Shadowraix
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To me if bringing this up would make him defensive and hard to approach then there is definitely some ego there that needs work. I would recommend starting there. It will help him be more receptive to ideas.
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Considering your previous posts on this forum, you don't seem content with not being in a relationship. You also have expressed a lot of self-esteem issues. Are you thinking having a partner will fix you? It won't. You'll become dependent on them which will only result in suffering.
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As someone who is polyamorous I think the poly viewpoint comes from realizing that your capacity to love is not restricted to one person and that sexual exclusivity is a "rule" that is only valid and meaningful if you make it so. I realized I only cared about exclusivity and some kind of twisted "ownership" side of relationships because thats what I was taught relationships are. Why should an intimate relationship be broken simply because they aren't the only one I am intimate with? Is it the desire to feel special? The desire to have the person all to yourself? If I drop those notions I then see the poly viewpoint. I see it as being less attached to things in a regard. I think a lot of the people who end up cheating on their partner have some kind of polyamorous feelings but it is demonized by society and you have to let go/question a lot of notions on how you want a relationship formed which can be difficult to do. Being polyamorous though managing multiple intimate relationships can be difficult so I have really never attempted it, I just recognize my capacity to be intimate with more than one partner. You can see this capacity among people/stories who love 2 people and have to decide between one of them. I'd say open relationships also go hand in hand with most polys as well. As a society, I definitely think monogamy is the safer route to go. A lot of people still can't handle a monogamous relationship in a healthy manner, so I can't even begin to think how dysfunctional an open or poly relationship would be.
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Shadowraix replied to non_nothing's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Simply because I (God) have set in motion for many people to be interested in awareness/oneness This human body experience I am aware of is doing exactly as I intended it to. I'm sure I will be conscious of what I am doing at some point. When I merge back with the infinite as one whole. (ego death) -
Shadowraix replied to moon777light's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I don't desire suffering, probably never will. But after realizing I moralized by drawing circles and labeling them as good and evil I was able to drop them and become more in tune with my desires so I don't need some rulebook like morality. It has also helped me handle all the suffering in the world by realizing it is exactly as it should be (reality is only as it should be) and to no longer demonize them, but rather act from a place of total unconditional love. I don't want to reduce suffering for only the people I like, but for everyone regardless of what they have done. Your ability to love the hard to love things reflects your progress towards unconditional love reaching a higher conscious state. Its an incredibly bitter pill, one I have yet to fully swallow, But so far I have found it insightful and beneficial to my growth. -
Shadowraix replied to Mafortu's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Bingo. Moderation in everything. Teach yourself self-discipline and you'll be fine. -
Personally MDMA was a huge help in me realizing some childhood trauma in relation to my capacity to accept receiving love.
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There are many plausible explanations to what people observe and call chem-trails as well as some complications with how its being spread. (Definitely not going through the engine) If the government was doing something like that it definitely wouldn't be your regular airlines plane.
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Basically how I met my current girlfriend of over 1yr strong now.
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Shadowraix replied to herghly's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I would imagine anybody who is super in tune with their paranormal powers would try and keep it on a low profile. -
Shadowraix replied to Tony 845's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I've heard of people having side effects of kundalini awakenings even a year after having it. What you're experiencing I speculate is no different. You can Google "3rd eye pulsating" and already get a dozen different discussions on this topic. -
Shadowraix replied to ItO's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Repetition is the greatest tool to programming the subconscious. -
Shadowraix replied to herghly's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Infinity would not be infinity without psychic powers. Its another story if any person has experienced psychic powers. -
Shadowraix replied to Brivido's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Trying to accomplish your intention and not achieving it is what you typically call a mistake. Intention can be used as an excuse, but it can also be used as a behavioral correction mechanism. -
Being conservative in the usage of eco-harmful products is often a luxury of more populated areas. Try living in a town of 6k people. Especially of low wealth.
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I don't see this at all. In fact I find a lot of things in the English language annoying and inconsistent to deal with. There are many edge cases and it seems like most debates end up in nonsense because both parties are using different definitions of a word or using it in an entirely different context. And don't get me started on the notion of introducing gender before addressing things. Albeit i'd be surprised if there is any language at all I am content with.
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You tell me what enlightenment is. You can only suffer from those things if you acknowledge them as bad and/or resist what happened.
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Only one way to find out. Remember that just because one person says its a bad idea from their experience (or maybe even speculation) doesn't mean that necessarily applies to you.
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Think of relativity as seeing one side of the coin, except that coin can have many sides. lol One person can find a person attractive, another can find the same person unattractive. Ultimately one facet of the absolute would be they hold both qualities and those two people are seeing one of the qualities but not the other.
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What brought this up in the first place? Why do you think reading 2 of them at the same time can be problematic?
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Maybe you are taking these things too literally? They certainly can be signs of dependency, but I can also see another perspective of using such phrases as exaggerations to display emotion. Obviously in personal development one will probably grow out of saying those things, but the severity of such expressions may not be as bad as one originally thinks. Communication is really the only way there to get intent across.
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Thats an iffy statement. Who you are never changes, but the mold you take on, shaped by experience, does. @Torkys Good shit. Maybe dating advice can be more beneficial by allowing more perspectives to be considered than telling them how to directly act in front of others.
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I had built a pretty decent reputation for myself as being an overall cool person to be around. When I think back to very hot girls I have attracted it always was just me being me. I can be shy and reserved but I found girls liked that mystery aspect of me. I also found being able to play therapist being very helpful. I mean I listened to them with only intent to help them feel better but then they'd develop a crush and so on. I treated them like any other friend. When you're really attractive you get a different reaction from a lot of people and I do speculate some may seek that sort of normality equal treatment thing. But this is all my experience. Gotta handle every case uniquely. Be flexible.
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Does bullshit still exist when there is no one to perceive it as such?
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Why does it matter? Be who you want to be not who others want you to be.