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@Rilles I have already watched all the spiral videos twice... I think its time for another round There is still much to learn... By reading about yellow, I think, that I actually have a yellow part of myself, its just not stable

By the way, Jesus' body wasn't found, it went to God Therefore it cannot rot... Sorry everyone who likes this

@Rilles That's obivous, I am probably blue/orange/green, like a typical European... It's way beyond me... How does one embody yellow?

@Ampresus Hey buddy, I am in a very similar situation, I am just 1 year older, living in Czechia and Christian... My parents are also quite strict with religion, my grandparents are even more strict, but you need to understand, that dogma is very strong weapon and they are using it against themselves, without knowing it. Be more open and compassionate, your style of thinking is still quite blue/orange. Be careful not to turn Actualized.org into another religion Happened to me... You dont need to just look at Leo and do whatever he does... He is a very inspiring man, I wish i could swap lives with him - thats why I listen - but sooner or later, you will have to think on your own I dont know if this is still your problem, but I learn this about myself when speaking with my more developed friend... He was waiting for me to realize it EDIT: Have you watched Leo's latest video? I think that it is very helpful, it answered many questions to me and I think it is basically handmade for people like us... You need to differentiate between stage, state, line and type of development and also all the independent variables, life isnt just about the Spiral....

You arent even trying to work on yourself, even if we helped you, it would just remain the same.

Hey everyone! I just found this talk on youtube and it is quite funny how this guy is basically trying to create a summary of so many self-actualizing models in one speech But seriously, can anyone really help someone else by telling them, if they arent genuinely interested? How is it possible? Some people like to see a good example in their leaders, but some people think that a person like that is just egotistical and wants to manipulate. How do I overcome that, if I wanna focus my life purpose on creating a self-actualizing community?

@YoYoYo Have you read/tried Katie Byron techniques? Many Leo's videos are based around that... It really helps, its a legitemate solution

@i am I AM Isn't it more like that the thinking about it breaks the meditation? You probably laugh when you think mostly, but...

Yeah, its super funny, you could definitely create a meme from it haha. I heard Sadhguru talking about it in one of his stories, I dont know if it happened to him, but he was talking about a boy, who was sitting at his desk in one of his classes and he didnt understand the teacher, because he was in a meditative state.

Do you know any enlightened people in central Europe, who are organizing events like retreats?

I realized, that when I make someone smile, laugh or give them some great value, I feel the love inside me, just as if I was the other person... Giving and teaching is my real passion.

@Andreas That's a good idea! I am probably doing that already, but I might try to work on it more... Great insight! @Key Elements I am gonna do that once I have some alone time... I am quite busy doing these speeches, creating presentations and materials, getting experience, I am also going to a student leadership institute event in February and I have to book the flight and organize all the things so yeah But thanks for the reminder! Another thing is - how do I not copy someone else? I would like to bring something original to the table, but it's very hard... I still need to grow myself, I will probably invest in Leo's courses on Christmas and start doing intense research on this topic.

@7thLetter Sounds like a good idea, but I live in a small town, its kind of hard to do pick-up and I am 15 as well Maybe I will try something similar... @Shadowraix Yeh... I agree with you, it all makes much better sense to me now. I just enjoy how Leo is not too pushy to be weird, but not too passive either... I will have to work hard to find that balance

@Rilles Reading enriches your personality, as well as your work. You will be able to copy the authors you like, your vocabulary will be larger... You cannot really go wrong with reading

@Equanimitize I see... thats probably true. @7thLetter I am doing most of the things that Leo suggests me to do, I really am not just watching. How can pick-up help you?

@7thLetter I will definitely work on myself, but in what direction, can you give me any advice on that? Maybe from your exeprience and results? I read that book, its simple, but foundational... Maybe I will read it again. But! If people read it too much, its not too good either When you see those people give you extremely strong handshakes and overuse your name Thats what you can see with some of those self-help junkies. @B_Naz Exercises are definitely great, when I talk to my friends who are interested, I always mention the practical side. I have never tried visualization, maybe I should give it a try... I have never really believed in easy and quick 1, 2, 3 steps solutions... But maybe new people need at least some of these to get interested in the first place! Thanks!

Yeh, just practice, practice different writing styles, show your work to your friends/teachers to make it improve, read it, read a lot - this is what my friend recommended me, she is writing a book now, it really is noticable in her stories, whether she read in that time or didnt read... Dont overthink it too much.

@7thLetter @B_Naz I understand what you are trying to say... You are most probably right. I am quite good at finding problems, but nobody really takes my advice seriously, even if they are quietly listening and looking at me and its obvious that they are interested... (I am able to recognize whether someone is or isnt interested, I am not dogmatic about this, its usually only around 15 % of people) I am not going to people, telling them about it, I organize events and meetings, explain what its gonna be about, some of them are very interested, but they dont know how to start self-actualizing... I know its very hard, thats why I am asking... Is there any way to motivate people better, except being a good example? How to become a more motivating speaker, like Leo for example? Are there any good books to read about it? I dont even know if its even possible to do such a thing... I am just curious.

@Wyze Try reading Katie Byron, Leo recommends her. Her techniques are very effective, you just have to do them. The book's name is „Love what is“. It helps you spot every problem inside you in order to stop judging. It could even be blue level thinking, but I dont know you... Realize, that by doing this, you arent helping anyone, especially not yourself. Why be stressed out because of a stupid accident, rather than be happy always?

@Aquarius The fact that he hasnt ended the relationship already or hasnt stopped contacting you is surprising from what I know... Were you telling him to go out or was it him? Maybe he just doesnt want to be rude or something, I cant really tell.

@Shin Neediness for attention and confidence are two different things I suppose...

@Aquarius There are multiple options, he might want you back, or he might be repressing something else... He might also just not want your relationship to end so suddenly, so he is desperately trying to keep it alive.. idk

@d0ornokey Yeh, but she most likely doesnt have self-esteem issues if she wants to become the number one... even though its not healthy...

@Leo Gura Why do the Enlightened gurus of today have or had wives? What is the meaning of a relationship to them? How is it different? It would be great if you did an advanced video on relationships in the future, I think more people than just me were talking about this Also, if you go meditate into a cave or a forest, it doesnt really matter, doesnt it mean that you have almost no life-purpose? I think that these highly developed people are needed to participate on the function of our society, what Sadhguru is doing seems very revolutional.

If you still want it, you are stubborn. We are trying to protect you from the pain you wouldve experienced, if you went into a relationship like this, we dont mean it badly. Just listen to the people who have already been in a relationship, it helps you to see further than just your little paradigm. I dated a girl when I had these issues and it ended horribly, DONT DO IT.