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This sounds really accurate, could you please elaborate more on that specifically?

Hey dude, I struggled with this same problem too in the past. Fortunately, I have many friends who have healthy manifestations of the higher colours and they helped me solve it. I will try to divide this into points of possible... I dont know if this is going to work for you, but I hope I can help At the time, I was also very much concerned with the development of the people around me and I only wanted to hang around with tier 2 people. I also used to preach spiral dynamics to people who seemed to be interested. (they actually were not, but my mind was projecting things) One of the many advices was to stop building these castles in the sky, stop thinking about things so much, clean up my information intake, ignore confused people, rather than coming up with theories that I created from my observations every single day, watching all sorts of wierd youtube videos and talking to selfish people... I had to let go of this stuff. This other thing that I learned was to stop trying to fix the lower tier people. Stop thinking, that they are interested in your complex problems and contemplations, stop assuming, that they want to grow without ever having to suffer, stop pretending that you are so interesting. I don't know if this is your problem, but be open to the possibility, that there is some reason for this mainstream, it is not all that corrupt, there are many things that you can learn from ordinary people, sometimes they can spot some bullshit that you are unable to find. Seriously, don't disrespect them. I also learnt, that the thing that Leo says about yellow, that it is a lone wolf, doesnt really apply to me. I enjoy laughing with friends, having meaningful conversations, setting up all sorts of meetings and going after growth opportunities, which are associated with people. Try talking to the chefs at the restaurants you go to, try being warm towards people right of the bat when you meet them, it really helps. Don't make this „enthusiasm“ into an excuse to not talk to people, that is not healthy in many cases. I don't really know you, but I actually didn't have any of this enthusiasm, when I was basically lonely. Question your teachers, dont take all the things they say for granted, think for yourself, become more feminine, flowing and authentic. Discipline yourself, be consistent in the work. Be radically honest to yourself about the real work that you are doing and about its results, without that you cannot move forward. Observe everything, try to learn from it, stop seeing imperfection in other things, but rather in yourself. Huh, this is getting kind of long, I hope I've helped you at least with some things...

I love you guys ?❤

Hey bro, I see you are pretty confused. There are no „3 ways“ to live life, there are infinite possible ways and you don't have to only choose one, but you can change your path throughout your life. Actually, as you grow, your thinking will change, your attitude towards life will change and your path will change also, therefore growth is not linear, but exponential. But even if everything goes as you expected it to go, your ego will not be satisfied. When you watch a move and you can preditct how it ends, it kinda sucks, right? I am not saying, that you should just ignore everything and let go of everything, this alone will only create more problems. You have to investigate, what works for you. (maybe this is part of the path) If you put a selfish person, a person with lots of beliefs and prejudice about how life should be, into heaven, they wouldn't be satisfied, even if it was literally the best place.

Lately I've been watching some of Sadhguru's content. He seems like a really legit guy, I am fond of him, but sometimes what he says really confuses me It isn't like it triggers me, but I just don't know what he means and I wanna explore further, learn more. An example would be this video: How can you evolve like this? What are these chakras in the body, that are influenced by the Solar system? And all these other things... Have some of you guys tried to dig deeper into this topic? I am curious....

@Chi_ Thanks! This is exactly what I was looking for haha I will probably invest in some of these programmes.

@Devansh Saharan If you see Sadhguru on the road, kill him

Oh yeh, I still sometimes use it, but there are so many areas of development, which are outside spiral dynamics and you cannot describe anyone properly just by using perentages of colours... even if you took the tones and shades into consideration, it would still be pretty imperfect.

Do you really need that information? I mean, you cannot write it on your portfolio or anything, like I am 50 % green, 20 % yellow, 30 % orange... what's the use of this? Aren't you just trying to be superior to the other colours? I think it is much more useful to orient yourself towards joy, love and fearlessness.

LMAO

Definitely keep doing inner work and stuff like that, only working on career is half-assing life, there is so much more to get. What is good and what is success are relative things, go find it yourself

@Ferdi Le Yeh, there definitely is a difference

Just don't do something really stupid ok? I am affraid at this point.

Disciple: Master, does a dog have Buddhahood? Master: Mu Disciple: What does that mean? Master: Only cows have Buddhahood.

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Yeh exactly, he seems much more authentic now. I can't even watch some of his older videos because it is just hilarious honestly

Me as well, I use chrome.

I think Central Europe is pretty cheap to study in. For example Czech and German citizens have university for free, until they are 26 years old. I think we only pay for law schools and medicine... But you don't want to study that, right? I have many foreign friends who study here, because of the price... They are mostly from Asia (Japan, China, Taiwan, Korea...), but I am aware of some Middle Eastern and Arabic people as well!

Wow, this thread is so interesting, thank you for contributing! This! You can become so much more free, if you free yourself from prejudice and assumptions. I know it's a lot easier to do here in Europe, than it is to do in Syria, but I think you can still do it. You are one of the strongest people I've met Sidra

If you say, that you are spiritually bypassing and still doing it, that is a serious problem. Get rid of the victim mentality and just get straight to the work. That's how overcoming certain things often works.

I can relate a lot, I am also working on getting over my past relationships. I think that the problem is often the lense, through which you see your ex, you don't really know him that well. You seriously need to fill that void yourself, because if you don't, it will just keep growing and growing. People want to accept your love, not just have their love sucked out into your blank space.

Leo should make a video about this! ?❤ Stay strong! (sorry for no advice) I will try to think about this though, when I will have nothing better to do. (most of the time)

How come I'm not already Enlightened then? Nope, it's just my surname... sorry to disappoint you Porno mustache maybe, but 80's haircut no

Nah, but actually, a person thought, that I am Indian yesterday.

No you're not, my generation also knows this song, we sang it on a birthday party 8 years ago. I am old too!