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@Shin Isnt your horniness only a thought? It was a joke from the beginning, but we can actually have a serious conversation from that.

@Shin Its just a concept.

@billiesimon It is basically a little different from person to person. I think that most people are the same, because most people are affected by group think. To me, if the woman is attracted to the guy from the stone age perspective, then she wont leave, but if the guy is just needy low consciousness person, she will leave without any serious problems, because she realizes, that she cannot really have kids with a guy like that and her perspective was wrong. I might be wrong, this is just my point of view.

I watched Leos last video. It feels like he is talking about mindfulness meditation to me, but it feels weird that he is stressing his hand so much. Does it actually matter what we look at during the exercise? It doesnt make sense...

@MM1988 You know what would be very funny? If you learned, that you dont find any flow states in making video games and became a cult leader with a youtube channel.

@MM1988 This seems like you just want to be famous or get money... I might be wrong though... Contemplate it

@aurum He is just the perfect example of no-fapper, we should actually be proud of Shin

@WelcometoReality I understand what you mean, I have actually had some spiritual experiences at random moments while not doing the exercise! It really cannot be described, I am not surprised that many people dont get it...

@MM1988 Rather try to contemplate your motivation to do such a thing... It might actually be a negative one, but I am not putting that as a fact, its just always a good thing to do. Maybe make a computer game associated with personal growth? I dont know, it just seems like a good idea to promote self-development to hard stuck orange people.

@Charlotte @Shin I would love to have a live call with you guys. You are so funny haha. Actually no, you are just a concept, probably gonna continue watching my hand on a couch.

@Charlotte No way Charlotte

@SaltyMeatballs I planned many major life style changes. Some of the are actually valid, but sometimes, I loose my mind for a day

@TheBeachBionic Dating someone is not a bad thing, nor is being single, but dating WILL NOT solve your inner problems. First focus on yourself, then you will be able to love yourself as you are and you will also be more attractive. Thats the only thing you have to know about this.

@Flowerfaeiry I think you might be in the middle of evolution from egotistical orange and green motivations into something higher and healthier. This exact same thing was happening to mee as well a few weeks ago, then it stopped and I did some huge progress in emotional mastery.

@Wiijuu I hope so. @Galyna Your words describe my situation so perfectly... I am actually having some emotions about certain girls, but its not like I would be totally into them, its impossible. Its like that my emotional mastery cannot be hijacked. I am not discouraged by that at all, I wanna do whats the best for me. I am ok being single anyways haha. Maybe I will go even deeper into self-actualization soon and my perspective will shift once again, who knows... I probably „need“ a woman, who is into self-development as well, so we can become each others teacher. Thanks for sharing! @Serotoninluv I have 2 orange individuals in my class that are dating each other. From my point of view, they are very needy, not in a jealous way, but rather in the empathetic way. They just cannot see the limits of their relationship. Its good that you mentioned it, I used to date a green girl too, but when I was orange/blue... I did not see the reason why she broke up with me, now I do, its so simple haha. It will probably take some time to find a yellow/turquoise woman, who would date me though... Its not my primary goal either...

I am smiling too haha, feel you.

@TheBeachBionic If you want people to help with your problem, you have to be coachable first. If you create a thread and then start arguing, its a waste of time for you and us. Stop being so stubborn, be open.

@7thLetter I do scouting - there are a lot of green people there, even boys. And before I found Leo, I focused on learning languages, so I used to go to the meetings with all kinds of people. Also people studying languages are usually green, at least where I live.

@Shiva I love improving myself... It started like I had to really get to the work angry, but now its better than almost anything. I was also asking, because when I teach my friends about SD, they dont know any examples of yellow, so I kind of give them the glimpse of what it looks like from my perspective, but I am not sure if I am just talking nonsense and yellow is still beyond me. Sure, I can go deeper and center myself more in it, I dont want to put myself in the same league as Abraham Maslow or the Spiral dynamics authors haha. @Serotoninluv Having these periods too... But gradually, they are fading away

Hey guys, I have been considering myself a yellow person lately. I know, that there is still a lot of work to do for me, but you have to start from somewhere, right. Some of you might now how I think and write on this forum, so you could help me uncover the dilemma, and help me teach other people about spiral dynamics. I just want to know, if I am not the only one here who thinks, that I am not polluted anymore. I discovered the way to move into turquoise in my own contemplation now and it all seems very legitemate after a few mystical experiences. It will be a lot of hard work and I have to transcend orange, green and yellow first, but still, its a great progress for me. I had to go through many states, where I though I am yellow, but I actually were not, so I had to rebuild my mindset every single day. I am still doing that, but it doesnt seem that I am as deluded as I was before. (I am probably still deluded about many things) Leos description of higher-consciousness seems much more clear to me now and I actually know what he means, it isnt like I have to choke myself to do all these things like not pursuing certain desires and having bad emotions. It just became natural. I am also starting to feel the urge to understand and know things, I feel like I am helping people just for the sake of increasing their consciousness. When I was a victim few years ago, I wanted to help, but it was all manipulative and self-destructive for me, I didnt even know how to truly help, I was just a doormat. My motivations are much cleaner in general. I also see a shift in my behaviour, emotional mastery, perspective, friendships... The whole world seems a lot different now and I am very happy and grateful, that I am so lucky to live in a safe country. I feel a great passion for life. Is this just healthy orange/green or did I actually become yellow in like half a year? It seems all too easy for me, when I look back at it...

@Heaven First define your motivation, is it really positive, not manipulative, is it YOUR thought? Wasnt it sticked into your mind by someone else? 1) Yes - stop right there 2) No - great, try doing the things that Leo suggests, work harder than everyone else, get experience, get a mentor... Just make sure that you are not manipulative liar to yourself

@sneha Progress isnt about approval, its about moving to a state where you are dependent only on yourself, you dont need porn, you dont need a partner, you dont need ice-cream... There is no problem in the present moment. I like to watch gurus like Eckhart Tolle, Sadhguru and Mooji. Just sit there, when you are feeling down, and let their energy permeate you, you really have to be at peace and you will experience a glimpse of higher consciousness Then you wont need them and you will just be ok with doing progress yourself.

@7thLetter Its based on freaking 40 years of hardcore professional research haha. I like teaching green/orange and higher, because they are already at the top of tier 1 and they dont have to whine about going to a „meaningless“ colour. I always tell them to think about themselves as a honey melon, they have to get the peel away to get to the juicy stuff, its a really good metaphor. I am trying to build on what I have learned from Leo - how he is teaching people, I am like that pushy friend. Also its good to see the whole picture from different points of view, not just your. People are usually manipulated or disgusted by the dogmatic teachings of orange self-help gurus. Green people are also more patient, when working with orange people, they are hurrying and want to get to turquoise from the beginning and skip all the „bullshit“ because they always want to get to the top. I often like to say that there is no top, you just need to grow exponentially and continuously without stopping. On the other hand, higher stages are open to the possibility that people might also want to help them and they are serious when they say that SD can cause depression, if misunderstood. Some people are just really hard to help...

@StardewValley @DarkestLight Thanks for your support! I am keeping my beginner mindset, always open to improvement, I already noticed that when I think I am enlightened, the experience ends... Have to figure out how to actually stop thinking that... I dont have any problem with quick progress, but it gets suspicious, when it gets to fast... at least it doesnt hold me back, but gives me even greater motivation to keep going. I wish you the best of luck on your path too!

@8Ball Maybe you should let go of the counting, it seems just like another intoxication for your mind I think you already understand, why you should stop, maybe you will fail, maybe not, but eventually, you will, if you dont backslide.