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I think its ok to decline. Accepting the task would probably be an unhealthy stage green behaviour. Or maybe she is an exploitative person, you never really know, maybe I am wrong.

@Paulus Amadeus It definitely isnt all black and white, I feel like I am in a halfway there. It might be a good challenge, but honestly, I probably have more important things on my schedule. People come and go, you cannot really be with one 24/7 + you will gradually need more and more satisfaction. And pure being without distraction is better than a date for me haha. I am not that affraid of girls. Its just that I dont feel the need to get them to date me. It took me about 2 evolutionary psychology books and 5 videos on Actualized.org to realize its nothing for me anymore. What did you learn about yourself when getting better with girls? In what ways did it improve your life?

@Michael569 Good! Gonna check that guy out, thanks for your recommendation! Do you think I can copy some of his recipes, but in lower quantity, as I am smaller guy than him?

@XYZ Leo really helped me get over my stage blue and orange belief issues I guess.

@Feel Good Yeh, I feel great on these days. I dont use supplementation, but I know that when I get some smoothie (more than you said usually, because my brother and dad dont drink it), then oat meal with nuts and berries/fruits and in the evening I can eat something like beans with vegetables and salad... Good to know I am on a good way.

@RabbitHole Thanks buddy, I wish the best of luck to you as well!

@Paulus Amadeus @Shadowraix Of course, relationships are must have for most people. I am looking and it from an evolutionary and low-consciousness point of view. I dont know, if there is more to intimate relationships, than just pleasure. I definitely dont know everything about them, I am honestly pretty bad with girls.

@Feel Good That sounds yummy, I am actually pretty close to that, if we overlook the supplementation, on my ideal days, when I feel good!

@RabbitHole I feel you man, regret is one of the worst feelings out there. I wanted to become a ninja or a wizard when I was smaller haha. Thats a good insight, thanks man! I like teaching people, maybe I should be a coach or a teacher of some kind then! Good teachers and coaches are rare, but I know a few that I absolutely love.

@ajasatya Thats good for you! Do you actually feel like its worth doing until you retire?

@smokeyJoe What do you mean?

@ajasatya I will probably do more contemplation and enlightenment work every day. I also want to add exercise. Do you have any idea on how to utilize school breaks? Did you try Wim Hof method by the way? It really does things for me.

@ajasatya Thats probably ok as long as you like your job right... I also dont have any crazy desire for money, I just feel like a casual job is too time consuming and you are just surrounded with negative people and crazy distractions all the time there in most situations. What are your opinions on your current job? That guy must have trained a lot haha... I am probably looking for a way too easy solution, although its just the issues stated above on my side... I am not really looking for building a huge investment company.

@Spiral You are probably right, I should care about my family and friends more... I could absolutely imagine my life being in the mountains with friends, breathing fresh, studying advanced topics... Maybe my opinion will change. I just remember someone advising me to wipe out all the negative motivations out of my life and it really feels great. I just see too many toxic relationships, had been in one myself... There are probably different types of people, some need it, some do not.

@ajasatya Thats right, hours of hard work. Do you have a business? What do you do / What would you do if you were my age?

@ajasatya @YogiLogan Actually, which habits did you mean?

@ajasatya @Brayanwangulo Thanks for responding! I should probably reinforce my skills in order to make use of them, as my hobbies include things like drawing and language learning... I have a friend who is around 20 and already started a company, he could probably help me out. I just dont like manipulating people, thats an issue by itself...

@Spiral Do you think its ok to live a lonely life? I have no urge to date or anything, it kind of feels like a needy behaviour and it always gets boring after time... I mean, every pleasure is chemical after all. I have had a few relationships already and as I am looking back sometimes, it feels so unhealthy. Maybe I am wrong...

@ajasatya @YogiLogan Thank you for replying! Well, maybe i am not that kind of newbie... I have experienced PTSD before, so I was trying to improve my life, looking at all those „youtube gurus“, going in and out of the serious work, couldnt really feel the benefits. After that I got my eyes opened a bit more and disposed of most of the negative motivations, trying to judge and gossip, even meditated and took cold showers for a few weeks, but then our house started to get reconstructed and theres so much noise I cant really focus on anything... I probably put the question wrong, I am watching Leo SERIOUSLY (taking notes, contemplating, re-reading) for about 2-3 months, but am trying to get back, as I lost the track...

@Feel Good @RabbitHole Thanks for replying! I cannot really define what I eat on my average day, since my family doesnt really care about diet that much and I dont have money myself to buy stuff. (15 years old at grammar school) I am also just trying to break the bad eating habits, I am not like neck-deep in the process, but I think that I am more conscious of my body than an average teenage boy. I surely need less than you, I am about 6 feet tall and weight 65 kilos... The grains might help probably, yeah... One more thing I am concerned about is the B12 vitamin, it seems to pop out everywhere if you search for veganism. Is it really that much of a problem? Is it a problem to eat the same things every single day other than that I could have issues with being annoyed with the taste after few weeks?

@QandC Thanks for answering. I am interested in too many languages, especially in Asia. I love characters. But as I was meditating and doing self-inquiry, I realized, that I was just trying to impress people around me by knowing languages such as Japanese and Chinese. They are indeed very interesting, but my motivation was very negative most of the time. On the other hand, I feel like trying to study some ancient/dead language. I saw that idea when I was meditating one day, it just flew through my mind. But I dont feel any passion for that, so I dont think I could persevere. Hindi is also very atractive for me right now, because I like Indian food, Indian teachers and gurus (especially Sadhguru) and there are probably many great materials for learning. Thats just my point of view, I am open to other ideas and stories.

Hey everyone, I have 2 questions: 1) Is there any field, that might be useful to study at a university for self-actualization? 2) I have a big passion for languages, so I want to hear from you guys, if you have any positive experiences with languages making your way to self-actualized life easier. (you were able to read more or not miss some great events) Which were these languages?