Andreas

Yes, that is indeed a problem. You basicly have 3 alternatives. 1. Get a longterm relationship and leave this pickuplifestyle forever. 2. Move to another country where you can live normally. 3. Become a social justice warrior to avenge the women. This is the counter-intuitive move (lol). This will look stupid at first but will get you a lot of female friends. Bonus: Join the "men going their own way" movement and start living inside your comfortzone while watching Jordan Peterson daily. Never stop complaining, never take responsibility.

I've watched some of his videos and some discussions on here and im still confused. Is he a cult leader? Or is it a stage Coral movement?

Yes, he deleted my thread.

Cult leader spotted

What do you think about always voting for the person you like the least? I thought it would be a nice idea but i got a lot of criticism recently. The strategy is basicly if you want person A to win you vote for person B. And if you dislike person C even more than person B you vote for C. That way people will be made more conscious of the limitations of person C and he won’t have really have a chance next time. However if you where the most unconscious, and C had the best perspective, then person C will get more power and steer the people into higher levels of development. If that’s the case then I would vote for A next year. What’s your opinion? I don’t want this to be political as i know it is against the rules.

I think there is a difference between ideological values and education.

I think that’s partly true. But the strategy could increase our collective consciousness faster on a longer timeframe. If we just have the more developed side win (let’s say green) it could take a lot of time before we arrive there because orange wasn’t fully ready for a change.

Yes I always thought it was the best strategy but what about collective backlashes? Wouldn’t this be more effective longterm? For example in a stage orange society like America that currently has a stage orange president.

Now that i think about it you could also do rotations. You could vote for who you really wanted to win one year, and the next apply the counter-intuitive strategy. Is this a stage yellow democracy? If everyone voted like this I think we would make progress a lot faster!

Im not too old but i made a mistake. Don't get into a serious relationship before you are ready for it. It will mess with your mind and development.

Yeah I think she is stage red/narcissistic. She will probably have a horrible life.

That’s why we use the definition from the video. Just like NPD is specified in the DSM.

The one from the video, obviously.

This is actually a really nice exercise for creativity! But im too bad so i can’t But why did you name it lego mind?

Please post your highest value and give a short explanation of why. This can become a really useful thread. Il start: My highest value is discomfort. I value this because i found it to produce a lot of results if it's done correctly. Mental or physical discomfort should be pursued every day to maintain discipline, health and wisdom.

Concentrate really hard on what you are going to achieve 10 seconds from now. When you achieve your goals for some time it will get addicting. You get into flow. Then you can start focusing on a minute or an hour. If you can’t start getting into flow then try some motivation. Repeat this with consistancy and you will develop a stronger and stronger drive to achieve your goals.

Maybe the cup expands slightly every time it’s full.

I don't know. Some professor that's really into whistleblowing talked about the importance of genetics in that but personally I think that the environment has a really big impact. If a person is able to change their environment it could change them more permanently. It's like if a person has problems with money and relationships it would be a lot harder to sustain discipline towards mastery than if it the person had reduced their discomfort. It's like having a maximum capasity to sustain discomfort.

Haha I think it's a powerful value. I think if it's done right it can be the key to mastery.

Because a turquoise person doesn't care about what people think of them. And they are way beyond survival.

Honestly, if you are beyond Turquoise you wouldn't really have this defensive argument.

Is there a video? I want to see Leo from actualized.org

Video..?

Nice

In short: Protection over destruction.