin, mentally set the intention to project further once you're in the astral state. This can prime your consciousness to seek out deeper layers or dimensions. 2. Stabilize Your Current Astral Projection Once you’re already in the astral state: Take a moment to ground yourself. Focus on your surroundings, use your senses, and feel your astral body fully. If things seem unclear or you feel unstable, use verbal commands like, “Clarity now!” or, “Increase focus!” to stabilize the projection. 3. Use the Rope Technique (Within the Astral State) You can apply the rope technique even while in the astral state: Imagine a new rope above you in your current astral body. Mentally grab onto the rope and pull yourself upwards, just like you would in your first projection. This action can help you "leave" your current astral layer and move to a deeper one. 4. Roll Out from Your Current Astral Body While in your astral body: Visualize yourself rolling out of it, just like you did to leave your physical body. Feel yourself separating from the current astral body and moving into a new state or layer. 5. Shift Your Focus to a New Dimension Focus on the idea of exploring a deeper or different layer of the astral plane. Command yourself to "shift" by saying something like, "Take me to the next dimension" or, "Shift deeper into the astral plane." Feel your surroundings change, and let your awareness move to this new space. 6. Spin or Fly Upwards You can use spinning or flying as a method to transition to a new layer of astral projection: Begin to spin around quickly or float upwards into the sky or space. This action can cause a shift in your consciousness, bringing you to a different astral layer. As you spin or fly, focus on the intention of reaching a new dimension or deeper astral layer. 7. Jump into a Portal or Mirror Look for a portal, door, or mirror in your current astral surroundings: Visualize yourself walking or jumping through it, using it as a gateway to enter a new layer of projection. As you pass through, expect to leave your current astral body and enter a new one, transitioning into another projection. 8. Command Projection Within the Astral While in your current projection, you can directly command yourself to project further: Say something like, "I want to leave this body and go deeper" or, "Take me to a higher astral realm." This can trigger the shift to a new astral body or dimension. 9. Visualize a New Scene Close your astral eyes and visualize a completely different scene or environment. Focus intensely on this new place: As the visualization becomes clearer, allow yourself to be "pulled" into the new space, effectively leaving your current astral layer and entering a new projection. By practicing these techniques, you can project within your current astral projection, experiencing a shift to deeper layers or new dimensions. Each time you go deeper, maintain your focus and awareness to continue exploring.

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Download 4kvideodowloader, the software that sounds like the biggest scam/virus, that does exactly what's advertised ,for free without any malware or ads. Just look up a vid about it on YT

Can we get a coffeezilla t shirt saying -- I liked coffeezilla, until he investigated me -- ?

Get up, sit on top of her and say that that's actually your place -- then tell her that she's actually the most unconfortable girl you've ever sat on, stand up, grab her by her wrist, walk her to the other one, and when y'all sit on the three person couch place numerous pillo's between you and her and say that it's your protection against her -- or tell her to place her purse in the middle so that ( you ) feel safer and tell her to make you some popcorn Two step forwards one step back

Throw pillows at her until she moves Then get rid of that extra couch -- sell it and get yourself a shaggy rug. The fluffiest rug money can buy you No shoes in the house rule. Sit her down on that cloud and enjoy a more playful vibe. She will actually throw herself on it willingly without you saying anything Or get one of those huge XXL Lazy bean bags filled with styrofoam balls. Anything of that playful / fun nature is good. Fill your house with that kind of stuff. Play with her as if she was a little girl ( don't stretch this too far guys ) Let me know how it goes

Imagine Trump wins but dies of old age and JD Vance becomes president

A couple of days ago I was crafting myself a DIY necklace and it got me thinking how much effort it actually takes to source all the materiales, create the tools, use tools proficiently and go through the entire process of assembling the piece of jewlery. I can definitely see how in tribal times jewlery could be used as a physical display ( or flex ) of abudance of resources of your group, abundance of free time away from basic survival needs and even display of skills. This may work both for men and women. This is obviously a minor thing. People still flex this way even as of today, but it's not that impressive these days anymore for obvious reasons

