bejapuskas

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  1. @sneha You will always be sad, without progress Do the work, Leo is telling you that in every video.
  2. I think you only got a part of the truth. If you stop creating the thoughts that make you suffer (its very possible, but hard to believe, I have actually experienced this kind of state), your pain will stop. Everything will just be. Nothing is beautiful or ugly, it just is. If you become more conscious of your body, you will start to take care of what you eat naturally and exercise more, which can result in improving your looks, but its not necessary for happiness.
  3. If you see manipulation from a certain perspective, you will see how deep it actually is. If you think, that you can also manipulate yourself, than non-manipulative state and doing nothing seem very similar... I dont know if they are the same though. Maybe doing nothing contains no manipulation.
  4. @Shadowraix Marriages dont hold together, because people have reasonless desires, which they are creating. You love at your level of consciousness, if your consciousness is low, your love is miserable and self-destructive and manipulative. Guess what most US citizens are like?
  5. @TheBeachBionic Just stop having the desire. You havent even experienced a desireless state yet, how can you say you dont want it? Think about what you are saying.
  6. @Caterpillar You are overthinking at this point. If you ARE emotionally stable, you dont have that desire! It becomes so natural, it isnt something that you must protect, its just there, you have to see it dude.
  7. @7thLetter I discovered that girls are more open - they tend to be green most of the time. I taught spiral dynamics to a group of friends, including a 13 year old girl. She got it excellently! I see her becoming stage yellow thinker in no time. Basically, any mature green/orange person is quite coachable in my opinion, but pure orange or a mixture of blue people are very stubborn most of the time. Even if you think, that the blue person trusts everything you say, they will just reframe it, put it in their mind, retransform it, so it agrees with their values and then continue smoking weed. I like teaching spiral dynamics to close friends, you just have to find the right close friends. I have many orange friends, which I just laugh with, they are great, but I wont tell them, they are not ready. Green people are a whole different story though! I plan to teach about spiral dynamics on a camp, as an optional activity. I am already discussing it with the big guys in Czechia, where I live. People who do scouting are green very often, so I dont think I will damage anyones mind or anything like that, but maybe I will have no choicce but to do some filtering of the group
  8. @Shin How old does your illusion of reality show me to you?
  9. @Leo Gura Leo! I experienced the no-desire, child-like state and went to watch your video: 10 things we dont know we want It was mentioned as the very first thing and I was so happy haha, its really worth pursuing over sex!
  10. @Igor82 I know you call it a challenge, but would be great if it would become your lifestyle you know
  11. @TheBeachBionic If you have it, you will have the same kind of fear, but from loosing your partner. This wont solve anything at all, go to the root.
  12. @Shin What do you mean brother?
  13. @TheBeachBionic I am telling you to stop labeling it as hideous and stop thinking that you need sex and dating. Watch this video:
  14. @TheBeachBionic Try mindfulness meditation and contemplation Also quit addictions and manipulative relationships.
  15. @Strikr Dude, your problem is, that you are trying to get rid of addictions at orange level consciousness! It doesnt work, you will suffer, its obvious! When you overcome the desire to fap and have sex, and all the other desires like complaining and whining, you will feel like a child again, everything will be magical and wonderful!
  16. You have to be open to the possibility, that one magic pill wont solve anything. You probably know the solution to your problem already, you just dont understand it and dont do any work.
  17. @TheBeachBionic Thats where self-acceptance and radical honesty can really make a difference. Having sex and dating is just sweeping the symptoms under the rug, go to the root cause!
  18. @7thLetter I am now working on transcending green and orange moving deeper into yellow. I am also helping my friends at school and hobbies to understand spiral dynamics, which gives me an opportunity to become a better public speaker. I am also thinking about becoming more independent every day, like cooking my own food, making some money myself etc... I am getting out of that group think quite nicely, hope you are too!
  19. @7thLetter Arent you affected negatively by group thinking? I might be wrong...
  20. @7thLetter Thats right. It all depends on what colour you are in. I am not falling for it anymore... Many people might and probably should to get away from their false beliefs.
  21. @7thLetter From some point of view, you might say that the more orange approach to business is unhealthy for society most of the time. I mean, it lowers their consciousness. If you dont need so much money and you are a minimalist, Leos approach might be just fine, it all depends on you
  22. @7thLetter I did not say that I blame these people. They are just manipulative to their audiences. They just get a bunch of orange people to watch their free content and then use the keywords to make them buy their products. Tai Lopez maybe makes many people read but Leo das more than that, just to a smaller group of people. Dan Lok and Grant Cardon are just money chasers from my point of view. That doesnt mean there is nothing to be learned from them!
  23. @Caterpillar Addictions arent bad, they are just destructive. If you have any kind of desire, it blocks of the possibility to become emotionally stable and independent.
  24. @Baz I am not saying that its a fact, but I am experiencing the same thing because of these reasons. I used to join meaningless conversations with adults (I am 15) but now I see through that bullshit and i rather meditate or use that time to teach people about SD etc...