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@Leo Gura @Key Elements Ok... I am still not clear about my life-purpose... I should definitely think about that. It is not like I am in some kind of crisis, as I am 15, already on a good way as I am starting to solve humangous amount of problems for me that seemed impossible to get rid of before. Does the country we live in have any considerable effect on self-actualization? I am not trying to be the typical person who wants to solve all problems by moving to Thailand or something, but I see there are many more opportunities, gurus and even better foods in other countries, (talking about ripe fruits, that are difficult to obtain where I live) that it kind of seems mad to me staying in Czech republic, where I cannot find anything that good.

@John Iverson There are probably more problematic things than social media. I think its a personal prefference, if you want to use them or not, but as other people are saying, you probably shouldnt use them 24/7. Just take it easy. I think your problem is, that you are hard stuck in the victim mentality, or you have a short term crisis. Its just that if something bad, yet small, happens to you, you feel like killing yourself. When you get a girlfriend or spend a good day with your friends, you feel like you want to live long. The problem is, if you stay in the victim mentality, being controlled by your ego and your hormones, you will never be satisfied. I dont know, where you come from, maybe US, maybe India, maybe some other country. But if you are focused on satisfying your ego, it will keep pointing out more problems and more „necessities“ and keep wanting more and more. If you are broke, you want money, if you have money, you dont want to loose the money, its the same kind of stress. If you live alone, you want friends, if you have too many friends, you want to be more alone maybe. If you are constantly overeating, you might want to eat healthily, but if you eat only healthy, your ego might want to convince you, that you should relax and hammer that ice cream at night. Do you see my point? I understand where you are, I have been there too, I lost my girlfriend, lost my friends, I felt like everyone is against me... Dude that bullshit, you should be grateful you are even alive at this point, many people die every hour, yet you survive, isnt that awesome? Try to raise your consciousness or watching some enlightened teacher on youtube, they might open your eyes, because „they are not in the system.“ Thats what has worked for me, maybe you have different needs to solve your depression. Just experiment, try out different paradigm, change your beliefs... By crying about yourself all the time, you will stay at the same point all the time, its called insanity.

@TheBeachBionic Your intelligence got hijacked by hormones

@Igor82 Can I ask you where do you buy your vegetables and fruits or how do you find a good one?

@Barry J Watch the videos on spiral dynamics, they are very eye opening!

@tashawoodfall Just watching or listening to an enlightened teacher on youtube can really make my mood a lot better, just absorbing their energy and love. Maybe this can be a temporary solution...

@beatlemantis Him being more passionate with other girls is not that surprising. I dont mean this like an insult, but its basically an evolutionary issue. Our psychologies are beyond our bodies and our bodies „think“ we are in the nature, building tribes and being alpha leaders. (talking about men) In every body, there is a selfish gene, which wants to be spread (reproduced) really badly and in as much quantity as it can. Basically, ego is built around the selfish gene. Therefore, if you are an animal, like human, you have the instinct to reproduce as much as possible, if it doesnt threaten his atractiveness or family. (which will kill of the other selfish genes) Theres a whole book named The Selfish Gene, I recommend you read it. It also explains why brothers and sisters care for each other (because, they have 50% selfish genes from each other) and why grandmas are so caring (because they cannot reproduce anymore most of the time, so they just want their genes to survive) and many more... Hope tis helps you understand your reationship. You staying with your boyfriend might be a fear of him not reproducing your genes as well...

@tashawoodfall Its just ego in panic-mode, your mind creates this reality... I have been to depression myself and got out of it this way.

@ExodiaGearCEO Leo has a great video on this - Awareness alone is curative and How to overcome addiction. You just need to raise your body and mind consciousness and if you do so, you wont be able to play anymore, it will seem deluded... It took me some time, but I dont play video gams for quite some time and I was for sure a hard addict with my brother and friends being also hard addicts, so I was hard stuck. Hope it works for you!

