bejapuskas

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  1. @saffron Just by copycating Leo, you won't get anywhere. You are too affraid to go deep, drop that.
  2. @Aeris Notice how unconscious you are while fapping.
  3. @CreamCat See how you are still falling into this trap of your ego. You want to be right, you want your model to work, you want to act on it to become something better. This mirrors the person who came up with this model. Accept yourself as you are, love yourself like a child. Saying: I have to become this and only then will I be happy - is dysfunctional bs. If you love yourself, you will naturally go in the direction of things that are good for you, your mind will be more free...
  4. @Shaun Hey I am glad that you feel better already. I just want to show you, that thinking, that we are all God, is still a dualistic thought. Because you think that you and me are separate. And also you and God are separate. You are just discovering the helplessness of the ego. It wants to claim Enlightenment, it wants to think it is Enlightened. But this is still duality. Even if you meditate, while expecting Enlightenment to happen to you in the future, it is still a trap in the end. Enlightenment is here and now, it is as it is. This pride and wanting to achieve is holding you back Also, don't use psychedelics as an escape, Leo said this in his foundational video about psychedelics. I haven't done them myself, but it just seems to me like exactly the same pattern as porn addiction or overeating... Feel free to dm me, if you feel down
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  6. Just don't overthink it. I was on this socializing event in Germany and I was practicing this approaching, because there were so many people and each of them had their own unique story, so I really wanted to hear them all. I went to a table of 10 people and told this girl: Hey, you look like Hermione. But actually, when I look closer, your eyes are Harry's mother's. Then I escalated that joke like 5 more times and everyone was laughing. It was just a random thing, I didn't really think about it, just saying what comes to my mind. I am in contact with all the people there till today.
  7. Then try to find that love, it is closer than you think. In fact it is right here, you just don't get it It is certainly healthy to work on yourself like that, but if you are doing it out of this motivation, I don't know how far you can actually go. I mean, are you trying to be happy or perfect?
  8. I mean, if you actually read this advice, it is kind of valid, but still, it is really hard to fall into the ego trap and start using it as some sort of judging tool. @lmfao He means that for example Sadhguru has more well developed beige than some fat guy who is sick all day. I understand the second point like that it is kind of harder to for example run a business, if you don't have a supportive family or some other safe place to go when you burn out or something like that... It is not literal, but if you take it with a grain of salt, it can make sense, at least for me.
  9. @NoSelfSelf It still sounds better than stalking though
  10. @LoveandPurpose Escaping wage slavery will require discipline, you can train discipline by getting good grades
  11. @CreamCat Are you developing yourself out of love or out of striving to be the best?
  12. @Aeris What are you even talking about...
  13. Just start it, it isn't weird, I do that all the time when I go to a new place If you think it is weird, it will be weird though.
  14. @Aeris Why do you judge them like this? Aren't you still a slave?
  15. Don't get deluded by the devils, but also don't judge them, as judging doesn't lead to any growth on your side
  16. Good, but don't forget to keep training yourself to be able to contribute others better and to have a sharper mind when needed. Also be careful not to become addicted to that stuff you're taking.
  17. @Aeris One of the best things it gives you is, that you are no longer a slave of your cravings.
  18. @Vitamine Water Yeh, that might do the trick
  19. It is very interesting, how one's confidence with the language they are speaking at the moment can affect their behavior so bigly. (I love that word Heard it for the first time here, thanks ) I've seen this quite attractive Italian girl, who you would assume is confident, but she only was when speaking Italian! She became a completely different person when she was speaking English with me.
  20. @Salvijus Everything is very simple, when you get it. The problem is to find it Sometimes it is hard for us to go back in time and feel the other person's struggle.