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@Shin It actually is lol

@non_nothing The thing is, that you might choose a purpose with a goal. This can be dangerous, especially if you arent developed enough. You might learn something new in a week and your goal can easily go to waste...

@ajasatya I know, I just want to point that out for the people, that might be stuck down there. Sometimes it helps @Shin @Michael569 I see, its just the process of evolution. I dont know if I am helping it by creating this thread, some people might not even notice it, especially those who need it. I am not depressed about what is happening, but if more people realize that, our growth can be multiplied. @Thesingularity I still have many things to learn from Leo, but I also plan to quit watching his videos... I am just not quite there yet. I think he actually encourages us to leave after fully understanding his teachings. Some people mess up at the beginning and they just keep going the wrong direction, until they hit the rock bottom. People dont listen to the signpost, but they collect them... I think that people can get a good basics by watching the videos Leo recommends us to start with on his website, but one must be honest to themselves to do that correctly... The way is very complicated. Some people even try to do the Work before getting rid of false assumptions and addictions.

@7thLetter Thanks for actually thinking about what I wrote haha. I trasncended blue through a hard break-up, went into orange - didnt really work, then my mum showed me a brutal video about killing animals so I picked up some green values and then I just became more curious and ambicious, started watching Leo and after like half a year of everyday learning, I entered yellow. This happened in like 3 years or so... I find more value in learning useful things, applying the knowledge to my life and growing in general. I used to be pretty anti-social in the blue-orange period, then I started to see it from a different perspective and now I started working on my green more, so I have bigger sense of compassion and I can actually go out with friends and laugh, even though they dont know what I am doing basically... I dont think its the best thing to do, I still enjoy reading good books more, but I still like to laugh, share stories etc... Its just that I have a better understanding of the situation, I am funnier, more compassionate... The overall quality of my life has changed just with watching Leo. I have also cured my social anxiety and sharpened my discipline, life just feels great. @Hello from Russia @Girzo @SgtPepper I would never date an orange girl, no way. I have dated a green girl before, (when I was blue) she really was beyond my league at that stage, I have no idea why did she date me at that time haha. I think she was very mature and it wouldnt be that bad to find a similar girl, but still not optimal. I just dont get attracted so easily as I used to. @Michael569 Thanks Michael! I actually started seeing that I am more attractive just by working on myself, the world is very counter-intuitive for some people... By the way, I am working on my diet now, I know you are into that

Please stop thinking that I am blue, depressed, neurotic and craving. You have never met me in your life. You dont know what is happening inside my head, just from reading this text. I understand, how my question sounds blue, I should probably just think about it on my own, someone close this thread please. I use colour tagging, because it would be probably the same as writing out the values... I am not saying that I am 100 % yellow, I still have orange and green, but I am growing fast. Stop assuming that everyone who asks this kind of question is blue and neurotic. If you watch Leos videos, make notes, reread them and then actually do what he advices you to do, you can be so ahead of your peers. The name of this question is actually a joke, if some of you didnt get it

@Lynnel How do you know that?

Make sure you are not seeing it from a blue perspective, that would destroy you. I have this problem myself, but I still live with parents, and I dont need to hurry in that direction... I will probably solve this by developing my life purpose. (which might be more complex than you think it is, when you first think about it)

@SFRL Or I can also just wait, I am ok with being single I have just never had a healthy relationship... I dont even know, what its like

@SFRL I see what you mean, I know that its very hard, its not like a problem or something, I am just looking for perspectives of other people. Otherwise, I dont feel any stress or anything like that I am pretty sure that I am yellow, but there is still plenty of work to do...

@SFRL I want the yellow attraction from both sides, not just mine, otherwise it doesnt make sense...

@Lorcan Thanks for answering, but I think that you misunderstand my question, I am not needy or horny, I actually want a girl, that has a deep need for growth, just as I do. Socializing is not a problem of mine, same with the lack of sleep. Stop making out things in your head! I would never date a casual girl that I would probably find in a bar, I hate meaningless partying...

@YaNanNallari I did not say that I am not improving myself or that I am not social

@Shin I can watch my hand the whole day, if I do certain things, like chaining myself, suppressing pain...

@Shin Should I just go mad with the challenge or should I play fair?

Its great, that you know that, it can get you to yellow in no time, if you stop backsliding and grow every single day! Relationships are very counter-intuitive, you actually have to improve yourself in order to attract others, not focus only at attracting others... I mean, things like nofap, quitting addictions, meditation can really make you have better testosterone and dopamine levels as well as attractive body language and clearer mind, its not something conceptual, you will actually feel it very vividly.

@tyler7415 You arent interested in diet and health, are you? A better way to be healthy and live longer is to prevent disease, before it occurs... If you „enjoy“ your life eating crap and then spend everything on your deathbed, just to die... Medicin is at the top, when it comes to causes of death.

@Mikael89 Love yourself, if you cannot love other people You cannot betray or stab yourself in the back, if you are honest enough.

@Pelin Just do the things, that you arent ashamed of

@Thesingularity You should probably embody the things from lower stages - beige = health and meditation, purple = relationships, red = motivation, purpose, blue = healthy principles, orange = leadership skills, green = compassion, these are pretty important things, but you shouldnt think that they will make you happy, its just part of the growth, Leo was into pick-up once too...

@Nahm Ok... you made me think about myself, I probably still have some bad eating habits. Thank you Nahm!

Hey everyone, I have finally achieved the state where I can meditate for an hour every single day. It was just too painful before... The problem is, that in the process, I have lost the track of my diet. I have already tried vegan, vegetarian and even fruitarian. I have come to the conclusion, that being a fruitarian is not the best idea, because my stomach just hurts. Veganism was so hard that I had to think about it all the time and it was kinda hard in social meetings as well. Vegetarianism is the one that suits me the best, because it is quite easy. But then I go out to explore and I find out, that my keto diet is saving my aunt from death (she is suffering from a serious disease and her husband is a scientist in that field) and some people are eating pranic diets in order to become even more spiritual and the list goes on. I would really love to know, if you have experience with any extraordinary way of eating, please let me know! I want to optimize the benefits of my meditation and I am really willing to go try hard on this one.

Can someone tell me, why do you keep justifying porn? Have you actually experienced the benfits of no-fap? It just seems like a sign of neuroticism.

@Ingit I guess stop talking about enlightenment, a zen master would hit you with a stick. You can only see it yourself

@Nahm Do you mean breatharian is the way to go? (I am actually not sarcastic here)

LP is great if you want to contribute humanity. You will do better job contributing humanity, if you teach yourself some social skills and developing healthy orange. Its really the combination of many fields, the perfect example is Elon Musk.