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I don't think you love something because it is perfect, but rather it is perfect, because you love it. I am talking about love here, not attachment, these are very different things.

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@zeroISinfinity Oh yeh I sometimes feel super insane We should share some stories about insanity here

@Marinus I feel you, a good exercise is to realize the difference between attachment (probably the case with your ex) and love. If you truly love someone, you know it, it's like totally different. It's pretty much the same as selflessness combined with understanding and compassion, you treat the person with care and you want the best for them.

@Preetom Sent to all the people who think I am addicted to hentai ?

@OctagonOctopus You were always doing the thing you wanted

@Preetom Omg you are the man!!!! I needed this for a very specific situation ??

@Ampresus I don't know how dogmatic they are or how much they love you, but you can accept them and love them and then it all becomes easier and maybe they will respect your meditation practice. I did exactly this and it's working better than ever

@Ampresus Do you think your parents love you?

@Shaun Winning the lottery is one of the worst things that can happen to you statistically

+1, do this while you are meditating as well Be aware of the thought stories you're telling yourself, be aware of attachment

Putting in more love and acceptance helps

@Ampresus Where are you on your vacation if you're willing? Can you not go by yourself to like a nearby forest to sit and meditate there? If you are really suffering, you should give it a chance @Charlotte What do you mean?

@Ampresus Yes, all bullshit. You feel some unpleasant sensation in your body and you make up a whole story about that sensation, but it is just a feeling. That feeling is telling you, that you are lying to yourself. I need psychedelics to grow properly is another lie. (even though it can help) Do you meditate regularly?

@Ampresus You something that's not aligned with the Truth, what is the lie you are telling yourself about yourself?

@Amy Irene If I was a stage green and above guy, where would I go?

Do you feel deep suffering, when you indulge in these activities? If you are anything like me, you probably do. Sometimes you just have to take a small break from the work and just observe how the „normal“ life feels. I finally realized how all this unconsciousness and addiction is not enjoyable at all, but for some reason this pain seems less obvious than for example putting your hand inside a fireplace, so they keep doing it. Study your emotions, they are trying to tell you the truth Actually I was this person who can grab attention very easily, but it still feels like you aren't whole, you have to constantly keep grabbing attention of the people around you, it's like addiction basically. Detachment is the real deal. When you start to suffer less, you will become more interested in people's stories and looking into someone's eyes will feel like staring into the center of the Universe. Try to see what makes you interested in someone and than ask yourself why are you not interesting for others. Usually the answer is selfishness. It's actually better than that - you ARE the space. When you just feel your emotions, without any stupid thought stories, you will see how that's true. It is easy to think that you are some ego struggling on Earth, but that is not alligned with the Truth, that's why it makes you suffer. You are just Infinitely Loving Being, that is whole, perfect and good enough, that's reality. You just feel like you are alone, but actually many people feel this way. When you are depressed, it makes you feel like you are the only one in this Universe feeling this way, but in fact, there are people who feel much worse than you or similarly to you. They just all are playing this social game of looking ok, but they are actually hiding some skeletons in their wardrobes. Feel free to send me a DM, I am close to your age so I feel like I can relate how this path feels like when you are a teenager. Much love! ?

@Rigel Of course, it's not like you become passionate and you can survive on breatharianism, but what I observe even on myself, that when I am really in a flow state, time goes by so quickly and I dont get hungry or thirsty, it is just one long period of joy without distractions.

@Aeris Idk man, I am not Enlightened, I just know many Enlightened people, there are a few on this forum, you can study their behaviors

@pluto They have some common traits for sure

@pluto I don't know if this is a joke, but don't you think that maybe some differences in neural connections in the brain might cause some individuals to be more inclined to one side or the other? I know this is highly dualistic, but what I observe is, that all Enlightened people I know are radically different, yet I couldn't say that one has a more truthful or authentic integration, it all seems very beautiful and profound.

@Raphael Good job!

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