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More than every second woman have been sexually assaulted, some sources claim it is in the 90+ percentages, although this is not easy to track because of the stigma associated with being a victim and the death threats victims get etc. Trauma is serious and fear also, it is very hard not to generalize it.

@Leilani I am sorry you seemed to have experienced some bad trips and post-mystical experiences. If you wanna talk, I am here. Just stay committed to whatever you are seeking and take time to focus on yourself.

@itachi uchiha Humans are highly irrational, emotional, unpredictable... They are also the opposite of that, but they cannot be easily captured by systems. Different things apply to different people.

I don't think RedPill is not good if you are looking for something long term, because there are certain ideologies in RedPill that might keep you from getting to know somebody fully, as you might keep assuming things about them. It might also hurt many people if they realize what you subscribe to.

I think we really need to remind ourselves that this forum is meant to be a resource that facilitates growth. It is not a kind of medium that supports bias like most of the other media. In my opinion, there are many forgiving girls on this forum, like very very forgiving. They create a really good environment for men who are struggling like this to grow. In my experience, growth mindset and dedication to it is attractive/desired and also necessary in any kind of relationship, platonic, romantic or sexual. The issue is the people who are not here to grow. I guess growth can be scary but it is rewarding.

Psychedelics can do some stupidly crazy shit to your body and mind, like unimaginably weird, incomprehensible. But they can also cause damage in the "human" realm. Just like Leo said in his latest video on this topic, don't make any major decisions while high or in the afterglow of the high, it could literally just destroy your life, because you might do some stupid things you would certainly regret. There is a reason why these substances are illegal, it is not just purely dumb and unconscious. Just don't go into these higher doses, just don't. If you want to hear how horrible they can be, there are some stories of people who just disappeared or went batshit crazy on yotube. You could also get full-blown schizophrenia instead of just fluid visual field.

@Leo Gura Thank you for sharing your experiences I am sorry for being unclear there. What I meant was, psychedelics can sometimes impair one's cognitive functions and language abilities, during the trip and even during the after-glow. Could it be that the what one sees while tripping is not possible to grasp by the cognitive functions and language sometimes? Definitely, I agree with that, but I still think that it is a combination of both, as it has previously happened to me that I got confused by a small thing while on a trip and later worded it in a comprehensive way. I do not mean rationalizing spiritual insights to fit into the materialist paradigm, but perhaps more so things that were related to the paradigm I held and the psychedelics inflated it into extreme measures, making it seem crazy, or perhaps past experiences, behaviors or traumas that I was not conscious of that resurfaced on the trip that I was not able to understand at first. Sometimes if these two connect, it can create serious confusion, but as I am writing this, I am realizing that it can be both a part of the process of weeding out certain thoughts and beliefs but also it might be pointing at something deeper by itself.

@Leo Gura I have also been shown some things that I was very confused about when I became conscious of them. Never on small doses though, but than that is relative from person to person. Sometimes 100 micrograms of LSD can be too much. I guess it can still be beneficial for self-understanding, but it seems still kind of dangerous. Have you noticed yourself being better at evaluating what kind of dose might traumatize you with more experience? How do you keep yourself from overthinking nonsense while integrating?

@Leo Gura Have psychs ever given you trauma? I think this is an important thing to address, changeing sense of self can be traumatizing, not only in the consciousness-expanding desirable kind of sense. I would really enjoy if you elaborated on this.

It can look like crazy overworking. Sadhguru for example travels so much it might be unbearable for an average person, he also sleeps very little. Lots of public speaking etc. Very heavy on energy. But another mystic might be an engineer.

@Epikur Yes but I was responding to your point about stronger tribe getting destroyed, you can have a strong tribe or whatever with gay rights. I do not think US is very progressive in like all areas, but in terms of gay rights, yes, and I do not see how that is a bad thing.

@Marcel People with intrusive thoughts are actually very unlikely to do anything

@Epikur What even is the point of quoting these sources? I do not understand. Are you aware that the people killed were mostly not westerners, but Middle-Eastern civilians?

@Epikur Do you think equal rights for everyone is also a significant measure of development of a country, or is it just about surviving? You can survive with queer rights these days, the countries that have the most equality are one of the richest and safest. You can prevent STIs using preventive measures if you want to prevent disease and death. But queer people are not more likely to be dangerous than a cis straight person. However, they are more likely to be dangerous to themselves, as they kill themselves more often. Why do you think that is?

@tsuki Amazing point, thank you for this.

I guess there are certain locations where you could find a partner more easily than in others. Probably in Brazil you will have a better chance than in Afghanistan or Pakistan, where you might not see any women outside at all and flirting with them could get you killed. @eaaaeaeae Red Pill and Black Pill are banned on this forum, it is not allowed to spread nonsense and victim mindset. Why are you posting about this, why do you believe such limiting things?

@eaaaeaeae Would you like to live in a society where you have to stay inside at night while others can freely move around without feeling any fear of being raped? Do you think not educating people about consent, not trying to understand their emotional needs, their views of reality while also trying to put a curfew on half of the population would be a fair policy? Don't you think it is worth to have a vision of a better future and act to actualize it? We are not erradicating rape by having discussions here, but still, we can prevent some rape and educate some people at least, I consider that serious personal development.

@Akemrelax Because many of the people who criticize hold misogynistic, anti-feminist, transphobic, racist views. Way too many victim mindset Red Pilled people here, I see right through them. They are not criticizing Green from above. What these views basically do is that they dehumanize certain people, because they are different. I simply think that on this forum, we can learn from such diversities and include people coming from minority groups and learn from their experiences, instead of dehumanizing them. I do not agree that most of the members agree that Blue and Orange are destroying the world, most of the members are Orange. Or perhaps they do actually agree, but they are to a high degree unconscious of their Orange biases. Once this forum becomes more Green, I will start becoming offended by criticisms of Yellow, but we cannot skip stages.

More new content incoming soon. I am currently in Guwahati, which is a rather unexplored territory of India to most tourists, quite a unique experience. I am living with a Hindu family of my girlfriend, travelling everyday, taking motorcycle rides... I am currently quite busy, but once I have some free time, I will start posting a lot here. If anyone has any advice on how to write a blog, please DM me.

Hello readers, I decided to write a journal about my experience with living and studying in India as a European teenager. I will post some stories and insights here, it has been a wild ride so far. Enjoy!

Today my girlfriend's mum gave me a motorcycle ride in the morning. She said: There is a big Ganesha temple on the left. I said: Ganesha is an elephant, nah? She said: It is God! I said: Oh, okay, I get it.

@Epikur Depends on how you define development.

@Epikur Countries with better LGBTQ+ rights are the most successful in fact. @Akemrelax I do not respect criticizing green from below. There is so much of it on this forum. Look at all this homophobia, transphobia on this thread. Horrible devilry. I do not get the sense that people here understand green. Why does people fighting for their rights offend you? Are you mad?

@Akemrelax @Akemrelax Progressives maybe get identity wrong if you look at identity from your spiritual paradigm. But then progressives usually do not kill people because of their identity, that is why we say they make progress, because this currently happens in every society. People hating each other because of race, gender, religion... Criticizing them is of little to no use. You're attached to your privileged identity.

@Karmadhi You are idealizing women. They are just as uneducated and full of struggles. They are not automatically able to select people who are good for them. They are not omniscient perfect godesses. Do you think you base your value and the value of other people according to the quantity of sexual experiences they have had because of pressure or because of your own feeling and ideology? So many of these PUAs come out to be depressed because they are not authentic. They just chase somebody else's values and ideals. Sex is good and fine, but like how you look at it and how you experience it can change and it makes a big difference.