Yup we guys like a piece of ass and titties. for some men that's the end of the story and that's fair enough. I've always been intrigued WHY do I find specific things sexually attractive and other things sexually repulsive . Why am I attracted to ass, titties, a beautiful face and smile, well put together, youth, slim , makeup and color? Today I'm excited to share some simple but personally satisfying answers. It felt like zooming outside of my human being to become conscious of myself being this chimp, and that this chimp has specific preferences and dislikes, like love for sweet and hate of bitter, or being a bee and realizing the evolutionary reason why I'm drawn to flowers This may apply to males at large but I've noticed that different guys have slightly different preferences, which only makes sense because of different successful genetic backgrounds ( if your ancestors mated with females with "X" traits, and you're alive here today, it means traits "X" work for survival and therefore are attractive to you) Quick note. All of this is from an non judgemental POV with the sole purpose of noticing and understanding . In no way I'm trying to make women feel worse about themselves. Second quick note. Since in the scope of our evolution the risks of sex are minimal for men compared to women (besides getting your head smashed in by another male/gang of males for having sex with the wrong woman ) we are more okay with just sticking it in literally any chance that we get and possibly skipping on any of these preferences. Women on the other hand get f*cking disabled for a year and they can LITERALLY DIE if impregnated. ACTUALLY LITERALLY DIE. Therefore they are a little more picky. Anyways, from my BIOLOGIES POV, for me to be attracted to a woman she has to display physical traits that mean she can bear children GOOD, and a minimum degree of mental capacities ( otherwise it would be a turnoff because it signals bad genetic material) For me personally, I know if I'm physically attracted to a women immediately. At a primal biological level. In a single glance. Now since I'm not an absolute chimp, her personality can be a further turn off if it's just not for a pump and dump. This one I found to be the most interesting. And it's the exception to the rule: Beautiful face , smile, teeth. A symetrical Golden Ratio face doesn't provide much raw survival value or information about fertility. The value of a symmetrical face is a strange loop. It's valuable because we value it. Beauty is slippery. We love the golden ratio. Beauty is valuable because we value beauty. But a pretty face by itself is not enough of an attraction cue as you may have noticed. You've got all teeth? Clear sign of youth and health. Showing your teeth in monkey societies signals submission . Perfectly aligned teeth are more of a aesthetic and universally recognized love of Beauty in the abstract, like Greek sculptures. Why men/I'm not attracted to chubby / fat women This one I've been racking my mind over the longest, and the Insight came to me watching an Instagram reel of a couple dancing bachata. It was a before / during pregnancy dance video. In the initial video the girl was slim and I felt she looked very attractive. Few seconds later, the video was cut to them dancing months later where you could tell she is just a tiny little pregnant, she had an inflated belly and my attraction was immediately killed!! So the Insight is that I'm genetically not attracted to chubby or fat women because it resemblances pregnancy. That their fertile real estate is currently taken and therefore not worth pursuing. Also you can't tell THAT easily if they're pregnant already . Imagine you had sex with a female thousands of years ago and she was pregnant already and you raised a child that's not yours. It's shooting yourself in the foot genetically. Although you may argue being overweight was pretty uncommon throughout history. I know personally men who are into chubby girls. On the other hand, easily storing fat would be extremely useful and therefore attractive for species who have to survive in places of extreme cold like Alaska. Otherwise It kind of signals scarcity of food and the need to hoard. Historically Surviving is easier if you're capable of consistently obtaining food from outside of your own fat sources. It's more efficient to be thin. Make up , Youth , Color An appearance well taken care of is the physical visual equivalent of seeing muscles on a guy . It's a what's called a "honest signal" , which means it's a conveyance of value that can not be faked. You are strong, end of story. Or in her case , you have put time and effort into your appearance, which signals good caretaking , which is essential for raising children. Contrast it with looking like this A dishonest signal of value would be mentioning you get laid a lot, even if it's true . Because that CAN be a lie and not true. Make up covers skin signs of ageing. And genetically we're attracted to young women because they're in their prime for bearing children. I'm genetically attracted to female eye contact, a primal indicator of sexual interest. Once two attractive women were in front of me. Only one had done her eyes and eyelashes done. It emphasizes her eyes A LOT more. Colorful make up for eyelids, lipstick etc, simply draw attention for humans overall, not just for men. I have been using my smartphone in black and white mode for the last few weeks and it's astonishing how much less distracting app icons are. Color provides vital information about ripeness of food, time of day, poisoning factor of food or animals or insects, purity of water, etc. Conclusion : color draws attention because it conveys information. Why the hourglass shape? Thin body with broad hips is the genetic preference. I didn't know this but broad hips are a big factor on how well the mother can give birth. The mother can literally die if her hips arent wide enough, because of the size of human babies. Nowadays C-sections exist which would minimize the attraction to wide hips, but it's still there instinctually. Why the attraction to booty? It comes from our monkey times. Bonobos and macaques specifically find swollen buttocks more attractive because it signals more estrogen and fertility Titties? I was watching a absolutely non sexual video. Some people were talking . The woman was wearing a loose shirt. For a speck of a second, she accidentally pulled on a part of her shirt and it slightly shaped to the form of her bra. I instantly noticed I felt a primal feeling of attraction. It was so quick I barely noticed it happening, and had to rewind the video to investigate what the fuck had just happened If she has breasts , biologically it means she is past puberty and ready to bear children. Non sagging breasts are a signal of youth as well. All of this is just from a primal perspective. Of course modern humans have the capacity to appreciate personality, and for quality couples it's an absolute must. Hope I shared an insightful perspective about why men judge women that heavily on physical appearance. Let me know if you want to share some interesting take. Do not turn this into a gender war post

