bejapuskas

@Igor82 I know you call it a challenge, but would be great if it would become your lifestyle you know

@TheBeachBionic If you have it, you will have the same kind of fear, but from loosing your partner. This wont solve anything at all, go to the root.

@Shin What do you mean brother?

@TheBeachBionic I am telling you to stop labeling it as hideous and stop thinking that you need sex and dating. Watch this video:

@TheBeachBionic Try mindfulness meditation and contemplation Also quit addictions and manipulative relationships.

@Strikr Dude, your problem is, that you are trying to get rid of addictions at orange level consciousness! It doesnt work, you will suffer, its obvious! When you overcome the desire to fap and have sex, and all the other desires like complaining and whining, you will feel like a child again, everything will be magical and wonderful!

You have to be open to the possibility, that one magic pill wont solve anything. You probably know the solution to your problem already, you just dont understand it and dont do any work.

@TheBeachBionic Thats where self-acceptance and radical honesty can really make a difference. Having sex and dating is just sweeping the symptoms under the rug, go to the root cause!

@7thLetter I am now working on transcending green and orange moving deeper into yellow. I am also helping my friends at school and hobbies to understand spiral dynamics, which gives me an opportunity to become a better public speaker. I am also thinking about becoming more independent every day, like cooking my own food, making some money myself etc... I am getting out of that group think quite nicely, hope you are too!

15

@7thLetter Arent you affected negatively by group thinking? I might be wrong...

@7thLetter Thats right. It all depends on what colour you are in. I am not falling for it anymore... Many people might and probably should to get away from their false beliefs.

@7thLetter From some point of view, you might say that the more orange approach to business is unhealthy for society most of the time. I mean, it lowers their consciousness. If you dont need so much money and you are a minimalist, Leos approach might be just fine, it all depends on you

@7thLetter I did not say that I blame these people. They are just manipulative to their audiences. They just get a bunch of orange people to watch their free content and then use the keywords to make them buy their products. Tai Lopez maybe makes many people read but Leo das more than that, just to a smaller group of people. Dan Lok and Grant Cardon are just money chasers from my point of view. That doesnt mean there is nothing to be learned from them!

@Caterpillar Addictions arent bad, they are just destructive. If you have any kind of desire, it blocks of the possibility to become emotionally stable and independent.

@Baz I am not saying that its a fact, but I am experiencing the same thing because of these reasons. I used to join meaningless conversations with adults (I am 15) but now I see through that bullshit and i rather meditate or use that time to teach people about SD etc...

@Strikr Maybe you need to get rid of all the other addictions as well, such as complaining, procrastination, whining, overthinking, gossiping, social media, video games... The big picture understanding of this is important, in order to self-actualize, you need to first get rid of the shitty stuff, same with food you know... Your body burns energy to do these things, that couldve been spent on something meaningful to you instead...

@7thLetter It is really hard to provide so much value that the people just wont help themselves but buy your product, Leo does a good job at that in my opinion. He wont manipulate people to buying his courses like crazy, he first provides his knowledge and than mentions it in the part where most people stop the video. His content also isnt about hype and rational things that resonate with orange, blue and green people, which are the majority. They will only sell to people, that are willing to invest. If you compare this to someone like Tai Lopez, Dan Lok, Grant Cardone... they are just manipulators in my opinion.

@CreamCat Fapping and porn are one of the hard ones... You might want to take care of these first. Dont forget that some people are getting over even harder addictions.

@Baz Could this be the thing that Leo is talking about in his SD stage yellow video? The disconnectedness from family... He is also experiencing a similar thing in my opinion, even I am starting as I go deeper and deeper into yellow.

@8Ball Took me dozens of those no fap periods to get used to it. I did fapped like every 5 days, while increasing my consciousness through certan practises and perspectives and then the feel of it started becoming worse and worse. I even gave it up after 30 days, was very guilty. But no worries, if you arent conscious enough, its just suffering to hold yourself back I think.

I discovered that just by loving myself, I become like 10 times more attractive for girls, they are just writing me messages on facebook lol, that has never happened before...

Hey guys, lately Ive been discussing relationships with other men on this forum and I feel kind of disconnected from them. I am only 15, havent had many relationships, rather random ones in nursery and 1 relationship, that I would describe like 2 month true love My breakup has turned me into a better self, definitely made me do some serious work and improve my awareness. But now, my life goal to get true love marriage and children has vanished and I dont even feel like being in a relationship, I just am not attracted to anyone, or if I am, only for a short time and then it goes away. I dont have a problem with this exact thing, if I had, I would probably be broke anyways. I want to ask the guys doing pick-up, why do you do it and how does it contribute your life? My second question is about the fact, that many relationships between orange and blue people are suuuuper duuuper needy. I mean, it almost seems like an illness to me now. What is it like to be attracted on a deeper level, consciousness wise? What is your motivation to even have a partner? Maybe I will feel the urge to have something going on in a year or so, I just dont understand it now. It just feels like I am not even mature enough and nor is any woman nearby and it would just suck the time out of me, that couldve been used to watch Leo and doing the work

@8Ball Thats the reason why I think it should be exterminated from your schedule If you develop higher consiousness, you cant even fap without pain.

@Leo Gura It is quite funny and admirable at the same time that you can actually afford to be so commercial (just kidding) when you bring so much value to the table