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@Parththakkar12 You can achieve such level of emotional maturity that you'll realize that the only person who is abusing you emotionally is you. I mean, many people are low consciousness and abusive, but if you spend time with those people and get affected by them so easily, it also says something about you... There are many wonderful, interesting, loving people out there, you can just stop spending time with most others and still have a social life Have some respect to yourself.

@LoveandPurpose Learning from others is great, but you still need to gather your own experience and insights, otherwise you will get lost. If you just blindly listen to others and copy their behavior, that's useless. No real growth comes from that. Also some things are just impossible to take away from others you know. ❤

I have a similar experience, I used to have a crush on many girls at the same time, flirting with all of them, but then I noticed that it's creating a lot of mental mess and dishonesty, which aren't exactly my values, as they hinder growth. You have to decide this for yourself though.

Do you realize how absurd it is not to think for yourself?

@Leo Gura Have you met any extroverted, actively socializing seekers on your path?

The world is better than *you think*

@Bazooka Jesus why not?

@Nivsch When there is no challenge, no question in your perception, there aren't any chains that would bind you, nor anything you could do by yourself, not even yourself. And not even the question. It's quite silly how that works

I used to have a similar problem, guys are often communicating in a way in which they are just measuring their dicks, trying to say something cool all the time, come out on top as the strongest... Women are trying to relate, have fun, not take things so seriously maybe... Try to see how you can enjoy a conversation without being right, without showing of, without roasting someone, just don't take it so seriously There really is nothing serious about words in this context.

Gotta watch the documentary about him, I wonder why people talk about him so much Why are some of you guys so fond of him? I am curious

Your wife is a part of Everything, you cannot love Everything without loving your wife Separating your wife from Love is trickery.

There is also just a story of Leo Gura defining Love and God, Leo and his teachings aren't beyond story, though they might be useful in some way.

Wow, that's a perfect definition of what Enlightenment is! You got it! ...or did you?

Wow this is so interesting... What do you think is the main difference between kids and adults? I mean, healthy versions of these labels, by adult I don't mean someone who's inner child has died...

@Javfly33 I love you

@Javfly33 That's intense... But I guess there is a solution to it, right... But I think you have some sort of in-built shame of feeling happy or something, not even talking about losing your self / your mind. Why keep thinking about what this situation is like? Creating this thought story of Javfly33 living in a physical world, having this experience... the experience is much more full without you. Just give yourself up, you aren't winning this fight anyways. @Leo Gura Oh yeah I get you, I didn't think this through... Thanks @Marchino What are you not?

@Leo Gura Don't you think that thinking like: „It's going to be hell“ or „I will die, oh my God...“ etc... just makes it worse? (not talking about psychedelics right now, I don't have experience with them) I mean, yeh sure, there will be suffering, but thinking negatively only strenghtens it in my opinion.

oh yeeeh

@tenta idk what you resonate with, usually if you listen patiently, you can feel that depth in these animes and mangas... I like Mushi-shi

Of course there are high consciousness animes and mangas

Thank you, it has a beautiful depth to it

@Key Elements Yeh, it's incredible what kind of stories people create in their heads Very beautiful though... @Shin Happened to me once that I fulfilled multiple of my dreams on the same day, but then realized it's still ego... fuck...

@Nickyy If people understand that though is the real question, saying that means nothing

I mean, not that it's not beautiful, but it still produces suffering... I just realized how cold this sounds

Even having the perfect date with the girl of your dreams on your birthday is a joke compared to Divine Love