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What are you guys doing, that attracts people to you? What are you looking for in your students? I am not trying to copy it, I am just curious...

@aurum I dont think that it will be for free... As I said, I am willing to do many things, it would be great to work for my mentor. (for free) But my parents wont let me work for a stranger when i am 15 now So I need to gain some more knowledge and values I can offer before doing so...

@Key Elements Thanks so much I am actually quite good at doing that, as I have a lot of practise from learning languages... just going to people But I would first have to know more about these people, it's kind of rude to walk up to someone without knowing who he is Then I would ask them questions about their story... I am laways interested in stories... @Nahm Of course I am!

Thank you so much, I will contemplate all these questions, I probably already know the answers

@aurum @Timotheus I am sure that I have many qualities to offer, I am very helpful, industrious and serious about improving and pushing each other's limits, I am willing to do many things to have such a person talking to me. I think that teachers want their students to be able to actually grow and improve, while giving them compassion and the great feeling of giving and helping people get out of the maze. I have seen a thread here about directly messaging people like Peter Ralston - it turned out that they are genuinely interested to help (if you ask them good question probably and show that you are not just kidding around) so I got really inspired to try such a thing... That's what I was asking in the first place - if you know people like this

@Roch I am a Japanese otaku myself, but there are many types of otaku, you cannot really throw us all in one bag. Why people dont like SOME of them? They tend to be ethnocentric, pervert, annoying, obsessed, needy and unable to talk about normal topics with people... you dont really have to be an otaku to not be liked for these reasons though...

@Annoynymous I think you already got the answer written here many times Now you need to actually work.

@saffron Definitely

@VictorB02 I am happy you got it Hatred is never a good option, why would you ever hate someone, when it causes YOU actual bad feelings? It's mad!

Guys, your advice is definitely useful, but keep in mind that Victor should not become resentful in the process, it can seem like you are suggesting him that, even though you arent, to someone who has just started this journey... Quitting social media and non-supportive people can surely help, just not become hateful and anxious with them, thats what I am trying to say here... You dont have to suddenly start hating them, just dont participate in the actions you dont resonate with... Also find some ACTUAL friends, who push and support you, understand you... It might be dangerous to isolate yourself completely

@JohnLeyo What is success in your opinion? The word gets misused...

@saffron This is great. Think about it. You can definitely be grateful, without fighting. You can contribute without winning. If we rather focus on increasing the global awareness of mankind, war will disappear, unless it destroys us before that happens... War probably was necessary in the past, you cannot just surrender to Hitler and hope for the best... But I honestly think that conflict wont be necessary, as we evolve - but its not guaranteed that it will be in our lifetimes, as the world leaders are stage red partially...

@SoonHei I see... Something clicked.

I watched the video What is perception yesterday and I actually had a glimpse of the Infinite, the ego just fell down and couldnt fight for a moment... It was a huge mindfuck for me... Actually only fuck, because the mind wasnt quite there I am not a fearful or unstable person or anything, but I got this thought, it was like some kind of feeling that I am gonna die or have to die in order to experience God, there still was this barrier between me and Being. I also couldnt understand, how is it possible for the mind-body to die and for the Consciousness to survive. I will probably watch my hand more and try to experience this more often. Any advice on how to overcome these problems? I was thinking about going on a psychedelic trip, but I am affraid that I am too young for it and I am not ready in general... But Leo has finally showed me the value of it

@SoonHei Oh thats interesting... To what death was Jesus reffering to, assuming he was Enlightened then? I thought it was the ego death....

This is just too much... I still have the connection with Being and the organs, mainly brain... Another question pops up, that takes it from the other end: What if there was only the possibility to feel but nothing else? Could it sense anything? There would be no space to feel, no thoughts to think about, no objects to see... Its kind of meaningless to talk about, it needs to be grasped... Are you guys Enlightened? Or have had some experiences?

@VictorB02 You welcome Just stop caring what other people think about you, you dont have to become toxic or resentful to them, just leave, maybe tell them something so that they understand you... If they dont understand you, they are not really your friends or they are just kidding around... Its not really their fault to be like that... I have actually stopped talking to my friends, I dont participate in many things they do, but we can still chat sometimes, if one of us needs something or we just feel like having some fun together... Its not anything THAT serious

Have you seen Leo's video What is perception? I have actually had a little glimpse of infinity while watching it. You actually have to kill your self

@Annoynymous I have been a typical nice guy and still partially am, so I understand your struggles quite well in my opinion I had been dreaming about becoming this perfectly moral, excellent justice warrior (nice guy) who gets all the girls with his honesty and humbleness. Bullshit. Just a little note, I am 15, so maybe my advice is not very relevant for you, but still, I made some big progress lately 1) The feminine CANNOT be understood from the perspective of the masculine. 2) Nofap definitely makes a difference, I dont know how, but when I fap, I suck, when I dont fap, girls just tend to be around me all the time. 3) Work on yourself, rather than trying to learn about how to attract someone. I have girls coming to me saying they enjoy the way I am driven in the things I am doing and it is obvious that I am confident, happy and passionate - yet I didnt do pick up or anything like that... Deida's book will actually teach you more about life than about women

@fewrocker Oh ok... Maybe I actually see yellow When I try to help people, it still seems that I am not wise enough, even though I am the most intelligent and non-biased person in the room most of the time... It will probably take a year or two to properly work on myself... @Space Thanks! I will check out the content there... I actually have a stable yellow friend, who is probably about to move into turquoise soon... Our friendship is so valuable, as I have developed the lower stages more than him and he is higher in the spiral than me, so we can just push each other's limits incredibly well. Yeah, even turquoise is kind of slippery when we talk about it... @Rilles I will probably do the exact same thing What about the epochs, cognitive development, states, types and lines, are there any good books on these? I think I don't really understand the terms Leo is using in his video...

Hey everyone, I saw the latest video and it has really helped to understand the model of Spiral dynamics better, but at the same time, I feel dumb. Leo for the first time mentioned stage Coral in his development table - what the hell is it actually like? I also feel that I havent even understood yellow and turquoise till now, can someone explain, how can you actually understand these by thinking? Are there any books on the booklist that explain the epochs, morality line and cognitive line of development? I am just getting super lost...

@Annoynymous That's the counter-intuitive thing, if you try to achieve this mastery of attracting women, you will end up manipulating. If you master yourself, you won't manipulate. Read David Deida's book - The way of the superior man, it's no stage orange crap, trust me.

@Annoynymous Do nofap and work on yourself, embrace your feminine/masculine side more, do consiousness work, find a life purpose - be driven by it.

@VictorB02 I don't know if they are the right friends for you, if you are a high-achiever... But it still seems that you have some inner problems, as if you were anxious or something... Try looking for that.

@Rilles Same here...