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@Keyhole Thank you for this
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@How to be wise What is you is not static, you can work on your weaknesses. I've said everything I wanted here.
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bejapuskas replied to rnd's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
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@Michael569
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@JustThinkingAloud Yes, but people cannot become nuclear engineers just by googling stuff, that's kind of what happened at Chernobyl. And also there are useful things that they *can* (not saying all schools do that) teach you at school (not saying you cannot teach yourself, but very few people do that) like languages (try communicating with a stranger using google translator), politics, psychology, money management, counting, history, geography...
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@Keyhole Good one! @theking00 Death note is also one of my favourites.
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Your approach is fear based, because you are affraid of working. You struggle with it, because your teaching style is not functional. Why do you even argue for something, that doesn't work well? These kids lack discipline, which they will need later on in life. Sure, they can learn a lot through socializing, but they already do a lot of that out of school. They seriously need to be more grounded. These kids that you are talking about play video games, watch porn, eat junk food, gossip etc... they won't do the work if you let it all collapse on them. They are not interested, because you aren't interested, you don't even bother with trying to understand them, you just ask them. What does it feel like, when some of your friends cannot read your face and has to always ask you about your mood, isn't that terrible? This is exactly the same thing, it is not some tier two turquoise level teaching style, drop it. I also thought it is very enjoyable, but it is only a distraction, you can actually enjoy it even more if you put in the work, that is necessary. It is not like if you tell someone to do something, it is „low consciousness manipulation“. If what you are saying makes sense for the students, they will be glad to do it, but you need to know that you understand what you teach, that you are a relatable and funny person and you are interested in them. For example in language you can show them all the similarities between words from different language groups, you can show them how they can make useful phrases and sentences, you can even have like a conversation circle about a topic that they choose. In maths you can give them interesting problems (there are many on youtube) with creative solutions, in civics you can talk about how to create a budget, talk about different philosophies, teach them how to think for themselves, question the constitution, in history you can debate how has everyday life changed, you can find some interesting facts from that time, in physics you can do all sorts of crazy things, that are relatable, like what would happen if you fall inside an elevator etc... You know, I am not just making all this up, but we actually do these things at school and I would say that 90 % of my class (sorry but you just cannot satisfy everyone, but at least they don't make any mess but stay quiet) are interested in further education. I mean, we weren't before, but now we really see the meaning in it and want to work on our intellect, it's not just black and white stage orange brain washing. I am actually 1st year of high school, so I don't even have to go to school, but I go there, because I want to. But my teachers are good at making me interested, that's the trick. And if you think, that by only playing with them, deepening their lack of discipline, you will achieve great things for them... I mean, think about this problem.
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@How to be wise When you give them choice, they start thinking you have nothing to offer, they won't come I'm affraid.
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@flowboy I've said everything I wanted
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@Bryanbrax Japanese word for anime means all of animated movie, so Disney is also anime, Amerika no anime
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@How to be wise Sure, but you aren't giving them anything.
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@Antonius Yeh right. It's a pity that some animes have this old-fashioned animation style that repels young people like me. They're like treasures with masks.
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@How to be wise They don't know what they want from themselves, they are usually suffering. They have too much play time at home (computer games) and they don't know where is the way out. This thing that you are preaching is a victim mindset. You also wouldn't know the way, if Byron Katie hasn't shown you. Also for example Leo couldn't show us some of these more advanced and more interesting things, if he was just letting us vote for whatever video he will shoot next week... Also he wouldn't be so enthusiastic about it.
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@Shaun Reality wants from you the exact thing that you do, that's the trick. @flowboy Be careful with giving advice, when you have no experience.
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@How to be wise I come from a stage blue family, but it isn't like they force me to do religious work at home, I don't even know what that is... And even if I was forced to do it, it's not like it takes 8 hours or something like that. I would drop this kind of spiral dynamics thinking, to me it seems like you just don't want to put the effort into it. Also I don't think that stage orange kids want to learn more, because they are sometimes fans of people like Tai Lopez and they rebel against school, when they can use it to their advantage. To me it sounds like you haven't put enough effort into the classes, because it is a conscious behavior for you, and hus the kids don't even know what more complex things are, you are there to show them, they won't do it themselves.
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You can always become a trans-parent if you want Michael
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@How to be wise They are already forced to go there, if you then also force them to think about what they will do at school, that is just worse. It's like you go to a birthday party of your friend with high expectations and they ask you: So guys, I have no food, nothing to drink, nothing prepared to do, so what are we gonna do? that sucks right. That is the same case with school. If you just go there and start teaching something that is meaningful, interesting, relatable and you do it in a funny manner, that will bring better results in my opinion. Even the people who normally don't pay attention usually like these kind of teachers.
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@Monkey-man Huh that's some observation... I totally missed that-tebayo!
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@How to be wise I disagree, that's not how a conscious teacher looks like, that's more like lazy teacher who does no preparations for the lessons. I also thought like this, but it is just nonsense, you rapidly loose all the respect from the kids and they won't even listen to you later on. You cannot really think, that they are on the same mental level as you with all the interests... Some of them probably haven't even kissed yet, they are newbies to life. You need to show them what is interesting. Sometimes they actually know so little about the topic, that they cannot even form a good question, you see?
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Guys I am kinda lost, when you talk about conscious teachers, what exactly do you mean? Why would they fire them? I have no experience with this.
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@Bryanbrax Yes (in some episodes there is depth to it though)
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@How to be wise Maybe they are not motivated to learn because you don't take this approach? I am not saying you're wrong, just throwing out ideas... Here are some good teachers I found on youtube, by the way I hate physics, but I watched the entire video Also it is not like people don't want to learn in general, like you could give an exact number, but they actually have their teacher favourites and their grades differ a lot from subject to subject, they are very unmotivated in one subject, but very curious in another...
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On a second thought, there is no profundity in Goblin Slayer
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@nistake These look amazing, you really read me well hahahaha I was kind of scrolling the list and reading all the text, while being amazed by each of them... And then I realized, that when you are asking yourself deep questions and are looking for serious answers, you see depth in literally everything. For example Mirai Nikki is an anime that you can watch for 2 reasons: 1) You have a crush on Yuno or 2) You see all the different survival strategies and how they interact and how incredibly complex and profound it is....
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@Shaun Try watching some Sadhguru, he can show you how to become joyful and loving without Enlightenment