It happened 👏 Tonight I lost my astral virginity lol I was having a dream where I'm getting constantly chased by my brother and group of friends. They cornered me and I "woke up". I hadn't moved a muscle and my eyes were still closed. I started doing body exit techniques. Rolling out didn't work by itself, but it immediately worked once I rolled my eyes together in the direction I was rolling my subtle body towards. I exit with my physical sensations in the head to toe axis which seems to be the most complicated way but it worked. Everything was dark but I could feel my arms and that I was standing in the floor. I gently opened my eyes and started seeing. It was blurry and low resolution. I rubbed my hands together and felt my body to increase bodily sensations. I looked closely at my palms of my hands to increase clarity and resolution. It worked. As I was feeling exiting my body and the turbulences that come with it I was imagining a girl I had a crush on some time ago. When I appeared in the Phase, I appeared inside a room facing a door. As I'm opening the door I'm thinking about her . It's a door to the outside. A couple of people are siting on bar stools. I look at the girl face sitting in the most right and it's not my crush but the hottest girl I know ( from sight , I don't know her in person ) from a latin dance club I go often to. I'm super excited as she has the body of a goddess. I walk towards her, tap on her shoulder and communicate the intent of having sex. She said what??? Me?? Yess!! Of course We walked away from the group of people and I don't want to get too graphic but I can say that I undressed her, and could feel and see her naked body . It was beautiful. She literally didn't have any weight so I could move or pick her up easily. I felt the pleasure just as if it was real. The only thing that was unrealistic ( I like to believe ) was me lasting 5 seconds before reaching climax. It wasn't very explosive but I'm satisfied for it being the very first time in the Astral realm It makes me excited for the possibilities. But to be honest now that's out of the way I'm more excited to explore other things. I want to try some techniques I've read about , to prolonging my stay in the phase by imagining a protective bubble around me to resist being pulled back , or imagining sending roots into the floor work my feet, or holding onto objects And the one I forgot was breathing very mindfully and coordinate the breath with every movement. I truly believe that's the key to staying in longer So for all the incels that may be reading this, there is hope for you!! -- damn does this count as breaking my nofap October challenge? I'll say nah

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I love this one. So simple yet so deep

Damn that's blasphemy. Now I honestly feel that Actualized.org AI should be against forum guidelines unless it's a serious project lead by Leo

You see yourself as a child because you see yourself as a child Adopt the identity of an adult and you will slowly mold into the beliefs and actions of an adult Wear a wristband to remind yourself the affirmation " I am and adult " Bonus points for defining " what is an adult? How does an adult behave ? How does an adult not behave? How does an adult think? As you consistently think about it ,you will slowly change how you think and behave. It will become who you are Human beings always act, feel and think in accordance with what they believe to be true about themselves and the world