@tashawoodfall I felt exactly the same for some time, it really feels like shit. But then Sadhguru said, that we are creating all suffering and I am not sad anymore...

@Igor82 Ok! Thanks for some new perspectives, you inspired me to make another experiment, much appreciated man!

@Igor82 I was wondering how many bananas do guys like him and you actually eat... 25 isnt the number I was thinking about, it seems like too much, but maybe I can try it for a while... I tried to measure what you eat on cronometer, and here are som outstanding numbers: Manganese: 700 %, Copper: 500 %, B6: 1000 %, C: 900 %, A: 2600 %, K: 2700 %. I am not a nutrition expert, the other nutrients look kind of ok, but isnt this too much? Explain please.

@Ayilton Haha, youre funny. The books I read helped me understand what mistakes I was doing in my relationships. Some of them were Red queen, Selfish gene, The way of the human body... Really cool books! @DK092 I dont know man, I just feel like enlightenment work is giving me so much more value than a relationship. But maybe when I develop myself further, I will discover what are you talking about now... I used to be very needy, stage blue thinker, thinking that morals and loyalty will get me somewhere... Now I became more detached and I dont feel any desires anymore, which makes me want to continue doing this work.

Hey guys, Some of you were talking about reasons to date or get a girlfriend/boyfriend other than pleasure. What are these?

@Fuku Thanks for your recommendation! I also sometimes eat them, but they arent a must anymore... @Igor82 That video is very interesting! I personally feel the best when I eat just fruit in the morning and then when I eat other things, the good feeling kind of runs out... But as other people suggested, I tried to use cronometer, and it says that eating a lot of these can bring up some dangerously high numbers... (500 %) I am confused, can you advice me, what kind of numbers should I be looking for? What do you eat in a day? Do you follow this guy?

@Igor82 Thanks for advice man! Is there any food I could just eat every single day and not be defficient? (with the right supplements)

Hey guys, I am kind of new to Actualized.org and I am wondering, what should my daily enlightenment work habit look like? What did you guys do in the beginning?

@ajasatya I am planning to go to a retreat with a friend of mine. I am very excited, what does it actually do?

@RabbitHole @Michael569 @Feel Good Yeh... I just thought that he is very smart and obviously had sacrificed a lot of his time getting experience in his field. What do you guys think of Steven Gundry? I just stumbled upon him when watching videos on youtube.

@Paulus Amadeus Thats good for you, glad to hear that. I am probably just introverted, partying and having fun isnt actually fun for me... No need for a girlfriend either and I am still quite young. Thanks for sharing!

Hey guys, I am 15 and I dont get enough money to invest in myself and get all the good food to eat. Do you have any ideas on what I can do as a teenager to be kind of independent in that area? Parents are getting a bit nervous about all that money.

@Michael569 @Feel Good @RabbitHole What do you guys think about that guy from south of Africa, who does callorie restriction, one meal a day and veganism, all at the same time while performing well in body building? I have tried watching his videos, but my English isnt quite there to understand all the advanced terms. I dont know if he is legit, but he seems kind of similar to Wim Hof, who I admire.

I think its ok to decline. Accepting the task would probably be an unhealthy stage green behaviour. Or maybe she is an exploitative person, you never really know, maybe I am wrong.

@Paulus Amadeus It definitely isnt all black and white, I feel like I am in a halfway there. It might be a good challenge, but honestly, I probably have more important things on my schedule. People come and go, you cannot really be with one 24/7 + you will gradually need more and more satisfaction. And pure being without distraction is better than a date for me haha. I am not that affraid of girls. Its just that I dont feel the need to get them to date me. It took me about 2 evolutionary psychology books and 5 videos on Actualized.org to realize its nothing for me anymore. What did you learn about yourself when getting better with girls? In what ways did it improve your life?

@Michael569 Good! Gonna check that guy out, thanks for your recommendation! Do you think I can copy some of his recipes, but in lower quantity, as I am smaller guy than him?