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@UnconsciousHuman Being called a dumbfuck in 3...

@UnconsciousHuman Get out of here already, you aren't doing yourself a favor by tolerating more lies. Hope your life goes well.

Also if you think this what I am doing is Love and this what I am doing is not Love is also a trap

I have some teenager friends who are highly conscious but they weren't born with this, they all went through a lot of suffering in many areas of their lives and then explored, questioned themselves and practiced meditation, yoga etc... regularly. You might say this suffering triggered their talent or something like that but then you could justify almost anything, don't let this discourage you, most people don't do the work that is needed and all they do is talk about concepts on Self-Actualization / Consciousness subforums. If they then also blame talent that's just bunch of shit. You have to be quite crazy to go through this though.

@Espaim Why do you think you fucked up?

@Billy Shears Is there any difference between speaking from your heart, speaking openly and speaking openy from your heart? I am not quite sure I get you on that one

@Espaim Don't worry there really is nothing to hide

@James123 Glad to see you here :))

Exactly. Why does speaking from your heart make you exhausted?

@Billy Shears You can't speak from your heart unless you become really spiritual, I am talking serious now, VERY VERY spiritual, you're probably gonna have to start wearing a robe and beeds, walking everywhere barefoot, eating vegetarian... If you don't do this you will never be able to speak from your heart.

@Kshantivadin So you think doing some alcohol, maybe weed, fucking hot chicks here and there, messing around a bit would help you? You would like to have that kind of experience, know what that is like in your lifetime?

Sounds like you are just creating a story, but that's ok

What are you struggling with in particular?

No need to be angry or anything, you are only adding more wood to the fire, just follow the sensation.

Remember you don't have to lie to them. Fuck white lies. They don't exist in this sense. Just speak what you feel, you can just politely say to them that you don't enjoy that activity. Whatever that is

@willen1995 Tune into your feelings and senses, you cannot speak what is true to you if you don't understand what that is. Be conscious of the lies you are telling yourself. (thought that makes suffering arise in you) If you are lost and unconscious, you cannot be honest in my opinion.

Yes, I think you already know the answer, I agree with what others said. Be yourself, be open and honest, if you have only 1 or 2 friends who are truly there for the authentic you, that can be very rewarding. Contemplate on why do you want to have deeper conversations? How does a deep conversation with you? I wonder where it will point to.

@ethanb121 I sent you a dm, feel free to contact me

https://www.twitch.tv/videos/608182380

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UClHVl2N3jPEbkNJVx-ItQIQ Don't underestimate this guy because of his brand's name, he is a yellow-turquoise addiction psychiatrist, who studied at Harvard medical school for 2 hours a day by practicing yoga on concentration and meditated before studying, he understands both western thinking and approach, but he also talks a lot about Ayurvedic diet and psychology. He uses basic high school level psychology to explain important phenomena in our society. He claims that older psychiatrists and psychologists aren't good enough at healing modern mental problems, because they live in a totally different world and they don't have direct experiences with them. If you are struggling with uncertainty, addiction, identity problems etc... this channel is gold.

One bias I noticed in myself is the bias of needing to talk/think about Love. I think I identified deeply with Leo and then wanted to enlighten others all the time by talking to them about Love, but actually it has the opposite effect, it throws me into unconsciousness, demotivates others (most of the time) and keeps me away from actually listening to people around me and staying present. Thinking is the same, only done inwardly. ?

A yellow value is also understanding the lower stages

@Natasha I don't know, it's just that sometimes people write you... That's about it

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