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@Raptorsin7 Bro I don't think this works. I have a couple of friends who rely on psychedelics and they are just becoming miserable. Quality over quantity, if you wanna continue with psychs, don't try to take them often and think like it will make things better if you do that, listen to your feeling what it says, what works for you. I don't think experience or change of state helps ever, there needs to be further growth and learning.

Please guys actually study something about history and think about it before you write on here. You have so many ideas and you overlook many things.

No I don't think this is a victim thread either.

Exactly. Don't feel ashamed to take even multiple years off, or just never do psychedelics again, you are not obliged to trip. You can do whatever you want yourself to do. Some people I know trip or used to trip almost every week and they do not find it that beneficial.

@Blackhawk I don't know, maybe you can say that the majority of women in Sweden have more power, but then there is Islam, eastern religions, castes, arranged marriage, patriarchy, that is far more wide spread than gender equality.

That doesn't prove absolutely anything.

confirmation-bias

It all depends on your cultural context. For example in Bangladesh women definitely do not have more power in private life. It is easy to say all this when you are from northern Europe.

The truth is not only sweet or good in in the relative sense. You are just confusing yourself and others by saying you are not God and whatever else. You will not find your answers with this kind of black and white thinking. Is there only external reality and you observing or are you a part of that reality? Are your eyes reality's eyes? There can be this fear, but then you can also fear being only infinite and not being able to explore yourself as a finite being or being able to create your own life as a finite being etc. I don't know if I am making any sense to you now, but that's what I suspect the op was experiencing.

Please don't discuss drug trafficking here, not allowed.

It is not like you can cure someone's pain, it is usually better to just take distance don't you think. It is also often necessary to cause pain. Or how do you look at it?

@Displayname1 Lmao have kids just to send them away. Now that I got this reproduction business over with, what's next? Jk maybe you didn't mean it like that.

@Javfly33 Bro that's always been the reality, what's your problem, stop imagining things!

@Javfly33 Good job, now you finally feel capable x) Happy to see that. That's the truth about you. I'd say go for whatever you want, but then for some people it might not be worth to make someone else cheat. I mean you might say that if the girl feels lonely with her boyfriend if he just goes out of town for a short time she deserves and he also deserves better and it is moral to cheat or whatever, you might argue like this. But I get that for some people this doesn't work, they become like super agitated. Even with psychedelics, some people might do them illegaly and then just have this placebo fear of police, thinking they will get them or some shit like that, it can be unpleasant. But I guess you know whether you are that kind of person now. And I guess you can certainly become both. @Leo Gura Have you ever tried dating in countries where sex is a taboo topic?

@Javfly33 Right I see. So basically you value feeling good very highly? But you are trying to seduce a hot girl and see how it feels having sex with her. Which implies you do not know how it will feel in the end. It is very easy to project that it will feel good, but than that doesn't have to be true. I mean it can be true, but then that also depends. I guess you know that though... I mean I could just tell you that you can be physical with a really hot girl, hold hands, kissing, sex, whatever. And it doesn't have to feel good. There are more important things, like connection. And I am not telling you this without experiencing it, it's not just some omg this girl is shit compared to my pseudo-orgasmic, even orgasmic awakening state kind of advice. I mean sure you are a guy and physical contact with another person, girl or a guy, can give you these biological benefits and make you feel better no matter the individual, but the emotional factors are impossible to ignore. I cannot say that all physical contact is always good, because there are scientifically proven physiological benefits to it, such as the release of oxytocin. (e. g. rape, also actually holding hands with a guy non-romantically can also have physiological benefits!) I guess you are like this seeker who has to learn everything by themselves and I get that. It seems kinda appealing and it definitely makes you understand things better. But still pay close attention to what you are actually doing. It is very easy to miss this when you are thinking.

What is it that you are really trying to achieve here? I think it is often useful to make sure you are not trying to achieve the impossible, that which doesn't resonate and feel good. For example - this girl will get me happiness but I can never get her - I can never get happiness. These things don't feel good because they are not true. Perhaps you have some deeper ideas about what relationships are that are keeping you from staying grounded in good reality.

Right hmmm... People only care about punishment and not prevention. Labeling people criminals and locking them up doesn't solve any issue. It's not like all of them will get caught and even if they will, the killers will live in rooms with rapists and thieves etc. 'I teach you how to kill, you teach me how to steal.' Maybe the government would find more white people who possess weed if they tracked Actualized.org followers

@dflores321 I hope you didn't interpret what I said as 'you shouldn't approach girls'. I just wanted to say that compassion helps. @Javfly33 I agree with what aurum said. It seems to resonate with you too You got it bro.

You can also say: But then compassion feels good oftentimes. Actually better than being a victim of your dick.

@Username Well some people for example do not look at girls even when they are attracted to them, because some women struggle with being approached and liked by too many guys and they simply cannot handle this. They don't enjoy being looked at you know. And there are many of these women. You can give up some of your momentary pleasure for this purpose. I mean, it is not easy and all I get you, just stating the counter-point.

@No Self There are also white criminals you know. There are more white criminals than black criminals. Also there are not only muslim people who kill other people, there are also christians who do terrible things. But the media is just biased that they do not show this to us. They mainly focus on the things that are the most racist and xenophobic etc. Innocent people suffer from this and events that are much more important and more people die during them are not looked at by the media, because they do not affect the West.

I can move this to the Government and Politics if the OP doesn't have a reason to keep it here

@AMTO You can be with a person who is rationally above average and still the sweet feelings go away. It is not in that.

I wonder why you believe this.

@Keyhole Thank you Keyhole! I appreciate your help