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@LiakosN Yes, actually physically dangerous, but I don't know, if it's true or not... I mean, anything is physically dangerous if you do too much of it, right, but some things should be especially taken care of. What do you think @Leo Gura ?

@okulele That's interesting. I feel like I am running away from these problems. I usually do my own thing, then they ask me to come, but I am too lazy to come, and when I come they usually argue, shout or discuss meaningless topics, that they don't even understand. I should probably take the responsibility onto myself.

I actually heard from my friend who tried it and did a bit of research on it, that it can be a bit dangerous, is that right or just a hoax?

@brugluiz Go watch some David Goggins and then try to whine Suffering to growth is a good and exciting way to develop yourself After you discover the helplessness of the ego, you will find that discipline and pain feel 100 times better than laziness and boredom.

Your arguments are still based on assumptions, you cannot see a star infinitely far away, just as you cannot see a sign that is 50 km away from you, it's too far, basic physics. Black is not a visual mistake. You see black if there is no light basically. I fell that you include more emotion in this than I do, observe yourself. If we were 1 thousand years ago in the past, I could say that the fact, that the Earth is flat, is an educated guess, now I would look like an idiot, you never know, when science could be wrong.

@okulele It's a nice idea, I like it, but I cannot imagine, that my parents and brother won't discuss these points after the discussion... They just care TOO much about what others think. They give up their emotional health for their quality of life easily... Can this make the problem even worse or do you think that it can solve it?

@Ali123 Try it and see

Your arguments stand on assumptions, you cannot know

Who said that the Universe is covered in stars? Even if it wasn't, there could be an area without stars... The stars could also be so far away, that the light that is coming to you hasn't yet arrived...

@okulele That's a great idea, but it will be hard to make it work. I actually don't feel like talking with them at all, but it is probably worth to try at least once... Maybe I don't enjoy their company because they have always been there and I take them for granted? It just popped up in my mind... What exactly do you talk about? Do you ever say what you dislike about the others? Do you discuss the problems? Are you trying to be 100% honest and direct in the conversation and say everything you think?

Try doing 14 cold showers a week

@Eric Tarpall You actually care so much, but you are resisting it, you don't face your fear. What resists, persists. Try journaling.

I started journalling today and I am pulling up all this dark shit from myself. Thanks for advice, I am just a liar.

@Sahil Pandit That's probably quite accurate. Well, I need to solve my own shit first... Is there a way for me to get what I want without making them feel like bad parents?

Why would you want to surpass them?

@Michael569 Hm... I see. Maybe I am still not completely healthy. My doctor prescribed me the stool testing by the way, so I will get more insight about my guts. My blood testing went really well, there are probably almost no other problems in my body.

But striving for perfection is also a trap. You can become excellent at your field, contribute society, but by craving perfection, you will go mad, there is always someone, who is better than you at something.

@Michael569 I started eating less sugar and I immediately started feeling better, I am probably almost healthy by now I will still see the nutritionist and do the testing if necessary, but it's getting good again quickly

@Aquarius Men on these sites don't work like that unfortunately.

@Aquarius This is like going around a playground, telling children that the Santa doesn't bring them any presents Also you cannot really generalize. It's just kind of obvious, that men on chatting sites usually want sex. You cannot really have any high expectations there sadly A regular person has a huge ego and when it's a rational man like this one, he will want you to love only him, there are probably almost no exceptions there. Nowadays, telling people about this stuff is an easy way to repel them. (I've tried it myself, it doesn't help, it does exactly the opposite - think about counter-intuitiveness, the Universe isn't linear!) I understand that it's hard to grasp, even sad maybe, but you cannot really disagree with reality

@d0ornokey I will do it

If I have an intestinal problem (which makes sense from what my doctor and you were saying), what should I eat/avoid?

@Michael569 Ok! I can afford it probably, my mum told me, that she can buy it for me on Christmas I will also check out the videos...

@Michael569 Probably like an hour or two, it depends on how much I eat. @d0ornokey She is definitely unaware from what I've heard

@Salvijus I wouldn't eat it, but I now know, that I cannot eat fruit as the first meal, because the fruity acids damage my stomach. (my problem now) I wanted to do that, but my dad told me to forget about intermittent fasting, he doesn't know what it is, but says, it's a scam. He claims that you need to eat 4 times a day to keep the stomach running, because it needs to run all the time. Also, my doctor prescribed me Hylak forte, which has to be taken 3 times a day before or during food, so I probably shouldn't mess that up... I am quite confused really @Hellspeed Breathing definitely helps me I do a breathing exercise regularly and I can feel the difference. I already take chlorella and quite a lot of garlic in my meals. @Michael569 Actually, I don't know exactly. I just know that it!s been caused by me eating too much fruit in the morning, which damaged my guts and then I ate out for quite a lot of time, because I had absolutely no time to prepare my food, nor did my parents (we are repairing the house), so that was quite a bad combination. Also my doctor said, that it's nothing that serious, and told me to get a blood test, but I still didn't get its results. When is it ok to fast then? I feel like I have been asking about diet for a long time, but I haven't experienced any stomach problems till now (I could always eat more than my friends and be ok), but only when I experienced this pain, I have enough motivation to do some change... I just don't know what change, because after this fail, I am quite scared to experiment.